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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Bimmer Guy on March 09, 2015, 04:02:25 PM

Poll
Question: Should I spell my name Bret or Brett?
Option 1: Bret votes: 2
Option 2: Brett votes: 34
Title: Going bonkers. One T or two? (There's a poll!)
Post by: Bimmer Guy on March 09, 2015, 04:02:25 PM
Hey, guys.  I come out to all the staff at my company tomorrow and I need to decide if I should use Brett or Bret.  I have really been liking the look of one T lately (Bret), but I worry it will highlight that either I am different in some way or people won't know the name and will consider it a girl's name or something.  Even though according to the Social Security data base spelling it like Bret is rare, but people I am telling my name to keep asking the spelling.

Help me out here.  I have about 12 hours to decide.

Thanks!
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: invisiblemonsters on March 09, 2015, 04:44:30 PM
people spell my name wrong all the time and i've never even seen it spelled the way they're spelling it. i don't think the single or double letter matters or makes you look "different." people just usually go "really?" and that's it when i tell them how it's really spelled. it's like any other name. my mom spells her name differently too and she just gets the whole "really?" response as well. people don't question it i don't think.
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Jill F on March 09, 2015, 04:48:46 PM
I like "Bret".  It just seems more masculine that way.
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on March 09, 2015, 05:09:10 PM
Two T's is more aesthetically pleasing to me. 
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Devlyn on March 09, 2015, 05:34:28 PM
Two t's or I'll bet a dollar someone calls you Bert eventually!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Going4Miles on March 09, 2015, 05:51:46 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 09, 2015, 05:34:28 PM
Two t's or I'll bet a dollar someone calls you Bert eventually!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn

That was a good point Devlyn Marie.  They could even mistake "Bret" for "Bart".  DOH!  For that reason alone, I'd go for "Brett" with 2 Ts.   ;)

Miles
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: King Malachite on March 09, 2015, 05:57:53 PM
Brett
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Bimmer Guy on March 09, 2015, 06:17:45 PM
Good advice.  Please keep the thoughts coming everyone!
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: FTMax on March 09, 2015, 07:42:34 PM
Another vote for double T's!

Bret reminds me of Bret Easton Ellis, who is quite possibly the jerkiest writer I've ever read.
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Ms Grace on March 09, 2015, 08:51:42 PM
Most people will expect Brett since, as far as I know, that is the usual spelling. So unless you're happy to be constantly correcting people I'd go with that. It's one of the reasons I didn't spell my name with a silent "Q"... ;)
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two? (There's a poll!)
Post by: makipu on March 09, 2015, 10:25:24 PM
I like the double TT but that's just me.
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two?
Post by: Bimmer Guy on March 10, 2015, 06:27:47 AM
Wowww, 22 to 2.  BreTT wins!  Thanks so much guys for your help not just in voting, but in the comments as to how BreT could be problematic.

Quote from: Ms Grace on March 09, 2015, 08:51:42 PM
Most people will expect Brett since, as far as I know, that is the usual spelling. So unless you're happy to be constantly correcting people I'd go with that. It's one of the reasons I didn't spell my name with a silent "Q"... ;)

MsGrace, you may find this interesting.  The name first started being using in England, often with Bret.  When the Australians began using it frequently in the mid 20th century, it was used exclusively with two TTs.  The name became pretty popular there.

For some reason I feel a connection to Australia, even though I have never been there.  That is another thing that makes the double T more attractive.

Thanks again guys.  Beginning today at work, I am BreTT!   :icon_dance:

Have a great day, all! 
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two? (There's a poll!)
Post by: Going4Miles on March 11, 2015, 04:09:27 PM
Hooray!!!  I'm very happy for you BreTT.  You're such a nice guy and I enjoy your presence here at the forum.  Congrats on your name change at your work. 

Cheers! ;D ;D ;D

Miles
Title: Re: Going bonkers. One T or two? (There's a poll!)
Post by: Bimmer Guy on March 11, 2015, 06:55:30 PM
Quote from: Going4Miles on March 11, 2015, 04:09:27 PM
Hooray!!!  I'm very happy for you BreTT.  You're such a nice guy and I enjoy your presence here at the forum.  Congrats on your name change at your work. 

Cheers! ;D ;D ;D

Miles

Thank you, Miles!