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Title: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 06, 2015, 08:24:28 PM
I just sent a message via my new Facebook account with pictures to my niece about my new life. I don't know what will happen , but I have no choice anymore.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Mariah on April 06, 2015, 08:31:34 PM
Fingers crossed. I hope it goes well. Hopefully she responds and in a positive light. Good luck and big hugs
Mariah
Quote from: stephaniec on April 06, 2015, 08:24:28 PM
I just sent a message via my new Facebook account with pictures to my niece about my new life. I don't know what will happen , but I have no choice anymore.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 06, 2015, 08:51:45 PM
thanks
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Eevee on April 06, 2015, 08:53:31 PM
Mustard is gross  :-\

Congrats for building up the courage, though. It's never easy.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: DelKay on April 07, 2015, 01:58:11 AM

Quote from: Eevee on April 06, 2015, 08:53:31 PM
Mustard is gross  :-\

Congrats for building up the courage, though. It's never easy.
you take that back! Mustard is life!

Also good luck op. I hope things work out.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 02:17:09 AM
Quote from: DelKay on April 07, 2015, 01:58:11 AM
you take that back! Mustard is life!

Also good luck op. I hope things work out.
mustard and corn beef and pickle
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Ms Grace on April 07, 2015, 02:22:08 AM
That's great Stephanie... here's to a positive outcome!

Quotewell. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am

I don't relish that situation... what a pickle! Tartar now... (runs away, see if you can ketchup!) ::)
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 02:30:53 AM
Quote from: Ms Grace on April 07, 2015, 02:22:08 AM
That's great Stephanie... here's to a positive outcome!

I don't relish that situation... what a pickle! Tartar now... (runs away, see if you can ketchup!) ::)
I wouldn't try to ketchup with a cartoonist , I'd get peppered.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: DanielleA on April 07, 2015, 03:55:02 AM
I hope things go well.  :) and will be watching of an update on how it went.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: katrinaw on April 07, 2015, 05:20:55 AM
Haaa lvely to see humor  :laugh:

Hope it all turns out well Stephanie  :-*

I love Mustard, has to be hot English tho ...  >:-) (goes with my love of chillies) LoL

L Katy
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: DelKay on April 07, 2015, 10:17:49 AM

Quote from: katrinaw on April 07, 2015, 05:20:55 AM
Haaa lvely to see humor  :laugh:

Hope it all turns out well Stephanie  :-*

I love Mustard, has to be hot English tho ...  >:-) (goes with my love of chillies) LoL

L Katy
i had honey mustard on a sub sandwich the other day (it was my first time having subway) and it was actually pretty nice. The sandwich itself was meh but the mustard made it better.
I feel terrible for helping to derail this thread with mustard...
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Beth Andrea on April 07, 2015, 11:18:39 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 02:17:09 AM
mustard and corn beef and pickle

Yum!
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Beth Andrea on April 07, 2015, 11:19:56 AM
QuoteI feel terrible for helping to derail this thread with mustard...

It was destiny, because of the title...;)
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Rachel on April 07, 2015, 04:17:08 PM
I hope she is welcoming!

Please keep us posted, fingers crossed.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 05:15:30 PM
Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on April 07, 2015, 04:17:08 PM
I hope she is welcoming!

Please keep us posted, fingers crossed.
no reply yet
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 11:18:59 PM
well, it['s not looking good . I know it's a mind blower coming from nowhere , but Given her family situation I might of expected too much. She was my last connection to the family I haven't spoken to in 25 years because of other problems. I just got in one of those moods where I couldn't live a lie anymore and I had just deleted my Facebook account to permanently cut connections with the past . it's only been a couple of days so there's still hope , but I must be true to myself. It's a bummer it's hard for people to understand being trans , but there's not much you can do. I'll update if there's a change. My therapist was hoping for the best too , but s&&& happens.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: katrinaw on April 08, 2015, 04:08:07 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 11:18:59 PM
well, it['s not looking good . I know it's a mind blower coming from nowhere , but Given her family situation I might of expected too much. She was my last connection to the family I haven't spoken to in 25 years because of other problems. I just got in one of those moods where I couldn't live a lie anymore and I had just deleted my Facebook account to permanently cut connections with the past . it's only been a couple of days so there's still hope , but I must be true to myself. It's a bummer it's hard for people to understand being trans , but there's not much you can do. I'll update if there's a change. My therapist was hoping for the best too , but s&&& happens.

Fingers X'd Stephanie, hope it works out.... Hugs

L Katy  :-*
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Lady Smith on April 08, 2015, 06:02:22 AM
Here's hoping too Stephanie.  Your niece may just need some time to get her head around your revelation.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Mariah on April 08, 2015, 08:08:02 AM
Fingers still crossed and I'm still hoping and praying the best happens. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: stephaniec on April 07, 2015, 11:18:59 PM
well, it['s not looking good . I know it's a mind blower coming from nowhere , but Given her family situation I might of expected too much. She was my last connection to the family I haven't spoken to in 25 years because of other problems. I just got in one of those moods where I couldn't live a lie anymore and I had just deleted my Facebook account to permanently cut connections with the past . it's only been a couple of days so there's still hope , but I must be true to myself. It's a bummer it's hard for people to understand being trans , but there's not much you can do. I'll update if there's a change. My therapist was hoping for the best too , but s&&& happens.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: traci_k on April 08, 2015, 08:37:34 AM
Hoping for the best for you too Stephanie. Fingers crossed, waiting for update.

Hugs,
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Dee Marshall on April 08, 2015, 09:12:48 AM
Good luck, Stephanie! I hope she sees it in her heart to accept you.

(Just one more pun).

Remember, if you make love with a man make sure he wears a condiment.
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 08, 2015, 05:02:30 PM
day 3 no response , so the outlook not good. I still have Susan's  and my therapist so I'm in good shape thanks all for the support, greatly appreciated
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: Mariah on April 08, 2015, 05:08:00 PM
I wouldn't completely give up on her because she just maybe processing things. So she may respond eventually. If nothing else, you have all of us. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: stephaniec on April 08, 2015, 05:02:30 PM
day 3 no response , so the outlook not good. I still have Susan's  and my therapist so I'm in good shape thanks all for the support, greatly appreciated
Title: Re: well. I mustard the courage and told my niece who I am
Post by: stephaniec on April 08, 2015, 05:14:14 PM
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