so a while ago i saw a cool necklace in a shop that i used to pass across every day and wanted to buy it. the problem? its a rather feminine necklace and my parents would never approve of it.. but at some point lately i decided to stop caring as gender dysphoria is not giving me breaks often and my parents still seem to be light years away from accepting me. so today i passed near that shop poured my courage out went in bouth that necklace[its a partialy gold partialy silver looking necklace with the female emblem in it and its so cool looking] and bouth myself a new wallet wich is also kind of breaking the "male rules" in a way
so here i am sitting on my pc writing this massage wearing my new female necklace that makes me feel very happy that i went in and buy that and did not freak out
Yay that's good, so nice buying new things and shakin off the old self ;)
L Katy :-*
I remember when I did that for the first time many many years ago...went in and stammered something about it being a gift for a "girlfriend"...lol!
Glad you're enjoying your gift to yourself. :)
Yeah !
Things like that make your life happier :D It's so empowering (does that word exist ?) to make concrete things !
(had the same feeling when I bought an obviously masculine sweater I'm justly wearing at the moment)
Yay! Shiny objects... They make me so happy. ;D
Jimi Hendrix wore some pretty feminine jewelry and nobody batted an eye because he totally owned it. Just sayin'...
Quote from: Jill F on February 12, 2015, 04:30:52 PM
Yay! Shiny objects... They make me so happy. ;D
Jimi Hendrix wore some pretty feminine jewelry and nobody batted an eye because he totally owned it. Just sayin'...
so does Little Richard
Getting shiny / pretty things are kind of fun and makes you feel good. My recent addiction has been choker chain heart necklaces. Super cute and sexy! Though I'm very picky on the style so my collection consists of two necklaces.
Quote from: Ms Grace on February 12, 2015, 03:39:29 PM
I remember when I did that for the first time many many years ago...went in and stammered something about it being a gift for a "girlfriend"...lol!
Glad you're enjoying your gift to yourself. :)
I used to walk around with a birthday card to! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
L Katy :-*