Hey all. I'm 28, male (for now?) living in Hawaii. I am currently in the military- and hopeful for changes to take place to make coming out possible (trying to be vague- coming out would interfere with my job and would make it possible to kick me out).
About 11 years ago- I had a girlfriend back then who helped me dress up in clothes of the opposite sex. She was ok with it and I felt really comfortable like dressed as a girl. After we broke up, I had a freak out and threw everything out. Really miss some of that stuff. To this day, that was my favorite skirt and I still love those boots. Tried to ignore that part of myself for... 9 years? About a year ago, I decided to try again and see how I felt, and have gotten a small trunk's worth. It just feels right.
I love it when I can feel soft and feminine. While I know who I am, I'm still trying to figure out WHAT I am. At this point, I'm hoping to meet people, trade knowledge, and get advice when I need it and hope give it when I can.
Hey Casey
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Grace
Hi Casey, welcome to Susan's Thank you for sharing that. I look forward to seeing you around the forums. Good Luck and Hugs
Mariah
Hi Casey :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's Place. This is a good place to explore your feelings and if you look around the site you will find a few post from people with military obligations much like you. As for trading information, we do a lot of learning and then paying it back to the next generation. I am here because I have a wealth of knowledge that still applies today and it would be wasted if I didn't have someone to share it with. Let us know if we can help you.
Hi Casey,
Welcome to Susan's
Ahh the purge... yes done that a few times! You hate yourself after when the emotions or urges come back again, and again...
You'll certainly help find yourself being here....
Look forward to seeing you about
L Katy :-*
Welcome to Susan's.