Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: RevanDFS on April 28, 2015, 07:50:33 PM

Title: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on April 28, 2015, 07:50:33 PM
I'm transgender. I am still male mode. But I feel very female. Looking to be a woman one day.For the most part I came out to some co-workers ,my Boss, family and friends that I have. I'm looking for friendship of transgender Male to female. Someone I could hangout with,chat. Most of all someone that knows what I'm going threw.
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: Rachel on April 28, 2015, 07:57:03 PM
Welcome to Susan's

We can help support you here.

Please check out the following links for general site info...


•Site Terms of Service and rules to live by
•Standard Terms and Definitions
•Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)
•Reputation rules
• News posting & quoting guidelines
•Photo, avatars, and signature images policy
•News posting & quoting guidelines.htm
(//http:///%3E%E2%80%A2Standard%20Terms%20and%20Definitions%20%3Cbr%20/%3E%E2%80%A2Post%20Ranks%20(including%20when%20you%20can%20upload%20an%20avatar)%20%3Cbr%20/%3E%E2%80%A2Reputation%20rules%3Cbr%20/%3E%E2%80%A2%20News%20posting%20&%20quoting%20guidelines%3Cbr%20/%3E%E2%80%A2Photo,%20avatars,%20and%20signature%20images%20policy)
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: Mariah on April 28, 2015, 08:03:49 PM
Hi RevanDFS, Welcome to Susan's. It's wonderful that you have partially come out so far. I know it can be difficult to find, keep, and gain friends due to transition but your among friends now. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: enigmaticrorschach on April 28, 2015, 08:15:41 PM
*pokes head out from behind a tree* oh wah oh, nice to meetcha. *goes back behind a tree giggling* tehehe
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on April 28, 2015, 08:27:27 PM
Thank you much for the really reply. So sweet.
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: enigmaticrorschach on April 28, 2015, 08:31:48 PM
warning though, out of all of us, i'm the crazy one and i aint afraid to admit it  :icon_weee: tahahaha! :laugh:
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on April 28, 2015, 08:40:48 PM
Thank you for the warning Echo. lol ::)
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on May 25, 2015, 08:33:01 AM
My wife doesn't love me anymore. As a wife would do. I'm sad and alone feeling  today.
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: Mariah on May 25, 2015, 08:37:52 AM
So sorry to hear that. Hugs. Things will get better, I know it may not seem like it now but they will.In the meantime your among friends here. Have you tried talking about that with your wife? It's just a thought anyway. Our transitions change the dynamic of every relationship we have so communication can be very important and it doesn't mean she won't love you again, but things will be different. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: RevanDFS on May 25, 2015, 08:33:01 AM
My wife doesn't love me anymore. As a wife would do. I'm sad and alone feeling  today.
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on May 25, 2015, 08:44:06 AM
She said that she support me. But just doesn't want to be marriage to me. But I still love her so much. Like the day I asked her to marry me. I ->-bleeped-<-ed up.
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: Mariah on May 25, 2015, 08:51:32 AM
Sorry that you feel that way. Unfortunately we gain and lose things generally during transition and sometimes that means some will lose their marriage during transition. I'm glad she is supportive it does show she still loves and cares about you enough to do that it just maybe a different love than your used to. I have a relative that is still with her wife, but they did divorce. She couldn't see herself married to a woman. Yet, they still live together and love each other. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: RevanDFS on May 25, 2015, 09:01:49 AM
It's just so hard to used to. And will I  ever find love or friend's Thank you Mariah2014
Title: Re: Trying to find support and friendship.
Post by: Mariah on May 25, 2015, 09:05:24 AM
You will. It just takes time and patience. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: RevanDFS on May 25, 2015, 09:01:49 AM
It's just so hard to used to. And will I  ever find love or friend's Thank you Mariah2014