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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on April 19, 2015, 10:44:05 PM

Poll
Question: where is the clasp on your bra
Option 1: front hook votes: 4
Option 2: back hook votes: 35
Title: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 19, 2015, 10:44:05 PM
Just curious where is the hook in the front between the cups or the back. I stopped using the ones in the back because its too much of a challenge to bend my arms back there. I find the  front hooks so much easier. the only problem is variety
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: ChloëAri on April 19, 2015, 11:16:33 PM
My bra requirements (I need them fairly padded with a very small band) are very stringent so I take whatever I can. I've only ever worn bras that clasp in the back, but I clasp it in the front and then spin my bra around.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Lady_Oracle on April 19, 2015, 11:20:47 PM
both  ;D
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: sparrow on April 19, 2015, 11:23:54 PM
I got my very first bra yesterday!  It closes in the back, 'cause I'm an odd-sized lady and need extenders.  Like chloe, I close it up front & spin it around.  Amusingly, my wife was excited to learn a new way of putting on a bra.  ;D
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 19, 2015, 11:25:06 PM
there's a lot more variety with both, I think I just got lazy . I hate waiting for my skin to completely dry before I could turn the bra around.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Sydney_NYC on April 19, 2015, 11:29:46 PM
Most of my bras are back claps, but I also have some Bandeau Padded Racerback Bras like these:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi01.i.aliimg.com%2Fwsphoto%2Fv0%2F1946049953_1%2FNew-2014-Candy-Color-Modal-Athletic-Sports-Padded-Bra-Cropped-Tank-Tube-Crop-Tops-Bandeau-Yoga.jpg&hash=d627e18d6442f806c663f890f1d47c34bfd2aeb5)

That are very comfortable and they even make strapless versions that work well with camisoles without a built in bra. I found some similar to the one pictured at Target and Amazon.com
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Amy85 on April 20, 2015, 12:05:42 AM
Both. I found the front-closure racerback I used to have to be very co fortsble and I liked that the straps never slipped down with the racerback style. But there are lots more varieties in the standard back-closure so I have a number of those.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on April 20, 2015, 01:22:20 AM
From the back


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Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: barbie on April 20, 2015, 01:35:08 AM
I have both. Yes. The frontal hook is more convenient, but it is sometimes broken.

barbie~~
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Newgirl Dani on April 20, 2015, 01:40:21 AM
All hook in back, if reaching back is tough, just wrap the bra above your waist with the hooks in front.  Hook them then rotate it around to the back, pull the bra up to the right level then put arms through and pull the straps up.  Works well for me.  I have to do it this way cause of several pretty bad rotator cuff surgeries.   Maybe I'm not looking in the right places yet but finding something that is sexy, lacy, and what I like, I cannot find as a front hook.   Dani
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 20, 2015, 01:43:48 AM
no that seems to be the problem the front hooks as far as I found are just the plain bras
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: katrinaw on April 20, 2015, 06:25:40 AM
Today mine are all back fastening, mainly through choice, but I must admit that front fastening tended to have a little more uplift capabilities..., whereas front have a better fit option  8)

Happy with either tho...

L Katy
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: carolinejeo on April 20, 2015, 08:22:17 AM
Well, all of mine are currently back hook but I have had front hook ones too. No real opinion, though.

Caroline
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Sapphire87 on April 20, 2015, 08:52:45 AM
I have both, most are back clasp though as there tends to be more variety of them where I shop for bras
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Sabrina on April 20, 2015, 08:54:32 AM
I mainly use the ones from the back. I have many of those in lots of colors / styles. I got a few that hook from the front but have had comfort issues with them.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: DrummerGirl on April 20, 2015, 09:32:40 AM
All my current ones hook from the back.  The bra in my "Transgender Teenager Survival Kit" had a front clasp, so I'm familiar with them and don't really have a preference.  I don't have any issues with my arms reaching around to hook in the back, but the 3-hook ones took me a little practice to figure out the best way to connect each hook without undoing another hook.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Jenna Marie on April 20, 2015, 10:10:56 AM
Both. :) My daily bras hook in the back, but I have some fancy ones and also pushup bras that are front hook.


I used to hook in front and then flip it around to the back, though... I've gotten so I can do it in back now, but the "hook and spin" method is common enough that cis women recommended it.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on April 20, 2015, 10:13:40 AM
Quote from: ChloëAri on April 19, 2015, 11:16:33 PM
My bra requirements (I need them fairly padded with a very small band) are very stringent so I take whatever I can. I've only ever worn bras that clasp in the back, but I clasp it in the front and then spin my bra around.

I do that aswell.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Violet Bloom on April 20, 2015, 10:25:21 AM
  I have both types but the only one I wear regularly is front clasp because it happens to be by far the most comfortable.  It's a bonus that it's super-easy to hook and release.  Maybe it's just this particular bra but I find that the inward tug of pulling the front-clasp together is automatically much better at pushing my breasts up and inward without a lot of manual scooping and adjusting.  The rear-hook design feels more like it mashes my chest and tugs it outward while being far less comfortable in the rear-section of the band.  I wear whichever version allows the straps to hide best depending on the clothes.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Newgirl Dani on April 20, 2015, 11:54:42 AM
Quote from: DrummerGirl on April 20, 2015, 09:32:40 AM
  The bra in my "Transgender Teenager Survival Kit"

Wow, how times have changed.  I just cannot imagine how things may have turned out for me had I ran across this back in the 60's   :laugh:
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 20, 2015, 05:51:58 PM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on April 20, 2015, 11:54:42 AM
Wow, how times have changed.  I just cannot imagine how things may have turned out for me had I ran across this back in the 60's   :laugh:
ditto
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: DrummerGirl on April 20, 2015, 06:10:15 PM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on April 20, 2015, 11:54:42 AM
Wow, how times have changed.  I just cannot imagine how things may have turned out for me had I ran across this back in the 60's   :laugh:

It's basically the box that I had when I was a teenager that I kept all my girl stuff in.  I suspect most of us that knew we were transgender as teenagers had something similar.  I've been jokingly calling it my "Transgender Teenager Survival Kit" as a play on the "Zombie Apocalypse Survival Kits" that are being sold now.

On a serious note, I have been contemplating making these for local transgender teens who are unable to acquire things like makeup, clothes, intimates, and hair accessories on their own (and the male equivalents for FtMs).
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: iKate on April 20, 2015, 08:28:12 PM
Back clasp. I don't really like front closing ones.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Emileeeee on April 21, 2015, 08:48:59 AM
I chose back. I always put it on backwards and clip it in front, then swivel it to the back and put the straps on, so it's not really an issue. My ex girlfriend did it the same way, so I'm not the only one that does this.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 21, 2015, 09:46:16 AM
the reason I like them better is because my joints are arthritic and it a challenge to get my arms back there and as far as turning them around , I put them on after a shower and my skin has to be really dry to turn it around my body and sometimes that takes awhile , so I go with the front ones. It can be fun turning them around they're soft against the skin , but I'm getting lazy from old age. of course some of the really lacy and pretty one clip in the back. It can be fun getting your arms limber and hooking from the back.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: noleen111 on April 21, 2015, 10:59:08 AM
From the back, it took some practice, like everything.. now I can hook the bra on without needing to spin the bra around.

Majority of bra's clip from the back, but a few of my strapless bra clip from the front..


Re: DrummerGirl

Those 3 hook bras was a challenge to learn.. and I actually wear those types a lot.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Christine Eryn on April 21, 2015, 01:26:22 PM
Back hooks for me. I have no problems attaching the hooks in the back either. In fact it is more of a pain in the ass to clasp in the front and spin it around.

Having said that, I wear camis instead of bras now.  ;D
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Angelgrl on April 21, 2015, 04:34:45 PM
Mine fasten in the back, no problem.  Like others have said though, you can always fasten it in the front and then turn it around.

Angelgrl
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: kellibra on April 22, 2015, 01:12:37 PM
i have both but i think i prefer front close; it's easier to put on :)
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: michelle666 on April 22, 2015, 01:26:13 PM
Mine all hook in the back. I prefer them to the front ones. I think they're more adjustable.
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: marsh monster on April 22, 2015, 02:34:13 PM
I have one front hook bra, I haven't worn it in probably 8 years. I like back hook cause they're more adjustable and there's nothing poking between my boobs.




And I just sneezed on my laptop screen. Lots of little blobs of snot. Not pretty and I'm gonna go clean it off now I think. Just thought I would throw that in for free...
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: stephaniec on April 22, 2015, 02:49:46 PM
thanks for the info, I was thinking lunch , but maybe I'll try to loose a pound and wait for dinner
Title: Re: do you use a bra that hooks from the front or from the back
Post by: Amaryllis on April 22, 2015, 03:51:14 PM
back hook, tis annoying struggling with it in the morning, when I have almost zero hand coordination.