<Modified by Cindy>
i readthe testosterone one first, at first while reading it i was interested and looking forward to thinking about transitioning with hrt and stuff but then it got really anti-trans.. i am still looking into the medical stuff with testosterone, i know a lot of it, but damn this blogger is amusing with it's bigotry.
I removed the links. They are from a particularly nasty troll who preys on transmen and I will not give it the opportunity to prey on men here.
Sorry Jasper. I hope you understand
Cindy
Forum Admin
I read it before they were removed, and I must say it would have been amusing if not for all those who actually believe all this and share it around to explain their transphobia. Some of them can be seen in the comments below those articles.
Do be very aware that if you respond to these idiots they can and will trace you. They can then be very cruel and nasty.
I've seen this blogger come up in discussion on here before. They're pretty well known as being a clueless bigot. I can never decide if it's comical or sad that they waste so much time and energy on creating their hateful and ill informed little rants. The first time I saw it I thought it was just a troll but they seem to actually believe their own BS and most of the people who comment there seem to cling to the site because no one would support much less even listen to their drivel offline in the real world. So as funny as the stupidity can be, it's just sad I guess. I can't imagine living with such constant hatred inside me like that, hopefully one day they get help.
What a load of tripe. That is the worst kind of hate propaganda I've ever read.
I can guess at who was linked here and they've gotten extremely rude and nasty to me and were very good at finding sensitive spots. I highly caution you to avoid them at all costs. Even though they can seem funny and very troll-like, they're also nasty.
That's why as a general rule I avoid online discussions with people I don't know. I made an exception for joining this site because of the quality of discussions and moderation here. :)
May I ask for the blogger/site in question to be PM'd to me? I still spend a lot of time looking online for information on transitioning; so I would like to know who to avoid and which site to not take notice of.
Thank you very much.
I know who this was and would never even put her name here. I think the idea that this sort of thing is amusing to someone, well not everyone is at the same point. I don't feel it's amusing because this person has done a lot of damage. Also feel that it is internalized trans phobia. I agree with Susan's.org decision on not allowing this here. I won't allow a direct link from my group (although we censor almost not at all). I don't want her getting hits off my group.
She has been known to hunt down youtubers or bloggers who write honestly on trans issues and use their various doubts and fears that they write about against them. Know several people this has happened to. I think they are not opposed to taking your name on FB and saying this is not your real name. I know one person this has happened to. Preying on people is what they do.
Be aware who you link up with.
--Jay
There are consequences for this blogger if they're seeking people out, stalking them, harassing them and/or threatening them. Cyber bullying isn't something that goes unnoticed theses days and especially when it's at such an extreme level. There have been plenty of lawsuits in which the victims of cyber bullying have been awarded sums upwards of a million dollars for the damage they suffered and harm they encountered from hateful idiots like the one who created this blog. This person's actions, if they're as severe as people are implying, can lead to them being hit with a misdemeanor or even a felony as well as jail time depending on the lengths they're going to harass and stalk people. Anyone who is being bullied by this person should step up and file charges then a lawsuit if the bullying is severe enough. It's one thing to create a hateful blog, they're allowed to make a fool of themselves with it if they want, but if they're going out of their way to stalk and threaten people that's an entirely different story. It's easy to harass a group of people online but I'm sure their mouth would shut pretty quickly when being faced with a misdemeanor and a hefty lawsuit.
Im going to hedge a guess on this blogger. If its the one im thinking of she is a butch lesbian from USA.
If its that one then ill tell you something not everyone knows about her, she used to think she was a guy. She transitioned and everything and then she realised the other lesbians werent fond of her once she had top surgery. She actually devotes her life to hurting transguys and outing them to friends, family, schools. She is dangerous and if you post certain things online about yourself esp pictures she will use them in her cause to further ignorance.
OP may find her funny BUT when you arent in a good mood/severly dysphoric/ suicidal her posts will easily push anyone over the edge. If you go lurking please be careful, especially because she has so many friends online that do the exact same.
And never comment, she has a particular set of skills, and she will find you and she will make your life hell. I know this because shes done it to a friend of mine.