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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Whynaut on December 28, 2014, 03:14:04 AM

Title: For guys who date guys.
Post by: Whynaut on December 28, 2014, 03:14:04 AM
Hey all,
I have an OKCupid date tomorrow and it's my first date with a guy as a guy. I'm really nervous. I guess what I'm looking for is advice on any differences I should be aware of. I've dated guys as a "girl" before, so how is this different, if at all?  I just feel like I don't know what I'm doing... Any advice at all would be appreciated.
Title: Re: For guys who date guys.
Post by: sneakersjay on December 28, 2014, 07:44:39 AM
Just be yourself, try to relax, and have fun!   And try not to worry about anything beyond this one date.

Good luck!
Title: Re: For guys who date guys.
Post by: Whynaut on December 28, 2014, 11:56:53 AM
Haha, thanks. That's always good advice. I was just somehow letting my nerves get the best of me.
Title: Re: For guys who date guys.
Post by: sneakersjay on December 28, 2014, 08:14:38 PM
Dating is HARD.  I hate it.  I gave up on online dating and finally met someone awesome in person by getting involved in community activities.  I did have one successful relationship from OK Cupid (18+ months).

Good luck!