So, since I started living as a woman, I have been sexually harassed more times than I can remember ( my memory isn't very good though). I'm sure most trans women experience this and at the beginning it is so new and so alien to you that you don't know how to react or how to feel. I still feel like this sometimes but I'm getting a bit better at telling perverts to go away.
So just when I thought only pervy old men find me attractive or interesting, this guy (a student like me, my age and he was so handsome) sat down next to me while I was waiting for the bus and started talking to me . He sat next to me on the bus as well when the bus came and we continued talking until the bus stopped . We both got off the bus, he asked me my name and I asked him what's his and then we hugged and said goodbye.
I really enjoyed our conversation and he seemed to enjoy it as well. this was quite a special occurrence to me , since the only male attention I get is either unwanted (harassment) or from guys in clubs who aren't interested in getting to know you.
I do wish he asked me for my number though. oh well
I do believe that you should be on the same buses at the same time somewhat regularly in the next few days. He probably wants to make a good impression and not come off as too pushy or demanding. I bet he will try to find you again soon, and maybe you can hint he should call you sometime. ;p
but I'm probably making it a big deal because I'm not used to this, whereas he probably talks to girls all the time. who says he'll even remember me ?
( by remember I mean he probably isn't thinking of me, whereas I just made a topic in a forum about meeting him)
Yay! Yes seconding Alexis! Take the bus again!
Quote from: melanie maritz on March 03, 2015, 03:01:49 PM
but I'm probably making it a big deal because I'm not used to this, whereas he probably talks to girls all the time. who says he'll even remember me ?
( by remember I mean he probably isn't thinking of me, whereas I just made a topic in a forum about meeting him)
Maybe he made a topic about you, on another forum ;D