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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: MugwortPsychonaut on August 01, 2015, 08:40:30 AM

Title: Dating... sigh
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on August 01, 2015, 08:40:30 AM
A couple weeks ago, I ran into a friend. She had a friend with her, who I found myself totally attracted to. A few days later, my friend told me "[She] just LOVES you!"

Turns out she's seeing someone and just thought I was sweet and rad and all those things. Which is nice. No complaints about that. And this is minor, just a small bump in life. But I'm still processing my disappointment.

Le sigh.
Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: lost._.at._.sea on August 01, 2015, 09:25:21 AM
That's rough. But that's dating. Everything's ripe with competition.


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Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: Laura_7 on August 01, 2015, 09:41:27 AM
You could see it as a good sign.
People like you.
And you might have gone through one or two flirtatious situations which might help you in the future.
I'd say just take your time. The next one might be an even better fit.


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Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: Rachel on August 01, 2015, 11:02:43 AM
She is seeing someone right now and she likes you. So keep the communication open an in the future who knows what will happen.
Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: KristinaM on August 05, 2015, 12:50:22 PM
And there's nothing wrong with dating more than one person!  Maybe she has room on her dance card for another.  :)
Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: Jill F on August 05, 2015, 01:23:21 PM
Challenge accepted?  Sometimes "I'm seeing someone" means "Still accepting offers". 
Title: Re: Dating... sigh
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on August 05, 2015, 01:29:59 PM
Heh. Nah, my friend told me said crush is seeing someone. Then she empathized by telling me how such is the story of her life, too.