This is me again looking for some advice.
I thought pads worked well to tuck the thing and finally be able to wear tight pants. Really, when I stand in front of a mirror it looks fine. But two days ago I was in a mall, walking towards a mirror. To my horror, as I walked, I could notice the distinct mass shifting from left to right and back as I walk. At that moment I wanted to cut it all as it just won't bend any further and it is no good. At home I simulated walk with one, two or three pads and that is just no go. I have an excess that won't conceal.
I can imagine that there could be a kind of plastic items that I can stuff in my panties too, to make things look smooth. Does anyone have experience with such items? I am particularly interested in general names, or names of brands and such. A starter.
Thanks
Kinda gives a new meaning to "the battle of the bulge"... :-\
I tried a DIY variant of what you're talking about...didn't work too well (things still shifted, but with the added benefit of an unyielding edge to the sensitive bits...)
I ended up using 2 pairs of shorts "two sizes too small", as well as body shaper panty hose (legs cut off about 4" below crotch). Nothing ever shifted with that combo.
Too small panties and hose over that controls everything for me. Have you tried a gaff?
I always wore two pairs of panties about two sizes too tight. I'd work the boys into the hollow cavities just above the scrotum and fold the pointy thing back so that it pointed directly behind me.
Once I'd been on HRT for a couple months, I could stick the danglies all the way up the inguinal canal without even noticing they were there.
Everybody always says two sizes too small but I already have to wear the smallest commonly available size most of the time. Needless to say I'm always pleased to find panties suitable for tucking. Oddly enough, that's usually thongs from Gordman's. :/
Tightish knickers... but have to push the dangly bits as far down, between the legs and to the back as possible. Then a gaff over the top - tight enough to flatten out any bulge (I always wear the gaff over the knickers otherwise the thong of the gaff goes up my butt!!! Very uncomfortable!!)... and then a nice pair of knickers over the top. Seems excessive I know, but it's not bulky and surprisingly comfortable and effective if done right. Looks very flat, the right shape, no bulge etc... mind you I belong to the itsy bitsy teeny weenie club so it may be different for the long dong silvers! ;)
A size 5 and woman's is too big on me anyone else have this issue?
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I kind of tried the smaller panties variant as far as the no-marks-left went. Painful and harming variants were still no good.
Would keep digging there. But not being on hrt and having a lot to conceal takes its toll... the balls are nastier than the wee wee.
I guess it depends on your size in regards to how hard its going to be to hide it. I wear a thin pad (Always foam with wings) and it keeps everything in place nicely. I wear yoga pants and do yoga and never had a problem. but I'm on the very small side of things.
I use a strong cloth medical tape. It works! Make sure you are completely hair free down there first! The testicles are pushed back up where they came from, with the flaccid member being first secured in place with one long strip of tape from pants line right under between the cheeks and back up to the pants line behind. I fold the scrotum skin either side inwards over the tape, and tape in place, going slightly diagonal so each piece ends on a butt cheek. I usually end up using 5 long strips of tape...one down the middle, two either side.. Over lapping the edges somewhat. Then one or two smaller bits of tape to make sure everything is neatly flat and i can still stand, sit, walk comfortably. It lasts all day, leaves no hint of bulge, and i got good at doing it after the 3rd or 4th attempt. The first attempts resulted in needing to race back to the loo to rip off all the tape and start again lol. Make sure you completely empty your bladder first! Wrapping a bit of tissue around the head of your member before taping makes tape removal quicker and less likely to hurt! Especially if ya gotta go toilet during the day. Give urself time to get to the loo.. Coz you'll need 5 minutes to slowly peel back enough tape to enable toilet business lol. I don't do this every day.... Only when i want to wear a skirt or skinny jeans or jeggings. Tape surpresses farts too lol... At least slows them down rendering them silent! Not everyone will agree with me or like this method, i understand that. Do it at your own risk! It works for me though. Other days... Two or even three pairs of tight knickers works but can be just as uncomfortable.
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Update.
What I just used is like...
- 1 pad
- 1 pair of panties
- 1 pair of bikini hotpants, 6 numbers smaller
- 1 pair of bikini hotpans, 2 numbers smaller
It makes the down parts steady and flat, but it is super easy to feel pain in the balls. It also makes my legs 2-3 inches shorter. :( I have big genital bits, this is the price. I hope at least one day they will be turned into a deep vagina...
Only tested with tight (read normal) pants. I don't dare wear jeggings or such.
I had good luck with a girdle, the kind that is intended to squeeze tightly and has a thickly reinforced crotch. It basically gave me a "shelf" to rest everything on. Yes, it also made my legs a little shorter. :)
Once you start on HRT that'll help shrink things a bit. Everyone else has kinda given all the other advice I could offer though.
I enjoy wearing thongs all the time though and really need to a couple nice gaffs to wear.
Quick question: doesn't wearing underpants a few sizes too small cause the waistband to dig into the waist? Wouldn't that also get painful after having them on all day?
I prefer thongs for many reasons, but also because small sized bikini style panties have a tendency to make my butt look rather weird.
Quote from: amoeba on August 03, 2015, 09:35:30 PM
Quick question: doesn't wearing underpants a few sizes too small cause the waistband to dig into the waist? Wouldn't that also get painful after having them on all day?
Yup. It also creates a muffin-top if you don't have a flat stomach, unless you are wearing a shaper over it.
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Quote from: michellemartine on August 02, 2015, 08:30:57 AM
Update.
What I just used is like...
- 1 pad
- 1 pair of panties
- 1 pair of bikini hotpants, 6 numbers smaller
- 1 pair of bikini hotpans, 2 numbers smaller
It makes the down parts steady and flat, but it is super easy to feel pain in the balls. It also makes my legs 2-3 inches shorter. :( I have big genital bits, this is the price. I hope at least one day they will be turned into a deep vagina...
Only tested with tight (read normal) pants. I don't dare wear jeggings or such.
Have you tried shaper panties?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjZFhnFFItM
Just make a gaff
I wear a pair of cotton knickers to hold the tuck in place and over that I wear hotpants. Then depending on what I'm wearing, jeans or leggings, I'll add another pair of hotpants over that.
If I'm wearing a skirt, two layers will do.
It has become a lot, lot easier since starting HRT as everything has shrunk considerably 8)
I don't remember what the heck this thing is called, but I ended up buying something that was tight like a corset, but not a corset. It looks kind of like a one-piece bathing suit made out of the material of a bra, with clips like a bra between the legs. I wear that under a pair of panties from a sports bra/panty set. They're thicker fabric and tight. I do a loose job of tucking under all that, but I don't go overboard. Potty breaks are rather interesting though.
I did try a gaff in the past, but they're all thongs and very uncomfortable in my opinion. So not worth it. I'd rather wear a pair of loose fitting mens jeans than to have to wear one of those again.
Quote from: Emileeeee on August 05, 2015, 08:28:09 PM
I don't remember what the heck this thing is called, but I ended up buying something that was tight like a corset, but not a corset. It looks kind of like a one-piece bathing suit made out of the material of a bra, with clips like a bra between the legs. I wear that under a pair of panties from a sports bra/panty set. They're thicker fabric and tight. I do a loose job of tucking under all that, but I don't go overboard. Potty breaks are rather interesting though.
I did try a gaff in the past, but they're all thongs and very uncomfortable in my opinion. So not worth it. I'd rather wear a pair of loose fitting mens jeans than to have to wear one of those again.
Spanx?
No, not spanx, although I have been considering trying them. I think it's called a body briefer.
im going to try and not to get weird..my penis rides a little high,and i cant tuck like most t.g.s,but my groin area has always been puffy and am able to push my penis in and bring my ball sack over the entrance to create the illusion of having a vagina,i wear a size 8 panty which fits me perfect and holds everything in place..i wish they made panty gaffs instead of g string gaffs,but oh well i learned to make do with whats at hand.
Quote from: cheryl reeves on August 08, 2015, 11:55:10 AMmy penis rides a little high,and i cant tuck like most
I was not aware this could be. Still half-believe it is possible. But let me tell one more experience.
Today I tucked again in a tight sports pants. No matter how good the tucking was, the result was a big outstanding bulge in the front. It didn't look like man's genitalia, at worst it looked like men's genitalia packed into something massive. At best it looked like something strange. Hated it, but went out like that anyway. It is summer here and I like to wear tight pants.
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I don't think there is a way to pull in my stuff any more. The clit is big, the two guests are big. What remains after hrt is done with them is job for a surgeon.
Okay one more thing... tucking this way does an acceptable job. But there is no way to cross legs without horrible pain. #fml
Sport strapping tape works the best!
Used it for 5 years, every day.
when i tuck i look flat and i don't have to tape. when wearing a dress i use a waist cincher to keep me flat.l stated before i can push mine in and pull my nutsack up creating the illusion of a vagina..its a weird defect along with a few other defects..i was suppose to have been a girl and everyone was surprised when i popped out a boy who looked like a girl...
Learned new method this Saturday. Probably known to many. It works better than raw compression. It consists of rolling up the two witnesses into a sort of hollow spaces and pulling the thing backwards.
It is still big, perhaps stealing 1-2 inches off legs length, but better. I only need one pad now.
Ugh... I really don't look forward to figuring this part out, lol... Certainly a very helpful thread, though.