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General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: Kova V on May 18, 2015, 09:03:56 AM

Title: Life sucks - venting
Post by: Kova V on May 18, 2015, 09:03:56 AM
I have no purpose in life. I have nothing I'm passionate about. I'm not happy with where I'm at in life. I have no joy in my life. I hate where I live, I hate the relationship I'm in, I'm broke, I hate my job, I haven't been able to find a new job. I hate myself and everything about me. WTF. I really hate life. Life sucks. I'm so emotionally exhausted, stressed and mentally drained. I just want it to stop.

Okay, I think I'm done venting.
Title: Re: Life sucks - venting
Post by: sam1234 on May 18, 2015, 09:07:49 AM
Kova,
venting helps a lot sometimes. Most people have a line of tolerance that they are fine up to, but go over that line and they lose it. Can you break the things that are bothering you down into categories, figure out exactly why its bothering you and then list some conclusions? That can make things easier when you feel overwhelmed. Some problems need to be attended to right away, but there are always some that can wait.

sam1234
Title: Re: Life sucks - venting
Post by: katrinaw on May 18, 2015, 09:28:39 AM
hugs & more hugs Kova

You have goals focus on those, all the things mentioned are obstacles to test our strength and resolve.

I agree with Sam's comments, especially the venting bit, I go out to a quiet place and scream, cus and make kicking and punching gestures... Then I calm....

So is the trigger the job front or the relationship... Are these the root causes?

All problems are surmountable, sometimes just step back a little and then pick the most frustrating one, or the easiest and work up and down the rest from there. Just one win turns everything around, seriously.

Hey if you need help, please call the help lines, its amazing just talking with someone how much it can help.

Look after yourself, first!

L Katy xoxoxo