To you what is a woman?
1. Is it someone born biologically a woman?
2. Is it someone who projects image of a woman regardless of their genitalia?
3. Is it someone who has a vagina simply regardless of assigned gender?
4. Is it someone who is female on their passport?
5. Anything else?
So my other post-op friend told me I'm not a true woman cos I don't have the essence of being a real woman that is loving & caring (despite I have a vagina). She tells me being a true woman is not just of having a vagina but overall attitude and behavior. I worked SO HARD to correct my behavior, attitude and mannerism (walking, make-up, proper dress code, body language/gestures) over years but now she's telling there are these final 'subtleties' that I still need to correct. She says I don't like staying in the kitchen, I hate cooking (I just do basic stuffs) and I don't decorate my room and it's all just basic inside while she knows how to do infinite recipes for her boyfriend while me what I just know to do is bring guys and have fun inside the house. I broke with my boyfriend, I'm in depression and the only thing that makes me happy in bring handsome guys inside the house to have fun. She's telling me I just act like a gay man with a vagina. I'm only 1 year post-op and I feel I'm just like a teenage girl and in my 'slut phase'. Is being a slut equivalent of being a horny 'man' I don't think so cos even in biological female there are sluts.
To you what is it to be a 'REAL' woman and to you what is it the 'essence' of being a 'real woman'?
I can only see this going downhill. I'm locking.
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