The last time someone said I was pretty was at my last therapy session. I had on a pink dress and a little make up and my therapist said I was very pretty. It made my day. Do others get compliments often on their looks or are they sparse and far in between . Another time someone said something nice was about 5 months ago when I walked into a restaurant that I frequent and one of the employee's complimented me on a dress I was wearing. It made me feel on cloud 9. I really love being complimented on my dresses.
Yesterday,
I was drunk from a party yesterday and a very handsome boy of 18 approach me in the metro and told me. I took him to my place and we wakka wakkad. >:-) I behave so cheap when I'm drunk omg :o
When they were sober? *le sigh*
Most every day but that's just because I'm not single, had a stranger open a door for me today, that's always nice. The only times strangers have approached me at night and started hit on me I thought were pretty scary usually always get abused if you turn them down.
Two days ago via PM message on LGBT dating site. A couple of messages later the guy turned out to be waay too creepy for me to handle and so I cut him off.
Today on Facebook
Last month;
When I was out with a CIS Female friend Tracey at a restaurant near Exeter in Devon. She also said she loved my perfume and I smelt gorgeous.
Later her Mum arrived - and she said the same thing.
It really made my day.
Judith
It has been awhile, but then I am 66 and that makes a difference.
Walked past a couple of men my age on the sidewalk. When I had gone by, I heard one say "She's cute!"
Of course my BF says it often but he is biased LOL!
Like anyone who isn't my mom?
Um, never.
:'(
At least once a day.
I look in the mirror with my wig on and a flower in my hair and whatever clothes I've chosen to enhance my flawed but special body.
I keep looking until I see beauty there. It never takes long.
I try to avoid leaving the house without telling myself I'm beautiful.
Of course if the question in Subject line is asking when the last time someone else said it, that question is harder to answer.
Well at 55 I prefer to be Good looking, and back in the day I'm not sure I encouraged people to call me Pretty because that wasnt what I wanted to be. I wanted to be an intelligent, powerful, strong, remarkable, compassionate, yet striking, woman.
Actually come to think of it I don't anyone would ever have survived calling me pretty! lol ;D
Seriously It just wasnt my motivation - do I have a positive self image and high self esteem? Absolutely. Is that tied to my looks? No.
One day last week I was on a bus and the little girl (maybe 4 or 5 years old) sitting in front of me told me I was pretty.
I get called pretty by children quite frequently, but it is rare when an adult will say it. I have been thinking about this for quite a while, trying to figure out why children would say that. Is it that children have a different sense of beauty because their views haven't yet been clouded by mainstream media's version of beauty? Is it that because they haven't had the binary forced upon them yet that they are able to sense the beauty of someone being true to themselves?
I think it was a week or so ago, some guy in the store told me that. I used to hear it a lot, but as I've gotten older, not as much. I'm pretty sure I'm well beyond my LFD now though.
Quote from: stephaniec on July 22, 2015, 11:20:12 PMwhen was the last time someone said you were a pretty woman
I tell myself every day in front of the mirror, à la Stuart Smalley.
(I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, I'm a pretty woman!)
well the closest I've gotten was here. Someone said I had a pretty smile...not sure if that counts tho
Pretty? Never.
Beautiful? That happens a couple or so times a week.
Somehow, at 6'1" and dressed for work or casual tims, I don't think pretty applies.
Hugs
Jen
I got called "gorgeous" by one of the women in the office today! ;D
This morning. Hubby always says that. No one else says the word 'pretty' though, they use the word 'beautiful'. I don't feel I am beautiful or pretty-- just an average girl who is tired and a good long nap would do me good. ZZZzzzzzz.
Two nights ago, as we were watching Becoming Us on ABCFAMILY, my 16 yo daughter, sitting next to me, turns and says "You're so much prettier than Carly".
I'll take it! :icon_mrgreen:
Quote from: allisonsteph on July 23, 2015, 06:23:52 AM
One day last week I was on a bus and the little girl (maybe 4 or 5 years old) sitting in front of me told me I was pretty.
I get called pretty by children quite frequently, but it is rare when an adult will say it. I have been thinking about this for quite a while, trying to figure out why children would say that. Is it that children have a different sense of beauty because their views haven't yet been clouded by mainstream media's version of beauty? Is it that because they haven't had the binary forced upon them yet that they are able to sense the beauty of someone being true to themselves?
I'm glad you said that about children, they stare at me all the time and it would be great if it was because they thought I was pretty.
Before I answer, let me just preface this by saying that I work in a very public customer-service job where I'm basically the person that greets every single person that comes into the poker room, so I deal with a LOT of people every single day, and therefore have a lot more opportunities for people to make remarks on my appearance than most people here probably do. Especially since most of the people who come into the poker room are middle-aged hetero guys, exactly the type who seems to be the most complimentary toward young women. With that said, I get compliments from guys pretty much every single day... probably an average of one or two per day when I'm working at the front counter like that.
When I'm a dealer, which forces me to wear what's basically a bland completely-body-covering shapeless unisex all-black uniform, the response is much less complimentary. I have still been complimented several times, but it's very inconsistent, maybe once every few weeks or so at the most. And unfortunately, in addition to those compliments I've been misgendered three times.
So yeah, I get complimented when I'm actually wearing flattering business-casual clothes that hug my body's curves, but I definitely don't win many points for having a pretty face or being one of those girls whose boobs and butt shows up even when they're wearing unisex clothes, I only look androgynously female-ish when I do.
I'll let you know when it happens for the first time.
I've had friends say I will be pretty and the first person I came out to used the phrase "you're gonna be knocking em back with a big stick, trust me" that's the best compliment I've had yet
I just tell it to myself every day. Funk on what others say! Although I do hear it from guys... Too bad I prefer women.
A couple of times a week. Never from men though. And how could I forget, my 2 & 3 yr. old granddaughters say it often.
I'll take that any day of the week!
Not sure.
I can however pinpoint the last time somebody told me *they* were pretty.
(you know who you are x)
My boyfriends often tells me that I am very pretty... he also says I am gorgeous and sexy.