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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Passing => Topic started by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 06:47:17 AM

Title: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 06:47:17 AM
this pic out of 10(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-06%2FB6FC243F-E537-494C-8EA4-E22C0F98B8AF_zpsyhq3ztoz.jpg&hash=2f8b7e291e62498935dde1c1ddd00cf5f9a94ef7) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-06/B6FC243F-E537-494C-8EA4-E22C0F98B8AF_zpsyhq3ztoz.jpg.html)
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Devlyn on June 11, 2015, 10:01:32 AM
Come on smiley, you haven't given everyone a chance to see you yet.  :)  I'm posting instead of working, others may not have the option of that. Give this some time before you bail out, OK? I think you look good. I guess the real question is how do you feel? Are you happy with where you're at and the progress?

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 10:10:09 AM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on June 11, 2015, 10:01:32 AM
Come on smiley, you haven't given everyone a chance to see you yet.  :)  I'm posting instead of working, others may not have the option of that. Give this some time before you bail out, OK? I think you look good. I guess the real question is how do you feel? Are you happy with where you're at and the progress?

Hugs, Devlyn
Sorry I know sometimes yes and sometimes no
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: enigmaticrorschach on June 11, 2015, 11:47:37 AM
sry love, I don't give ratings because I only judge based on one's character but you look great so I'd give you an 8/10. lol

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Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Mariah on June 11, 2015, 11:52:33 AM
Around 6 / 7. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 11:45:51 AM
Please rate out of ten just give me a idea on how I look
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 12:35:30 PM
What needs approving being on hormones for longer
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Mariah on June 11, 2015, 12:55:47 PM
Quote from: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 12:35:30 PM
What needs approving being on hormones for longer
Most definitely. Hormones can and do amazing things. To help give you an idea. Here is a picture of me pre hormones and one of me very recently.
Mariah
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi47.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff198%2FMariah_Shaw%2FFacebook%2FProfile%2520Pictures%2F10363945_332692866899786_7190371928147559005_n_zps2ls22rs9.jpg&hash=542542c58873fae55ff2f19acce0e4f159ace550) (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi47.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff198%2FMariah_Shaw%2FFacebook%2FProfile%2520Pictures%2F11425124_489665321202539_3885630416626677573_n_zpsgopdojur.jpg&hash=b36c3d9ab56294cac44d6695710e90084d5d0a16)
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 12:59:00 PM
Wow that's a change You look awesome
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Mariah on June 11, 2015, 01:03:58 PM
Yes it is and thank you. The second picture is over 8 and half months in on hormones and the first is about 10 and half months ago. I share those with you because you need to see home much they can and will do for you. I wish it could happen over night for all of us, but it doesn't work that way. So please do give it some time. I hope the pictures helped cheer you up and give you something to look forward to hugs.
Mariah
Quote from: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 12:59:00 PM
Wow that's a change You look awesome
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Yenneffer on June 11, 2015, 01:07:05 PM
Hugs
Title: Re: Out of ten
Post by: Mariah on June 11, 2015, 01:10:44 PM
Hugs to you too.  :)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: kelly_aus on June 12, 2015, 03:51:25 AM
A headshot is not possible to score.. Besides, pictures don't tell the whole story.

I'll use myself as an example.. Physically, I don't look particularly feminine, as I've been told here in the past. However, my body language is clearly feminine.. As is the way I speak - and no, it's not pitch, it's the way I construct sentences and the things I actually say.. Do I pass? Not 100%, but well enough that sometimes outing myself causes strenuous denials and disbelief from others.
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 04:09:03 AM
Yenneffer

Where I began from.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1240.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg499%2F8295%2Fc29d245d-2732-4048-86f4-83398cc15993.jpg&hash=bc769e4b1f6d6f827f77afb13ac4ab9f8cf1f519)

Five years ago, my current avatar was 18 months ago. I'm far more gorgeous now. I swear! (http://[url=http://s1240.photobucket.com/user/8295/media/c29d245d-2732-4048-86f4-83398cc15993.jpg.html)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: kelly_aus on June 12, 2015, 04:21:12 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 04:09:03 AM
Yenneffer

Where I began from.
<Pic Redacted>


One day, Cindy, I'm actually going to believe that was you.. Or I'm going to run in to him somewhere in Adelaide..
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 04:27:35 AM
Nothing but hormones a good hairdresser and attitude.

No Kelly that thing/person has gone.

You will only see him in nightmares!!
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 04:50:26 AM
I just cried a lot feel a bit better now(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-06%2F4992D39D-0D65-4ADD-B9F5-B9801C6C1E6A_zpststkqjvm.jpg&hash=4872fbad93be6f3ce80a9fe4e3b432b8aea78dfa) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-06/4992D39D-0D65-4ADD-B9F5-B9801C6C1E6A_zpststkqjvm.jpg.html)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 04:53:07 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 04:09:03 AM
Yenneffer

Where I began from.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1240.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg499%2F8295%2Fc29d245d-2732-4048-86f4-83398cc15993.jpg&hash=bc769e4b1f6d6f827f77afb13ac4ab9f8cf1f519)

Five years ago, my current avatar was 18 months ago. I'm far more gorgeous now. I swear!
(http://[url=http://s1240.photobucket.com/user/8295/media/c29d245d-2732-4048-86f4-83398cc15993.jpg.html)
you look great
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 05:14:32 AM
Thank you.
Every mirror in my home was covered, I never wanted to see him. I wasn't him. I'm a lovely woman.

Guess what Hon,so are you.

Never, ever give in. If you think you look bad look at me.

I'm now a lovely gorgeous woman. Even if I'm the only person who says so!
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 06:51:56 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 05:14:32 AM
Thank you.
Every mirror in my home was covered, I never wanted to see him. I wasn't him. I'm a lovely woman.

Guess what Hon,so are you.

Never, ever give in. If you think you look bad look at me.

I'm now a lovely gorgeous woman. Even if I'm the only person who says so!
Hugs I feel about better its I just don't get a straight answer I know I been hormones for a month and it's gonna take time all I want to know is can I look female I know I keep going on I'm just paranoid about myself
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 07:20:53 AM
Yenneffer,
It took three years. OK a year of face blasting agony as I cried my eyes out on the laser chair. Sucking up what little courage I had to walk into a hairdresser and say 'I'm a transgender woman and I need help' they helped after rejecting me. I went back and begged. I see them every six weeks now, they love me and I them.

Painting my face and looking like a man in a dress. The s->-bleeped-<-s and unheard jokes.

I walked my path.

One step at a time. Fear.

Tell me.

I walked my path, holding on to the hands of my sisters here. Screaming I could never do it.

Then, finally waiting at the pedestrian crossing. Wearing my loved denim skirt. Feeling the breeze on my naked legs. Walking into work. Sitting, smiling. Fear gone.

Greeting my fellow workers who had shock in their eyes

Meet Cindy!

I am me and I am proud!

One day that will be you Honey. One day!

One step at a time.
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Colleen M on June 12, 2015, 03:37:18 PM
Quote from: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 04:27:35 AM
Nothing but hormones a good hairdresser and attitude.


And a smile.  Don't forget the smile.  It's amazing how often it's one of the first things I notice in the "before" and "after" pictures. 
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 03:48:44 PM
Quote from: Colleen M on June 12, 2015, 03:37:18 PM
And a smile.  Don't forget the smile.  It's amazing how often it's one of the first things I notice in the "before" and "after" pictures.
i did
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: kittenpower on June 12, 2015, 04:13:49 PM
Quote from: Cindy on June 12, 2015, 07:20:53 AM
Yenneffer,
It took three years. OK a year of face blasting agony as I cried my eyes out on the laser chair. Sucking up what little courage I had to walk into a hairdresser and say 'I'm a transgender woman and I need help' they helped after rejecting me. I went back and begged. I see them every six weeks now, they love me and I them.

Painting my face and looking like a man in a dress. The s->-bleeped-<-s and unheard jokes.

I walked my path.

One step at a time. Fear.

Tell me.

I walked my path, holding on to the hands of my sisters here. Screaming I could never do it.

Then, finally waiting at the pedestrian crossing. Wearing my loved denim skirt. Feeling the breeze on my naked legs. Walking into work. Sitting, smiling. Fear gone.

Greeting my fellow workers who had shock in their eyes

Meet Cindy!

I am me and I am proud!

One day that will be you Honey. One day!

One step at a time.

The path sucks at first, but it's the only way to get where we need to be. And when we reach our destination, we are stronger, wiser, and prettier than we ever thought possible.  :)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Colleen M on June 12, 2015, 04:34:20 PM
Quote from: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 03:48:44 PM
i did

Sorry if I caused any confusion.  I was talking about the difference between Cindy's (and others') before and after photos.  I had the impression you don't have as stark a contrast in before/after as she does.  Yet, at least. 

Honestly, given the two of yours and with the caveat that they're not full-body, I'm not going to tell you I believe you're at the end of a road you know you've just begun--and I'm not that far on myself, if we're going with the honesty angle.  What I will tell you is that I think I really like your odds of ending up with you liking the finished product.  I have lurked here long enough to have seen some far less promising people turn into quite attractive women.         

I stand by the idea that smiles help, though.   
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 12, 2015, 04:39:28 PM
Thanks for the honest reply and i agree
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 13, 2015, 02:16:12 AM
I have a date when going out in public
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: leacobb on June 13, 2015, 09:20:38 AM
i think you look stunning, I think people no matter who you are will always find something they don't like about them self, i do all the time... but i think it is just in our chemistry to do so... But with that being said it really don't matter what i say or anyone else.. it souly depends on you, How do you feel ? What do you see ? does it bring you happiness ?
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 13, 2015, 09:30:50 AM
Thanks hugs.I want to feel happy but my momm is evil puts me down when shes drinking
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: leacobb on June 13, 2015, 10:08:58 AM
Im so sorry to hear that, no one should ever be put down... I suppose that is where strength comes into play... My dad is doing the same thing, just in a different way. but he does it to me when he drinks so i can understand what you are saying regarding that... But beauty comes in all forms and shapes and i think that your facial features are good which shows your beauty... Just stay strong 
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 13, 2015, 10:17:16 AM
Hugs thanks  ;)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Hopefull on June 13, 2015, 11:52:56 AM
Oh, wow, your cute. Don't let anyone tell you different. 7/10 and getting better! :D
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 13, 2015, 11:57:52 AM
Quote from: Hopefull on June 13, 2015, 11:52:56 AM
Oh, wow, your cute. Don't let anyone tell you different. 7/10 and getting better! :D
from a guy faints hugs  :)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: barbie on June 13, 2015, 10:37:05 PM
I have never been on HRT, but I learned long hair, some makeup and decent clothes can dramatically enhance my femininity. Yes. It is better that your look is more tasteful to people's eyes. I also learned that people prefer my wearing rather conservative fashion items. But, still most of my skirts are too short...

barbie~~
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on June 14, 2015, 01:56:53 AM
Quote from: barbie on June 13, 2015, 10:37:05 PM
I have never been on HRT, but I learned long hair, some makeup and decent clothes can dramatically enhance my femininity. Yes. It is better that your look is more tasteful to people's eyes. I also learned that people prefer my wearing rather conservative fashion items. But, still most of my skirts are too short...

barbie~~
thanks.no hrt wow do you have natural high estrogen levels
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Stella Sophia on August 12, 2015, 01:59:09 AM
Yeah you're passable! You look feminine without the makeup, if you don't already have your makeup game down, you will be hella passable when you do. You don't have any features that are masculine, you don't have a troll chin like me.
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on August 12, 2015, 01:18:08 PM
Ok I update (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-08%2FEE40CE91-125C-495E-8337-F40230E4EB04_zpsamj3uoj0.jpg&hash=f0b54d5763687c5e1fe49abafd1388cd407ca025) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-08/EE40CE91-125C-495E-8337-F40230E4EB04_zpsamj3uoj0.jpg.html)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-08%2F69AE67B7-EF0B-46A2-A62A-076430C76079_zpsjjqmyvep.jpg&hash=bbe8366f11977196759fcea92d8e37d297e29cac) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-08/69AE67B7-EF0B-46A2-A62A-076430C76079_zpsjjqmyvep.jpg.html)
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Sigyn on August 12, 2015, 01:48:36 PM
Quote from: Yenneffer on August 12, 2015, 01:18:08 PM
Ok I update (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-08%2FEE40CE91-125C-495E-8337-F40230E4EB04_zpsamj3uoj0.jpg&hash=f0b54d5763687c5e1fe49abafd1388cd407ca025) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-08/EE40CE91-125C-495E-8337-F40230E4EB04_zpsamj3uoj0.jpg.html)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1068.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu457%2Fhalonoob1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-08%2F69AE67B7-EF0B-46A2-A62A-076430C76079_zpsjjqmyvep.jpg&hash=bbe8366f11977196759fcea92d8e37d297e29cac) (http://s1068.photobucket.com/user/halonoob1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-08/69AE67B7-EF0B-46A2-A62A-076430C76079_zpsjjqmyvep.jpg.html)

Since you asked for honesty...

The pic on the left with the smirk makes you look way masculine, the one on the right is "wow" pass! <3
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Yenneffer on August 12, 2015, 02:14:18 PM
I thought the one on the left was bad But the Api gendered female
Title: Re: Out of ten Be honest
Post by: Colleen M on August 12, 2015, 08:05:48 PM
Quote from: Sigyn on August 12, 2015, 01:48:36 PM
Since you asked for honesty...

The pic on the left with the smirk makes you look way masculine, the one on the right is "wow" pass! <3

I'd agree.  That is definitely a cute girl on the right.