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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Legal Matters => Topic started by: jody2015 on February 08, 2015, 07:16:16 AM

Title: name title
Post by: jody2015 on February 08, 2015, 07:16:16 AM
i am looking to change my name by deedpoll and im wondering about title. as i am just into transition i really didnt want ms but ive seen the newer mx. i wonder if anyone else uses this title. i would plant to change it ms when the time comes but id like to loose the mr.
Title: Re: name title
Post by: LordKAT on February 08, 2015, 07:32:14 AM
Is it required that you use a title?
Title: Re: name title
Post by: jody2015 on February 08, 2015, 07:35:31 AM
a lot of the companies and establishments want one. i dont want to use ms yet im not ready but i want to loose the mr.  a lot of online forms ect wont accept nothing.
Title: Re: name title
Post by: tgchar21 on February 08, 2015, 10:24:18 AM
@LordKAT, she's in the UK where a title might have legal standing (unlike in the US where it's just usually considered a courtesy).
Title: Re: name title
Post by: Leila on February 08, 2015, 10:57:54 AM
There is no legal requirement to have an honorific title expressed in a deed poll. How you address yourself is entirely up to you.

The use of 'Ms' is a complicated one. My partner uses Ms and many organisations get it wrong for her. She gets called anything from Miss, Mrs or sometimes when they get it right - Ms.
Title: Re: name title
Post by: LordKAT on February 08, 2015, 07:26:33 PM
Quote from: tgchar21 on February 08, 2015, 10:24:18 AM
@LordKAT, she's in the UK where a title might have legal standing (unlike in the US where it's just usually considered a courtesy).

Which is why I asked.
Title: Re: name title
Post by: jody2015 on February 09, 2015, 03:45:37 AM
the more i think about it the more i would like to just miss out a title. for the institutions the demand one because their systems cant cope without one i would use mx. i dont know if i can do both will be interesting to find out. i was just writing down who i would have to inform and its getting to be a long list. although i would luv to use ms im not far enough into transition. i might never want to use ms i dont know yet so im hovering in the neutral zone.
Title: Re: name title
Post by: CB on February 27, 2015, 09:36:55 AM
Quote from: LordKAT on February 08, 2015, 07:26:33 PM
Which is why I asked.

The title has absolutely no legal standing in the UK either. It's entirely voluntary! I never used one on my Statutory Declaraion (in fact was advised against it not that I was considering it)  The only difference between the UK and US is that organisations for some reason seem a little more insistnt that people select one. There's usually the "other" option anyway