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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: maralehava on June 28, 2015, 06:18:21 PM

Title: Just out
Post by: maralehava on June 28, 2015, 06:18:21 PM
I have real issues with my dad and his side of the family, to the point i've hidden and denied being trans for 8 years. I stopped all communication with them 3 months ago, and i finally felt strong enough to tell my mum and my brothers about myself, so i'll be starting the ball rolling properly next week. I feel blessed, my brothers only comment was that if i get a better beard than him he will shave it off in my sleep! The other one just shrugged and told me to be happy. I've got a pretty solid support group socially as well, and i am aware that barring my dad and his family i'm very lucky to know who i do.

I guess i just wanted to share a positive story, and say hi at the same time, so hi, and also yay, some of the threads on here are awesome. I'm looking forward to being able to match my body to my mind, however long it takes. [emoji4]

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Title: Re: Just out
Post by: Mariah on June 28, 2015, 06:34:00 PM
Congrats on coming out to your brothers. I'm glad they at least want you to be happy which is fantastic in itself. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Just out
Post by: sam1234 on June 28, 2015, 06:36:51 PM
That's great! Having the support of your family makes everything so much easier. Maybe in time your Father will come around to your side. In the meantime, you won't have to go it alone. Congratulations for having the courage to go forward and let your family know who you really are.

sam1234
Title: Re: Just out
Post by: katrinaw on June 28, 2015, 06:38:06 PM
Hi Maralehava

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Thanks for sharing, glad you have a great network of support and that most of your family support you.

Look forward to seeing you about

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Title: Re: Just out
Post by: Rachel on June 28, 2015, 06:39:09 PM
Congratulations, I am glad you have a solid base.
Title: Re: Just out
Post by: maralehava on June 28, 2015, 07:06:39 PM
Thanks everyone