Hi Girls What where the signs that You where approaching the stage that You could no longer Pass as stealth .I have had several signs that
people are noticing changes in me and comenting .Not nastilly but indicating their suspicions that I have changed and may be changing teams expecially at work .What where the first signs that You where getting to that stage
I have coworkers asking about my style of dressing and facial hair. I've not really been on HRT very long either. I suspect people know. My bosses and HR all know though.
I think the main thing for me was after a period of annual leave at work (four weeks), I don't know what happened in that time but my coworkers thought I'd had a facelift lol. But seriously I think it was the change in skin. As I started to also push the envelope with both ears pierced and longer hair, I had a few people gossiping that maybe I had turned gay, the fact I have four children really had them puzzled though. But for me I don't think its male fail, as I understand male fail to simply be the fact I can no longer pass as a guy. I unfortunately can, just a really feminine gay one apparently ;D
I started work with my long hair and pierced ears and began electro two months after starting and hormones after three. The changes are definitely getting harder to hide. My complexion has changed, my body shape is changing and the tenting of my scrub tops gets noticed daily. I'm very much aware of where eyes are looking. I'm at male fail until I talk so voice is the first thing I would like done.