I honestly do not support my family anymore, besides my grandma because none of them support me or love me for who I am. Even my mother implies bull all the time when she knows it bothers me ..... "are you still living with that guy?" .... like wtf, you and I both know that it implies a gay relationship when HONESTLY its how the military operates and its a thing called 'the barracks'. Then she ask a lot of stupid questions on 'how' i live....
Small stuff like that... its indirectly, and she knows it bothers me. And then she posts pictures on me and throws my name up there... (when she knows I hate it... I dont even have a facebook).
I cant love her when she does stupid stuff like that.... and to put the icing on it... shes answering people questions about me in falsehood.
She has a shi**y life (half her fault) and kind of throw guilt trips... but her life is not my problem. Just because shes a woman and Im a *man* doesnt make me obligated to stress about her.
She then asks me I have a gf all the time...
I seperate from her as much as I can... she love me throw rose colour glasses.
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she will never change... i know this
sorry your having these problems. I don't have a family either.
You could always try the "kill'em with kindness" trick. That's what I do with my folks, friends, and coworkers. Be always nice to everyone and help out wherever and whenever you can. In my situation, I still live at home and my folks don't like me wearing mini skirts even though it's my preferred lower body garment. So at home, I wear pants and when out and about, wear skirts. My overall advice is start slow and find some form of compromise with those giving you trouble while in their presence. Then when on your own, do as you wish. It takes time, patience, and persistence but it's possible. After years of working at it, my kindness and compromise strategy is finally beginning to pay off.
Im closer and closer to just disowning....
But then theyll commit suicide without me... they say.