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Community Conversation => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Transsexual talk => FTM Top Surgery => Topic started by: FTMax on April 12, 2015, 11:31:46 AM

Title: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: FTMax on April 12, 2015, 11:31:46 AM
Getting into the home stretch! This week at work is going to be crazy busy trying to get my assistant caught up on everything he needs to know, so I'm trying to get as much surgery-related stuff done as possible in the evenings and next weekend. Since I'm only staying in Baltimore overnight, I think my short packing list may be leading me to overlook other things. I'd really appreciate it if anyone could chime in and let me know if I'm forgetting anything crucial. So far:

-   Filled and packed prescriptions
-   Packed overnight bag
-   Set aside clothes/shoes for day of surgery
-   Made arrangements with roommates for taking care of my dog
-   Bought: hands-free leash for dog for after drains are out, baby wipes, aftercare supplies for nips/incisions, a bunch of button-up shirts, a reacher/grabber, straws

I know I need to:
-   Go grocery shopping and do about a week's worth of meal prep/freezing
-   Charge my 3DS, Kindle, Xbox/PS3 controllers
-   Clean up around the house and my room in particular
-   Do as much laundry as possible
-   Wrap up some last minute work stuff
-   Clean out/put gas in my car
-   Move some pillows/blankets downstairs to the couch and recliner
-   Load whatever movies/shows I want to watch on a flash drive that aren't on Netflix or On Demand
-   Download more books for Kindle
-   Shave my head/face the night before surgery
-   Buy: groceries for meals, juice

Is there anything major I'm overlooking? I have 2 roommates that work opposite shifts, so one of them will always be around, plus someone staying with me for most of the first week. I'd really like to get everything as organized and easy to navigate as possible for all of them.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: aleon515 on April 12, 2015, 12:04:19 PM
I read a lot but honestly did not read very much post-op. I think that one's concentration is not what you would think. I watched a LOT of movies and tv on Netflix. I recommend, if you can afford it, a Netflix account.  It's about $9 a month, i believe you have a one month free trial and can cancel at any time. Canceling is not automatic though.

--Jay
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: FTMax on April 12, 2015, 12:14:35 PM
Quote from: aleon515 on April 12, 2015, 12:04:19 PM
I read a lot but honestly did not read very much post-op. I think that one's concentration is not what you would think. I watched a LOT of movies and tv on Netflix. I recommend, if you can afford it, a Netflix account.  It's about $9 a month, i believe you have a one month free trial and can cancel at any time. Canceling is not automatic though.

--Jay

Thanks Jay! I have Netflix, and also free On Demand from my cable provider. I'm planning to rip some DVDs onto a flash drive so I don't have to keep getting up if I want to change the movie.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: sam1234 on April 12, 2015, 12:56:18 PM
When I had my top surgery, the nurse put a wrist band on each wrist. There was a half ball that went between the tendons on the inside of the wrist and was a pressure point in controlling nausea after surgery. I think they sell those at drug stores now and they helped me. I loaned them to my mother when she and my dad flew to Europe and she thought they worked too. Just an extra idea if you are into holistic help.

sam1234
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on April 12, 2015, 12:59:09 PM
Great list. I'm prepping for my 4/28 date.
Some of the stuff on my list:
-Audio books from library
-Set up little TV and Playstation near bed (I'm setting myself up in our guest room so I don't get jostled by wife)
-fresh sheets/bedding night before
- medium and light weight zip-up hoodies, button up shirts, comfortable sleep pants and shorts
- Considering free trial of HBO Now
- plan super easy and ready to eat meals
- 2gallon thing of water in room (the kind with a spigot), and cups
- arrange toiletries so I don't have to reach up for them
- body scrubber on a stick


Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Alexthecat on April 12, 2015, 03:57:42 PM
Make soup. It was the best for me to eat after I got home.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Konnor on April 12, 2015, 08:07:48 PM
A few extra pillows will be invaluable for sleeping. It was very hard for me to get comfortable enough to sleep for the first few days, and extra pillows under my back and legs helped! Disposable plates/cups/silverware make things easy since you don't want to be doing dishes. And at the risk of TMI... Get constipation meds and start taking them right after surgery if you are taking the strong pain meds. I didn't take them until about 5 days postop, and it was NOT a fun few days afterwards!  :-X
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: FTMax on April 12, 2015, 08:15:20 PM
Quote from: Konnor on April 12, 2015, 08:07:48 PM
And at the risk of TMI... Get constipation meds and start taking them right after surgery if you are taking the strong pain meds. I didn't take them until about 5 days postop, and it was NOT a fun few days afterwards!  :-X

I have these! Forgot to list them. They're all packed up and ready to go. One of the nurses told me to take them as soon as I wake up the morning after to get everything working.

Thanks guys! I got a lot of stuff done today, so feeling pretty good about everything at the moment. I might grab some plasticware. I'm not a big fan of things that aren't reusable, but if it's only for a week or two, I can deal.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: King Malachite on April 12, 2015, 09:02:28 PM
It look likes you and everyone else has went over the main things.  I don't really have anything else to add at the moment, but here's a good link that someone gave me that might help.  You probably know most of the things in there, but I did find a few surprising things I didn't think of.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/emmettp/things-you-may-not-know-you-need-for-your-ftm-ches-dcoa#.hegwqQgmZ
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: aleon515 on April 13, 2015, 12:58:18 PM
Actually started taking Miralax a couple days before surgery, very helpful. It is not dangerous, more of a stool softener, but MUCH more effective than Colace.

Good idea on the Neftlix, just watched on my iPad. I ended up watching mostly TV, not sure why that was (Orange is the New Black all of them, etc.)

--Jay
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on May 14, 2015, 05:06:44 PM
Post-op now, I'd add gel style deodorant. This made it easy for my wife to apply to my pits, then easy for me to apply myself.
And scentless baby wipes. For before I was ready to shower.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: anibioman on May 20, 2015, 05:23:37 AM
Straws so you won't accidentally pour water down your chest. Bunch of clean towels for when your allowed to shower again. Mirilax and stool softener pills if you take the prescription pain meds. If you don't it isn't really needed. Maybe disposable plates and silverware so your roommates won't have to do your dishes.

Button down shirts, lots of them. Sneakers easy to slip on. I found that sweat pants are harder to pull up than jeans. I switched to jeans pretty soon after surgery. Plain old undershirt style tank tops. They were recommended by surgeon to wear under the compression vest. Keeps fluids and creams off of the vest. Under armor or similar compression shirts. To wear after the vest they'll help keep scars flat and swelling down, another thing recommended by my surgeon.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 20, 2015, 01:32:41 PM
u dont need button down shirts

i took old t-shirts and cut them up the middle...much more comfortable

also shave your pits and chest hair if u have any
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on May 20, 2015, 10:20:54 PM
Ask surgeon before shaving areas close to surgical site. Some don't want you to do that.

T-shirt material is the best! I happened to have a button down t-shirt and it was my favorite thing to wear.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Arch on May 20, 2015, 10:55:45 PM
Make sure the toilet paper in all bathrooms is easily accessible BEFORE you need to use the toilet. I had a toilet paper holder in an inconvenient location in my old bathroom, and I'm so glad I thought to keep a roll on the counter instead.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 01:17:04 AM
if its button down its not a t-shirt dude
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Arch on May 21, 2015, 02:53:51 AM
Quote from: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 01:17:04 AMif its button down its not a t-shirt dude

I think he meant a button-up t-shirt, or at least a button-up shirt made of the same type of fabric. A slip of the keyboard.
Title: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on May 21, 2015, 04:45:53 AM
It's a button up shirt made from t-shirt material.  Let me know if you need a photo or something, aleksijason.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 08:30:46 AM
ok sure pic would be cool...cause t-shirts have a certain feel...most t-shirts are 100% cotton, but button up shirts are usually cotton too but have a different texture and are thicker
Title: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on May 21, 2015, 09:18:19 AM
It has a collar so it's more like a polo. But it's incredibly soft and comfortable. The fabric is like the soft tshirt a I have. So I imagine your suggestion of cutting a tshirt is a great one.
I'm about to be discharged from my two night hospital stay here, so I look weird.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi61.tinypic.com%2F28v6m85.jpg&hash=4d09ce4f58d85b9f00b80c9a5ed7c3554749d824)
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 05:29:22 PM
thats not a t-shirt....a t-shirt isnt a fabric its a style...if the shirt is a button front with a collar thats not a t-shirt its a button up shirt....most shirts are made from cotton so its irrelevant how comfortable the shirt is or what its made from its about the style

i took an actual crew neck t-shirt and cut it up the middle

u cant get a more comfortable shirt than a t-shirt
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: MacG on May 21, 2015, 06:42:28 PM
Whatever. Dude.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Laura_7 on May 21, 2015, 07:07:39 PM
Quote from: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 05:29:22 PM
thats not a t-shirt....a t-shirt isnt a fabric its a style...if the shirt is a button front with a collar thats not a t-shirt its a button up shirt....most shirts are made from cotton so its irrelevant how comfortable the shirt is or what its made from its about the style

Quote from: AleksiJason on May 21, 2015, 05:29:22 PM
u cant get a more comfortable shirt than a t-shirt
Well I'd also say the material makes a difference... tshirt material is usually very soft... shirts imo are more stiff...

the most comfortable tshirt I had was actually a sleeping shirt... it was made of super soft yet strong material, looking like a tshirt but designed as night shirt  :) of course it could be worn during the day :)

"what am I forgetting?"
I'd say don't forget to make a few relaxation breaks... have a few deep breaths... and try to relax some :)


hugs


Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 22, 2015, 07:03:38 AM
a t-shirt is a style, it can be made from any material but usually cotton or polyester....button down shirts are not t-shirts....they can be made from the same materials, be super comfortable and lightweight, but the difference between a t-shirt and a button down is not the material its the style.....if it has buttons it cant be a t-shirt
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 22, 2015, 07:05:41 AM
i have a ton of t-shirts and button downs for dressy occasions....all my t-shirts are 100% cotton but so are 99% of my button downs....doesnt make them the same shirt as they are a completely different style and the material its made from is irrelevant

casual sweaters are usually 100% cotton as well....does that mean a sweater is the same as a button down shirt and t-shirt too?  i suppose anything made from cotton that is comfortable is a t-shirt then going by your logic
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Laura_7 on May 22, 2015, 07:25:26 AM
Quote from: AleksiJason on May 22, 2015, 07:05:41 AM
i have a ton of t-shirts and button downs for dressy occasions....all my t-shirts are 100% cotton but so are 99% of my button downs....doesnt make them the same shirt as they are a completely different style and the material its made from is irrelevant

casual sweaters are usually 100% cotton as well....does that mean a sweater is the same as a button down shirt and t-shirt too?  i suppose anything made from cotton that is comfortable is a t-shirt then going by your logic

have a *hug*

I'd say we were referring to something which is made of fabrics usually used for tshirts in a button down style.

They seem to be not easy to find because imo many are more stiff.

Not meaning to redefine styles.

But reseaming a tshirt might be a good idea :) Having it fitted with a seam strip and buttons.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AleksiJason on May 22, 2015, 02:45:41 PM
having a t-shirt re-seamed with buttons would be a waste of time and money

cut it up the middle....who is anyone trying to impress while recovering from surgery?
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: Arch on May 23, 2015, 07:40:12 PM
Maybe folks don't want to destroy a good t-shirt by cutting it up. Whatever; different people like different things. I think you're making too much of a small thing with the definitional issue, and you are derailing the thread and turning it into a place of contention rather than support. Please keep your eye on the topic and on the mission of the site.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: David27 on May 24, 2015, 10:36:51 AM
I was allowed to wash my chest after the drains were out and one thing that helped me was a cup. I would soap up my upper chest (above incisions and not on the nipples) then fill the cup with luke-warm water. Then I took the cup and poured it out along my neck/shoulder line. The arm pits were a struggle where my mom assisted me with washing.

Also a step stool and a back scracher/tongs helps if your short to get high objects.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: palexander on July 25, 2015, 11:27:04 AM
Quote from: sam1234 on April 12, 2015, 12:56:18 PM
When I had my top surgery, the nurse put a wrist band on each wrist. There was a half ball that went between the tendons on the inside of the wrist and was a pressure point in controlling nausea after surgery. I think they sell those at drug stores now and they helped me. I loaned them to my mother when she and my dad flew to Europe and she thought they worked too. Just an extra idea if you are into holistic help.

sam1234

i apologize for responding to something that was posted so long ago, but is this what you're talking about? trying to prep for surgery in one month...

http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/sea-band-wristband/ID=prod2662944-product
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AndrewB on July 25, 2015, 12:46:16 PM
Quote from: palexander on July 25, 2015, 11:27:04 AM
i apologize for responding to something that was posted so long ago, but is this what you're talking about? trying to prep for surgery in one month...

http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/sea-band-wristband/ID=prod2662944-product

Yup, that's what I bought, as my surgery is nearing as well. I actually got to try these out as I experienced some vertigo this week (it can happen to me when air pressure shifts rapidly) and this helped with the dizziness-induced nausea. I was actually surprised they worked so well, and even though my surgeon prescribed antinausea, I'm still packing these in my overnight bag.
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: palexander on July 25, 2015, 01:29:41 PM
Quote from: AndrewB on July 25, 2015, 12:46:16 PM
Yup, that's what I bought, as my surgery is nearing as well. I actually got to try these out as I experienced some vertigo this week (it can happen to me when air pressure shifts rapidly) and this helped with the dizziness-induced nausea. I was actually surprised they worked so well, and even though my surgeon prescribed antinausea, I'm still packing these in my overnight bag.

thanks man!! should i get more than one or do you think just one will be alright?
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: AndrewB on July 25, 2015, 01:47:41 PM
Quote from: palexander on July 25, 2015, 01:29:41 PM
thanks man!! should i get more than one or do you think just one will be alright?

The ones you buy come with one for each wrist, it's part of how they work. So one's good.  :)
Title: Re: Surgery prep - what am I forgetting?
Post by: FTMax on July 25, 2015, 02:48:02 PM
I have those bands for motion sickness in the car and they work great. Hopefully they help you guys out!