Hey all,
I've been here before but it was yeaaarssss ago before I started my transition. I'm rejoining now though! I'm glad to be back, too, I missed having a community (I'm stealth and sometimes I hate not having others to talk to). Since I'm stealth now I just figured I'd make a new name, hope that's cool.
I'm Tendaji, late 20s, and 6th year into transition, and I'm somewhat inbetween. I prefer male pronouns, and I have done my hysto, top surgery, and I'm currently 5 years on T. My family has long since claimed me as son/brother, but we have so many other issues that it almost seems moot... What family doesn't though I guess... I have been feeling really low lately because I feel like an in between, and I am still not 100% my version of happy though who knows what that feels like. I haven't had a RL girlfriend in years mainly because of my physical discomfort and fear of letting people in..
At any rate, I'm glad to be back, nice to meet all of you!
Hi Tendaji and welcome back. Congratulations on your transitioning. It takes time and patience to get to where you want so stay the course. In the meantime, work on the areas that need improvement.
:)
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Thank you for the welcome!!
Not really sure where to go from here, but I'll find my way around again :D
Welcome back, Tendaji! It's like riding a bicycle, you never forget. See you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
Tendaji
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Welcome back, Tendaji!
Hugs,
Stephanie
Hi there and welcome back! :)
Welcome back to Susans, dear :)