Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Katie J on January 19, 2015, 12:42:00 PM

Title: Vacation confidence booster
Post by: Katie J on January 19, 2015, 12:42:00 PM
Wow, it's been a whole minute since I last posted here, but I had something I wanted to share. I went to visit my brother back in Colorado last week as I also had a dr appointment in Denver and I was able to see some of my friends while I was there. I used to work at a Starbucks by a mall (still work for Starbucks, just in Houston now) and happened to stop by both my old store and the store inside of the mall that I occasionally worked at. I got ma'am the entire time and after talking to the people I knew there and when they realized who I was they were shocked (in a good way!) and said that they didn't even recognize me and that they were really happy for me and my transition (our store and they're store are really close) and it was this moment that made me realize just how much progress I am making! Definitely a confidence booster!(:
Title: Re: Vacation confidence booster
Post by: Ms Grace on January 19, 2015, 02:04:34 PM
That's great! Sometimes we can see our own progress because we're with it every minutes of every day. People who haven't seen you in a while are much more likely to notice the effects.
Title: Re: Vacation confidence booster
Post by: AbbyKat on January 19, 2015, 02:27:04 PM
Quote from: Katie J on January 19, 2015, 12:42:00 PM
Wow, it's been a whole minute since I last posted here, but I had something I wanted to share. I went to visit my brother back in Colorado last week as I also had a dr appointment in Denver and I was able to see some of my friends while I was there. I used to work at a Starbucks by a mall (still work for Starbucks, just in Houston now) and happened to stop by both my old store and the store inside of the mall that I occasionally worked at. I got ma'am the entire time and after talking to the people I knew there and when they realized who I was they were shocked (in a good way!) and said that they didn't even recognize me and that they were really happy for me and my transition (our store and they're store are really close) and it was this moment that made me realize just how much progress I am making! Definitely a confidence booster!(:

That's so awesome.  You should definitely feel accomplished from that.  I'm hoping to get to the stage where people I use to know won't even recognize me.  It'll make things easier to stay in my town, heh heh.
Title: Re: Vacation confidence booster
Post by: lilredneckgirl on January 19, 2015, 07:15:08 PM
Cudos.    both  on  the  acceptance  you  received,  and,  in  my  opinion,   for  the  confadence  to  walk  back  in  there  in  the  first  place !!!!  major  step  to  be  really  really  proud  of.