Hi everyone I just wanted to share a story that I experienced recently and was wondering if others have experienced the same as me. I'm at 50 days post op and was dilating with the large as normal when I started getting pleasurable sensations when stirred (dynamic). This sparked my curiosity and I started sliding it in and out. Well low and behold after being a bit uncomfortable the pleasure continued to build until I was inserting at high speed and was in sweet unbelievable bliss until I actually tipped over the edge and ended up having a vaginal orgasm.
What's strange to me is not only did I achieve one without any clitoral stimulation and at only 50 days post op but with a dilator of all things. Not that I'm complaining but has this happened to anyone else? I doubt this is a normal occurrence.
With love x
Congrats.
I just can't think of the dilators that way... but I've managed it with a vibrator in a similar fashion. You're just lucky, I guess. :)
(And vaginal penetration can cause indirect clitoral stimulation in cis women, so you may be lucky that way as well; I can definitely feel that penetration is also stimulating the whole vulva.)
congrats.. it vaginal orgasm's are amazing hey.. and when you achieve multiple orgasms that even better
female orgasms are way better than male ones...
How exciting! which kind of OP did you have?
Paige:
Yup! Fun, ain't it?
It takes me longer to find the right spot and to have an orgasm. My doctor (McGuinn), said that my prostate would be my G-spot. And there is quite a lot of evidence that cis-women have similar nerve bundles that envelope the same area of the vagina as it develops.
You may have noticed a discharge during your orgasm. If so, that is seminal fluid that is secreted by the prostate from orgasm or massage (vaginal penetration).
The nerves from the prostate are not affected by GCS and are transmitted by a different set of nerves to the brain.
Enjoy!!!
-Sandy
omg! yesss! thank u soo much!
I was worried since my clit is soooo high above the vaginal hole that my sex life was screwed! since i dont actually know much about how orgasms work its soo good to hear this story! I'm nearly 30 days post.
im wondering maybe since its prostate simulation what the role of HRT is in all this? like if i was only on HRT for one year before having SRS (even tho im still on HRT) will that affect the orgasm occuring... cos I'm pretty sure hormones affect the sensitivity of the prostate right?
p.s. and also damn for me, im nowhere near large dilator at my stage!
Quote from: 2124abc on January 02, 2015, 04:06:46 PM
omg! yesss! thank u soo much!
I was worried since my clit is soooo high above the vaginal hole that my sex life was screwed! since i dont actually know much about how orgasms work its soo good to hear this story! I'm nearly 30 days post.
im wondering maybe since its prostate simulation what the role of HRT is in all this? like if i was only on HRT for one year before having SRS (even tho im still on HRT) will that affect the orgasm occuring... cos I'm pretty sure hormones affect the sensitivity of the prostate right?
p.s. and also damn for me, im nowhere near large dilator at my stage!
There are two types of female orgasms. The first, clitoral orgasm, is similar to the male orgasm which is transmitted via the nerves at the head of the penis and is used to create your clitoris. Depending on your physical dimensions and sexual position, and partner, you may experience a clitoral orgasm during sexual activity. This is similar to cis-women who may or may not experience a clitoral orgasm during sex.
The second, vaginal orgasm, occurs via vaginal stimulation and penetration. It is speculated that surrounding the entrance of the vagina are sensory nerves that are transmitted via the pudendal nerve bundle. This tissue in the foetus develops into the prostate in males and the G-spot in females. Realize that we are all start as female in the womb and sexual dimorphism doesn't start to occur until the sixth week of pregnancy.
The prostate is not affected by GCS surgery and remains in it's original position. As a result it ends up near the entrance of your vagina. Though instead of surrounding the vagina like a ring, it becomes a knob or button near the top of the vagina just inside the entrance. Stimulation of the prostate is similar to the stimulation a cis-woman experiences during vaginal penetration.
A vaginal orgasm takes longer to occur and the physical feelings are quite different than a clitoral/penile orgasm. Clitoral orgasms appear to feel like a building sensation that results in a feeling of release. A vaginal orgasm is more like an itch that results in fulfillment, satiation, and a bodily tingling sensation.
The effect of HRT reduces the size of the prostate, but not the number of nerves. So stimulation is the same regardless of your estradial/testosterone ratio.
Also, the size and depth of your vagina actually is not an important goal. All that is necessary is to be able to have comfortable, satisfying intercouse with your partner. It is not necessary to have a vagina that is like a section of the Alaskan Pipeline unless your partner's name is Trigger. The primary purpose of dilation is to prevent the tissue of the neo-vagina from healing closed during recovery of surgery. Expanding the size and depth of the vagina prepares you for sexual activity, but again, it shouldn't be an end unto itself.
-Sandy
I just find this all so encouraging! Thanks for sharing your experiences!
So far, I've only had vaginal orgasms. And for me, it's not the "right spot" that gets the job done, it's about speed. Weird, huh?
Quote from: Paige0000 on January 01, 2015, 11:02:16 PM
Hi everyone I just wanted to share a story that I experienced recently and was wondering if others have experienced the same as me. I'm at 50 days post op and was dilating with the large as normal when I started getting pleasurable sensations when stirred (dynamic). This sparked my curiosity and I started sliding it in and out. Well low and behold after being a bit uncomfortable the pleasure continued to build until I was inserting at high speed and was in sweet unbelievable bliss until I actually tipped over the edge and ended up having a vaginal orgasm.
What's strange to me is not only did I achieve one without any clitoral stimulation and at only 50 days post op but with a dilator of all things. Not that I'm complaining but has this happened to anyone else? I doubt this is a normal occurrence.
With love x
Wow, you have better luck than my wife (who's cis woman), hah! I've so many fears right now that I'm only thinking that far down the line in a very periphery manner, not truly believing I'll ever achieve that dream but I still wonder about the orgasm post-op. So many encouraging things on this site!
By the way... your profile pic is very appropriate for this thread. :angel:
I have had vaginal orgasms and when feel that bodily tingling sensation, I always feel so relaxed and I just want to lay there.. with a big smile on my face... and I fall asleep a very satisfied woman.
Quote from: noleen111 on January 11, 2015, 01:50:14 AM
I have had vaginal orgasms and when feel that bodily tingling sensation, I always feel so relaxed and I just want to lay there.. with a big smile on my face... and I fall asleep a very satisfied woman.
Yep it is such a satisfying feeling :). Had a little awkward moment yesterday though, was practicing different positions and half way through mum must have come home because when I hit the big O I couldn't stop screaming in pleasure and she rushes in worried I was in pain! Oh the awkwardness that followed lol.
It took me about 10 months to finaly get there, but E Schrang did the two step process, so healing was X 2. there was sensation but orgasms were not obtainable in that time frame.
I had that post surgical nerve deafness associated with many surgeries, but thank god that was short term.
the biggies for me to get used to were the lightning bolts, and then the spontanious, out of the clear blue sky orgasms. they both were intersting and lasted about a year before they stopped.
after that it was and is clear sailing.