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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Hair removal => Topic started by: Releca on March 31, 2015, 01:50:10 AM

Title: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Releca on March 31, 2015, 01:50:10 AM
I don't really have any spare money each month to spendon myself but want to be smooth. I've plucked some hairs from my hands and arms and beard hairs when I can get them but they always grow back within a month or two. The longest I was able to keep hairs off by pulling them out was 6 months before it looked like nothing had happened and left red bumps for about half that time. Either that or the hairs broke when pulling causing more issues than before. I'm quite prone to ingrown hairs as well plus I'm trying to partially hide it for now. I cut my body hair as short as I can with scissors even in the risky spots but would prefer silky smooth that lasted 6+ months to permanent if possible with low cost methods.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Ms Grace on March 31, 2015, 01:55:59 AM
Sorry, hair removal is anything but cheap. Shaving and plucking are the cheapest methods but as you've found not all that effective in the long term. You could always try buying an epilator which is like plucking en masse. Waxing is the next up the list - more expensive but also more effective. You could DIY waxing but that can get really messy and may result in a lot of ingrowns, a salon will give you the best results but expect regrowth in 6 weeks. Laser and electro at the top of the list - very expensive but ultimately permanent in most cases.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Cindy on March 31, 2015, 02:00:17 AM
Beard is pretty hard without laser, DON'T use cream removers on your face BTW.

I found waxing the cheapest for body hair (when I had it) you can buy waxing kits from the local store if you cannot afford a salon. Should last 4-6 weeks?

Lots of girls use epilators, I tried one for about 3 seconds :'( hurt like hell.

A trick for beard shadow I was shown when I had one, was to use green lipstick as an underlayer to your foundation, it reduces the colour of the beard shadow.


Ahh what ^^^ she said :laugh:
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Lady Smith on March 31, 2015, 02:38:06 AM
Before I had electrolyis I used home waxing kits on my face, but the problem with that is most facial hair is deeply rooted so you need a good length on the hair before trying to remove it.  The problem with that though is becoming a hermit until the hair is long enough to wax.  I had very good results once I learned the proper technique for doing the necessary swift pull on the cloth strips and I didn't have problems with ingrowns either.  After care on any waxed area is important and I used to wipe antiseptic cream onto the freshly cleared off skin afterwards to avoid infection and the dreaded red bumps.
I guess I would get 6-8 weeks after waxing before regrowth became a problem, but if you're taking spiro the regrowth hair will be much lighter in colour and over time it becomes a lot more fine.

I purchased an epilator and then hardly ever used it because it was like slow torture and they break off hairs too and cause problems.  I don't know how other folk manage to look after their epilators, but it always seemed to me as if they were just about impossible to keep clean which looked like a great way to give yourself an infection.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Releca on March 31, 2015, 02:45:10 AM
Ya waxing sounds like my best option then.

The epilator scares me too just looking at it.

Would you be able to suggest any body creams that would work like Nair or something as a possibility?
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Cindy on March 31, 2015, 02:50:42 AM
Most of the creams work well on legs, arms etc. Don't use them on the genitals or face! They are caustic and will be agony on the genitals and can blind you if they get in the eyes.

Also do a test spot to make sure you don't have a reaction to them.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: kira21 ♡♡♡ on March 31, 2015, 08:33:27 AM
Do what I did, find the company that makes the laser machines, contact them and ask if they need 'models' for training people to operate them.

I have had my face, legs, bikini and arm-pits lasered for free, as well as thread veins and skin rejuvenation done. I would hate to think about how much it would have cost me. Thousands, for sure. 
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 31, 2015, 10:11:52 AM
Also check Groupon. I saw laser, 12 sessions at 95% off, yesterday only and I didn't have the cash, unfortunately. Be sure to do a review check of the place on line before giving them money. Bad lazer costs more in the long run, or so I'm told.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: 2cherry on April 01, 2015, 10:15:24 AM
I've been at it for 3 years, and still not done.

My advise would be: sell/pawn every luxury item you own (and can do without) and get the best electrologist you can find.

I've worked many extra hours in order to pay for it, and it was money well spent, despite the fact that I still get regrowth. But I am glad I started very early, as it can take years for some.

Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Sapphire87 on April 01, 2015, 10:42:59 AM
What i've been doing is jsut going for small half hour sessions for electrolysis, costs $40 for me each time i got and generally only get there once a month.

Process is slow going but it does still work at getting the hair out of there, in fact I'm getting close to having full face finished in that session.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Releca on April 01, 2015, 07:45:15 PM
Thanks girl. I appreciate the advice a lot. For selling my valuables all I have is old computer and my crochet and cross stick supplies and a few stuffed animals so I don't think that would get me very far.

Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Jill F on April 01, 2015, 07:48:06 PM
Veet wax strips for the win.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: jeni on April 01, 2015, 07:53:54 PM
I'd suggest being careful with tweezing or waxing facial hair. An electrologist warned me that follicle damage can result and make electrolysis more difficult if you go that route later.
Title: Re: best way to remove hair for the poor girl
Post by: Jill F on April 01, 2015, 08:04:07 PM
Quote from: jeni on April 01, 2015, 07:53:54 PM
I'd suggest being careful with tweezing or waxing facial hair. An electrologist warned me that follicle damage can result and make electrolysis more difficult if you go that route later.

Yes, anything that encourages ingrown hairs on your beautiful face is bad.