Hi Everyone,
Here's one of my many stories, this one i don't know what to make of it. I felt utterly embarrassed. Anyway, i walk into a bar dressed as a girl and i'm meeting with my brother and my sister in law. I'm inviting my sister in law out to dinner for her B-day. Anyway, the bouncer asked for my ID, because i am new at transitioning i didn't know what to make of it. So i handed him my driver's license and he looked at the picture and he looked back at me. I looked at him and i said "Look, i know that photo no longer matches my appearance but that's the old me." He gave me back my ID and i walked away. I had dinner and on my way out i noticed that he was talking to the hostess but i didn't even hear the conversation they were having. My brother has better hearing than i did. I said good night to my brother and sister in law. When i got home my brother text me.
Him: Hey are you okay?
Me: Yeah, I'm fine. Why?
HIm: Well, That bouncer was gossiping to the hostess telling her that you're a guy because of your license.
Me: Well that guy's a dick and he obviously doesn't respect trans people. Thanks for the heads up.
After that i never went back. I refuse to go back to that bar until i am able to change my license sex, name and photo.
At this point i keep thinking about this moment and i still don't know what to make of it.
Just one of those things Hon.
I wouldn't even worry about it, get your ID's changed and it is all over.
Quote from: Monika the diva on January 10, 2015, 02:16:44 AM
At this point i keep thinking about this moment and i still don't know what to make of it.
You pass.
If you didn't, the bouncer wouldn't have felt the need to point out your status to the hostess - it would have been obvious, right?