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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: rachel89 on April 23, 2015, 11:17:30 PM

Title: name change question
Post by: rachel89 on April 23, 2015, 11:17:30 PM
When I get to the stage where I legally change my name , would it be okay to change my middle name from Lee to Leelah in honor of the Leelah Alcorn (I am asking the TG community and not her parents because I think the misunderstanding and  cruelty of her parents precipitated her suicide) How does Rachel Leelah Green (not my current last name) sound to you?
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Ms Grace on April 23, 2015, 11:22:07 PM
If that's what you want to do you should do it :)
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Valwen on April 24, 2015, 01:14:57 AM
I believe that the chance to choose our own name is one of the truly positive parts of being transgender, and that we each owe it to ourselves to choose one that has true meaning to us. It doesn't have to be deep or spiritual but it should have a meaning even if it's just to oneself.

And taking the name of someone who is lost to us to remember and honor that person and there loss certainly qualifies.

--Serena
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: sam1234 on April 24, 2015, 01:45:48 AM
The most important thing about a name change is how well it fits you. Whether you have a specific reason or just like the name, as long as you are comfortable with it, its ok.

sam1234
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: katrinaw on April 24, 2015, 02:13:04 AM
Very respectful of you :) Can't comment on the politics though... Nice ring to it

L Katy
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Dierdre Lenore on April 24, 2015, 10:03:45 AM
I think it's beautiful.
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Sulmor10 on April 24, 2015, 12:03:50 PM
that's an awesome name
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: awilliams1701 on April 24, 2015, 01:29:58 PM
That's a good name for awesome reasons. I say go for it.
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Ian68 on April 24, 2015, 05:20:30 PM
I think it makes perfect sense, and is a worthwhile thing to do.  I took two saint names when I changed my name however many years ago.  It's the same idea - you're honoring someone who means something to you. :)
Title: Re: name change question
Post by: Rachel on April 24, 2015, 08:18:49 PM
I like the name.