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Title: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: stephaniec on April 01, 2015, 11:32:24 PM
the most expensive I have is 20 dollars. The problem is the further I transition I have this incredible aching need to buy a beautiful dress. I really don't have the money for an expensive dress but I want one so incredibly bad.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Wild Flower on April 01, 2015, 11:45:15 PM
Lol.... I am kind of lame.... I wear the same jeans or pants... at the moment just regular sweatpants.

I bought a pricy sweatshirt back in Fall 2014... and an outfit that cost like 70$ pants and shirt by Sean Paul.  One day event.... a work party... with one person in mind. Yeah... at least my intended recipient complimented me... dont even get me started on this lol. And he touch my shirt. Was it a waste of money?? Yes... in hindsight... because clothes dont do much for me.

Otherwise that was the last outfit I bought.

Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Tamar on April 02, 2015, 12:02:19 AM
Dunno. Something from Goodwill.  :D
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Megan Rose on April 02, 2015, 12:29:19 AM
Jeans, hardly wear them - but got 4 for $4 each on a closeout.   I'm good for a lifetime with those.

Dresses, perhaps $50 for work wear.  The everyday stuff is $20 or less.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Jill F on April 02, 2015, 01:03:43 AM
I was expected/required to wear jeans every day until I was 43.  I'm taking a loooong vacation from them.  Maybe someday I'll go back?  The one pair of women's jeans I have was like $14.  I wore them back in my andro days.

I did pay $99 for a formal dress, but it was marked down 75%. 

No sense in paying a lot for clothes that probably won't fit right in six months anyway.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: stephaniec on April 02, 2015, 01:19:30 AM
Quote from: Jill F on April 02, 2015, 01:03:43 AM
I was expected/required to wear jeans every day until I was 43.  I'm taking a loooong vacation from them.  Maybe someday I'll go back?  The one pair of women's jeans I have was like $14.  I wore them back in my andro days.

I did pay $99 for a formal dress, but it was marked down 75%. 

No sense in paying a lot for clothes that probably won't fit right in six months anyway.
that's exactly the problem I'm having buying a beautiful dress, because I desperately need to get my weight down for health reasons and to look great in an expensive dress , but the weight issue is the biggest problem because I don't want to only wear the dress a couple of times if I can get my weight which I desperately need to do. I always buy clearance sale dress which can look good , but only cost 10 dollars so I don't care if I can't fit in them if I get my weight down.
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Post by: Michelle G on April 02, 2015, 01:49:33 AM
My spouse seems to have no budget when it comes to shopping and she has "handed down" some very nice tops and jeans that don't fit her now or she just wanted more closet space.

I took a pair of $200 jeans that were to short for me and made some super cute cutoffs out of them a couple summers ago, like they say "re-purpose" ;)
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Rotika on April 02, 2015, 06:48:45 AM
Umm.. I must be a shoppaholic. lol.. I love BKE jeans, Sullen shirts and anything I can fit into from Fredericks of Hollywood.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: katrinaw on April 02, 2015, 07:23:08 AM
Quote from: Rotika on April 02, 2015, 06:48:45 AM
Umm.. I must be a shoppaholic. lol...

I like Levis and Wrangler Jeans... Full priced
I have around 4 Long Dresses, 6 short dresses and don't know how many tops and sweaters and quite a few pairs of shoes and boots

I think my obsession with clothes rates high in costs  :-\

I just love clothes, tend to buy something or 2 every month, although holding back currently due to lack of an income stream... but will be happy soon, I hope  ::)

L Katy

Edit: OK $AU 150 for dress and 140 for Jeans ::)

Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Zoetrope on April 02, 2015, 07:29:38 AM
My most expensive pair of jeans cost $20.

My most expensive dress ... well, it's bondage gear. Ahem. Yes, not inexpensive.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Devlyn on April 02, 2015, 07:38:56 AM
Best $70 I ever spent!

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Title: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: ImagineKate on April 02, 2015, 07:49:41 AM
I have nothing expensive. Everything I wear is cheap or clearance or sale priced. Most expensive dress I have is the one I'm wearing (see my avatar), which is $25. That sweater I have was $30.

Jeans that I wear daily are $15 Gloria Vanderbilt, mossimo (target), Jordache (Walmart) or whatever is on sale at burlington's. I'm not buying too much now as my sizes are rapidly changing. I was 12, down to 10, 8 and now 6 which seems to be where I'm settling.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: ainsley on April 02, 2015, 09:24:15 AM
I live by the motto that "only saps pay retail". :)
I have Calvin Klein dresses that cost $138 retail, but I paid less than $50 for each of them.
My jeans retail for $60-$80 and I get them for half of that, or less.
I stalk items that I want and wait for the price to drop.  I am partial to CK because I can get a dress that fits my boobs and lats, while not accentuating my lack of hip curves to bad.  Fit and Flare FTW!  Of course my therapist tries to tell me to wear 3/4 sleeve so as to not accentuate my broad shoulders too much.  My wife says she is nuts and would kill for my arms and build.  w/e ... lol
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Alaia on April 02, 2015, 10:50:50 AM
Can also find great designer label clothes at thrift stores. I shop Savers all the time and have picked up all kinds of great finds (Eg. True Religion, Diesel, Guess Premium, 7 for all Mankind, Miss Me - each pair of jeans for under $15 ; also lots of tops and dresses for under $5 - BKE, International Concepts, Apt 9, Maurices, Heart and Soul, Free People, Alfani, etc.)

You just have to make sure there is nothing seriously wrong with it, some of them do have issues like stains/dirt, pulled threads, missing buttons, or split seams. Some of these are an easy fix though if you have a little sewing skill. Although I have found plenty of clothes in new condition, and even with the store tags on them. So there is the chance you find something like that as well.

Some people actually shop these thrift stores during sales and then resell their finds on ebay to supplement their living.


Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: herekitten on April 02, 2015, 11:39:20 AM
Yikes!  If my husband saw this question, I can already see his eyes rolling.  I'm somewhat of a shopaholic and if I see something I absolutely cannot live without I buy it. I don't wear dresses much, but I do wear skirts and tops. Most expensive shirt/top in closet right now as of last week was around $260ish? and latest jeans were Missme at around $125. You did not ask about shoes and purses --- those are my weakness and I love designer labels in those. Helps to have nine sisters and for our birthdays we all pitch in to buy that birthday month a nice purse.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: femmebutt on April 02, 2015, 01:38:22 PM
I WILL own a pair of Louboutin someday (and choo, prada, chanel, weitzman, et$, et$$, et$$$) .

For now it's all target, forever 21, and urban outfitter... I try to keep any single thing under 30$ unless it's something I can't stop thinking about it and must have it.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: androgynouspainter26 on April 02, 2015, 04:59:03 PM
My most expensive one is a black cocktail dress that went for like $400...it was my mom's though and I got it from her.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Rotika on April 02, 2015, 05:28:08 PM
I would love to find the things I love on clearance. But the problem is.. I rarely find things that I really like. So when I do, I don't pay any attention to the price tag. Clothing is magic. When we wear exactly what we adore; our vision of self is so much better than otherwise. Why wear rags when you can be so much happier about how you look. If a 10$ pair of jeans is what you love. Wear them. If you want that 600$ dress. Go for it. If you think you can't afford it. Find a way. You have an entire lifetime to build your wardrobe. Make it yours. :D
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Zoetrope on April 02, 2015, 06:31:34 PM
Quote from: femmebutt on April 02, 2015, 01:38:22 PM
I WILL own a pair of Louboutin someday ...

*Hell yes*. I have my eye on a pair of those. Especially now my feet have shrunk :~D

http://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/shop/women/bianca-1.html

What an outrageous price tag.

Now I'm getting my financial stuff sorted and moving house ... maybe I can let these in alongside the dress I mentioned earlier ... :~]

I feel like I'd have to keep them in a *safe*, though!
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: JoanneB on April 02, 2015, 08:12:46 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on April 01, 2015, 11:32:24 PM
the most expensive I have is 20 dollars. The problem is the further I transition I have this incredible aching need to buy a beautiful dress. I really don't have the money for an expensive dress but I want one so incredibly bad.
Jeans 5$
Tops  3$
Dresses  Most perhaps 6$
All courtesy of various thrift shops. 

One day I did splurge as in totally by a factor of 10 with a $60 dress, on sale.

It is difficult. You see all these adds on the tele, print, roadside. You see other women in really cute dresses and think "it would look great on me too". You dream.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Sabrina on April 03, 2015, 08:59:56 AM
The most expensive thing in my wardrobe is my green Irish walking cape. It cost 400 dollars from Amazon.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Ellesmira the Duck on April 03, 2015, 09:48:03 AM
I have a nice Maxi dress I got for 30, and I try not to spend more than 20 on a single pair of pants. What kills me isn't the single price, its finding too many things I like and not wanting to take them back >_<
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Christine Eryn on April 03, 2015, 05:50:20 PM
Quote from: SarahBoo on April 02, 2015, 06:31:34 PM
*Hell yes*. I have my eye on a pair of those. Especially now my feet have shrunk :~D

http://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/shop/women/bianca-1.html

What an outrageous price tag.

Now I'm getting my financial stuff sorted and moving house ... maybe I can let these in alongside the dress I mentioned earlier ... :~]

I feel like I'd have to keep them in a *safe*, though!

I just suddenly realized I need some red bottomed platform heels in my life and I am going to make it a point to own them! :icon_blink: Not the $800 version though. Back on topic, I started out going to second hand shops and getting skinny jeans. Now when places Old Navy or TJ Maxx have sales, I go there. I pay anywhere between $16-$34 for jeans. Dresses I don't have many of, my most expensive is maybe $30.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: stephaniec on April 03, 2015, 06:53:04 PM
What I'd really like to get besides the dress is a pair of zipper in the back skinny jeans, but I think hell might freeze over before I will to put the $178 as advertised down.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Skeptoid on April 04, 2015, 12:24:15 AM
The most expensive one I have that was paid for at full retail price was a sixty dollar black keyhole dress a friend bought for me as a gift. It's probably still my favorite dress. I'm just waiting for my boobies to get a big bigger (I hope) and an appropriate occasion to wear it out. Probably my most expensive dress had I bought it new was from Cache that I found new with tags in a thrift store for thirty dollars.

My jeans... are all from Hollister but I only buy them on sale.

By far my most expensive item of clothing of any kind are my British semi-custom leather boots. Finding boots that would fit my size ten feet and 11 3/4" calf circumference was no small feat. Nothing is ever perfect though, the ankle is a bit wide.

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Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Yukihime on April 04, 2015, 02:29:49 AM
I'm trying to scan through my head what's the most expensive. I've gotten a lot of High Quality stuff for...$0, free y'know xD? But for all the free, months before HRT buy some really nice stuff from different places. Bras from The Bay, tops and shorts from Forever 21, my jeans I get from Old Navy because I love their brand to death. I wear a Sweetheart Skinny =D I believe one of the dresses in my wardrobe is $50-$60, and one $75. But I definitely didn't pay those prices. I've probably spent more on expensive designer bras than my dresses or jeans sadly. Worse none of them fit anymore, rapid growth spurt ahoy =/ (Dishing out like up to $60+ for a set of bras and growing them out no matter how positive, just isn't nice for my wallet)
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: akegia on April 04, 2015, 02:59:18 AM
I'm a shoppaholic, and really bad with self control. My most expensive is a Hand Crocheted Cardigan that was $595
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Nicole on April 04, 2015, 05:38:23 AM
oh my....

I've paid more for a pair of jeans than a friend paid for a car, they did feel like tracksuit (sweat) pants and made my butt look awesome.

Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: kelly_aus on April 04, 2015, 06:01:12 AM
While it's not a dress, my Chanel suit is probably the most expensive item in my wardrobe. I really need a nice pair of Salvatore Ferragamo heels to go with it.
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: Kristyn74 on April 04, 2015, 06:06:35 AM
2 pairs of true religion jeans super comfy

$300 each
Most tshirts are heavy surf wear  style around $20 each
Title: Re: what's the most expensive dress and pair of jeans you have in your wardrobe
Post by: katrinaw on April 04, 2015, 09:34:06 AM
Quote from: Rotika on April 02, 2015, 05:28:08 PM
I would love to find the things I love on clearance. But the problem is.. I rarely find things that I really like. So when I do, I don't pay any attention to the price tag. Clothing is magic. When we wear exactly what we adore; our vision of self is so much better than otherwise. Why wear rags when you can be so much happier about how you look. If a 10$ pair of jeans is what you love. Wear them. If you want that 600$ dress. Go for it. If you think you can't afford it. Find a way. You have an entire lifetime to build your wardrobe. Make it yours. :D

With you on this one Rotika, if I like it, I buy it, just one of my traits, I think I'll be dangerous when I go FT... I guess you only live once! Or twice in our case, never used to be like this... Only bought very occasionally, but still did not worry about price, within reason  >:-)

L Katy  :-*