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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: andie1002 on December 18, 2014, 02:37:14 AM

Title: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: andie1002 on December 18, 2014, 02:37:14 AM
Pre-op masturbation, Is this a big no no? Will it transform me back and make me look like a man again!? But it feels sooooooo good!. . .

Angels!, should this be stopped? WIll all of ur estrogens be put to waste if you masturbate!?

Share your thoughts. . .

Stay happy and gorgeous!
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Jill F on December 18, 2014, 02:47:29 AM
You have nothing to worry about in that department.

Fap away! 
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: kelly_aus on December 18, 2014, 02:56:10 AM
Some around here will tell you it's a no no. But even many of the surgeons will tell you, 'Use it or lose it.'

Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Jill F on December 18, 2014, 02:59:01 AM
Quote from: kelly_aus on December 18, 2014, 02:56:10 AM
Some around here will tell you it's a no no. But even many of the surgeons will tell you, 'Use it or lose it.'

^^THIS TOO^^

After I went "balls out" I still make sure everything works every day without fail whether I want/need to or not.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: andie1002 on December 18, 2014, 03:21:19 AM
I know right! I used to have this strange feeling that i after let the water out, estrogens will follow. Ughh! So cray cray.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: traci_k on December 18, 2014, 01:18:02 PM
From what I had been reading, masturbation will have virtually no effect. You will not lose Estrogen, unfortunately nor will it reduce T levels. Also as Kelly said, I have read that many doctors suggest that to have orgasms post-op, it is good to keep the pre-op orgasms happening too. Yes, use it or lose it.

The only drawback I might envision is what is going through your mind as you practice? Would you be seeing yourself as male when you are female. That could cause some dysphoria.

Hugs and Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy!
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Clhoe G on December 18, 2014, 02:08:33 PM
 :D great question, I was worried about it for a bit, but I was also worried about losing that function, I even did lose it on cyproterone, but all's good now.

People will try to tell you "masturbating increases testosterone n DHT" or some garbage like "masturbating made me look more masculine" but it's totally bull, the amount of testosterone produced in masturbation is extremely tiny, it's not even enough to grow a single hair.

For the most part the only people that don't n won't are those that are totally dysphoric about it.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on December 18, 2014, 05:31:53 PM
Orgasms are good for you! They will NOT make you lose your femininity, or shrink your breasts, or curve your spine, or lose the war for the allies. Have them, and have them often.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Jill F on December 18, 2014, 05:38:24 PM
*shaves palms*
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Lady_Oracle on December 18, 2014, 06:25:10 PM
Lol Jill..

Like others have said, there really are no negatives to it other than how you personally feel about it like if it causes you dysphoria. I still do it to maintain my length so it I get the best possible depth for surgery and it feels good, even though it can hurt sometimes. Then again it does cause me dysphoria sometimes too eh its a love/hate thing I guess :-\

Not touching your outie at all will cause muscle atrophy. Basically it shrinks, which isn't so bad since a lot of surgeons are able to make up for what you're missing by doing a skin graft, like from your thigh.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: JoanneB on December 18, 2014, 06:55:43 PM
The dangly bits and I have had some great times together  :o
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Eyie on December 18, 2014, 07:12:51 PM
I'm not gonna lie totally wanted to ask this myself for awhile lol. Definitely good to know!  ;)
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: michelle gee on December 18, 2014, 09:22:03 PM
You may go blind.  :o
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: Wynternight on December 18, 2014, 11:17:35 PM
Quote from: michelle gee on December 18, 2014, 09:22:03 PM
You may go blind.  :o

I stopped when I needed glasses.
Title: Re: Mtf pre-op masturbation, is this a no-no | andie
Post by: andie1002 on December 19, 2014, 12:26:21 AM
Thanks angels!!!! Love love love