Hey Girls,
Been a while since I have been here.. so busy with work.. really busy.
So update...
As many of you know my divorce was final last month and my wife and I are BFF...
She took my hand yesterday and said... you know I love you and always will.. I was like Duh.. ditto here.. then she cried and said she had a lunch date with a dude...earlier that day.
Then told me he is one of the most powerful judges in our state and that he invited her to a formal Ball....
She was so worried I would be hurt.. but I was like omg so happy I bet you will be so stunning.. how cool for a fist date!
I totally made her feel better but she still cried and said no way she will make it through the event without thinking of me all the time. She misses Doug... so much..
I am so female now that in a sense the male part I played has completely died away. I do not look or act like I used to at all.. In the puberty stage of Duh..... !!!
Therapist said I am in stage 5 of transition.. when you come into your own.. you own it and look out world. I have to admit .. I don't even think about it anymore when I go out full time which I am all the time.. no choice now.
She also said I need to be careful about decisions because in the immature stage we can make mistakes..... and I have.
My best friend from high school addresses me as hi babe instead of whats up dude... lol.. he is sweet.
On FB I have guys chasing me big time.. its fun to get the attention.... although I am surprised how much I am getting.. kinda weird.. but at the same time makes me feel good.
Makes me feel so female.. I like it.. and I like guys.. a lot!!
I am getting my libido back not a good thing since I have not had GRS.. so have to wait... to date until next year.
I need to grow up again anyway..
I have way more friends than I did as a dude.. people love real people who are themselves. I love people but one thing I have found is that you can't out love others.. you get back more in return... just how it works.
Anyway I hope you girls are doing ok... keep looking up.. life is wonderful.. even though we go through the darkness there is always light at the end of the tunnels we travel!
Love..
Dodie.. /Keri..
Hey there,
I just wanted to thank you for sharing your story, I found it very inspiring and emotional, in a good way :). Hugs.
Hiya Dodie (~:
Yeah much the same thing going on here, stage 5 fits ... its just wild. Partly because its all still very new, I think.
I'm about to get my first apartment of my own as the new me, a pretty one too.
rock on!
Quote from: Dodie on April 13, 2015, 11:14:21 AM
I have way more friends than I did as a dude.. people love real people who are themselves. I love people but one thing I have found is that you can't out love others.. you get back more in return... just how it works.
Now isn't that the truth!! Dodie, it's great to see that you're just getting on with being who you are. I can fully identify with virtually all your updates, and it seems that you are enjoying your journey and taking everything in your stride.
Now, if I could just get taxi drivers to stop asking for my number and somehow go a little more upmarket I will be happy ;D
Onwards, girl!
xxx
Julia
Thanks girls
I am rocking on .
So luv music!
In a happy place!
And men, what dogs they are. I was never like them they are sooo smooth.
After I get grs I just have to let one catch me but for now just hard to get!
Bummer!
Quote from: Dodie on April 13, 2015, 04:57:26 PM
And men, what dogs they are. I was never like them they are sooo smooth.
gold <3
Hi Dodie, So happy for the way life is panning out for you and having your ex as a BFF is just so nice.
Really, really happy for you :-*
You are one of my biggest inspirations :-*
Live life!
L Katy
Katrina thanks girl! Can't go wrong when we are free to be us