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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Ephemeral on August 28, 2015, 10:29:42 PM

Title: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Ephemeral on August 28, 2015, 10:29:42 PM
I don't want to spill the beans in public; it makes me too uncomfortable. Anyway, I'd really like to have some guy to talk to when it comes to hetero sex and our obvious inability to have it in the way you'd like to have it. It would be especially nice if you've been in a hetero relationship for quite a while and/or have had bot surgery.

I'd prefer if you could add me on Skype or the like. I am not so fond of the PM feature on this site as I find it confusing and clunky, for most of the part. Message me for Skype details since I am not going to put it out here.
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Mariah on August 28, 2015, 10:36:46 PM
Send me a PM. I will be glad to talk with you. I'm more than willing to add you on Skype. My details are in my profile or just look to the left of my post. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Ephemeral on August 28, 2015, 10:50:41 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on August 28, 2015, 10:36:46 PM
Send me a PM. I will be glad to talk with you. I'm more than willing to add you on Skype. My details are in my profile or just look to the left of my post. Hugs
Mariah

Thanks for responding Mariah, but unfortunately, I think this isn't something you can help me with. I need to speak to another FTM :(
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Mariah on August 28, 2015, 10:52:12 PM
Your welcome, I totally understand. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: FTMax on August 29, 2015, 08:34:58 PM
Hey Ephemeral,

To clarify - when you say hetero, are you meaning you and a lady? Or are you meaning pre-op/pre-coming out you with a cisguy? I can help you if it's the first one, but I have no experience whatsoever with cismen.
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: captains on August 30, 2015, 02:45:06 AM
Ugh, downstairs stuff can be so painful and complicated sometimes. I've got this issue too, and I'm happy to lend an ear, if you need it.
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: bwr on August 30, 2015, 12:57:28 PM
If you'd like to talk to the girlfriend of a ftm dude who has plenty of Hetero-sex you can message me.  We are on track to have bottom surgery in the upcoming year.


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Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Ephemeral on August 31, 2015, 06:57:46 PM
Quote from: ftmax on August 29, 2015, 08:34:58 PM
Hey Ephemeral,

To clarify - when you say hetero, are you meaning you and a lady? Or are you meaning pre-op/pre-coming out you with a cisguy? I can help you if it's the first one, but I have no experience whatsoever with cismen.
I mean heterosex between I and my girlfriend.
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Ephemeral on August 31, 2015, 06:59:53 PM
Quote from: bwr on August 30, 2015, 12:57:28 PM
If you'd like to talk to the girlfriend of a ftm dude who has plenty of Hetero-sex you can message me.  We are on track to have bottom surgery in the upcoming year.


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I'm confused but are you dating an ftm or are you an ftm?
Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: FTMax on August 31, 2015, 07:15:43 PM
Quote from: Ephemeral on August 31, 2015, 06:57:46 PM
I mean heterosex between I and my girlfriend.

Gotcha. That is something I am familiar with. If you'd like to talk, you can message me for my Skype.
Title: I need someone to talk to
Post by: bwr on August 31, 2015, 07:40:17 PM
Im not ftm, but I live with my ftm BF and were navigating his phallo together. I know you wanted to talk to another trans dude, but I thought you might want to talk to a partner who dated primarily cis men before.  Now that I've thought about it, I could see that being awkward. I just wanted to share that I love him and our sex life with surgery or without. Now that he's made the decision to move forward, I'm looking forward to it because I want him to feel complete.


I didn't mean to encroach on your forum. I subscribe to the partner group, but I'm not that familiar with the phone app. Your post popped up on my news feed.
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Title: Re: I need someone to talk to
Post by: Ephemeral on September 01, 2015, 02:18:54 AM
Quote from: bwr on August 31, 2015, 07:40:17 PM
Im not ftm, but I live with my ftm BF and were navigating his phallo together. I know you wanted to talk to another trans dude, but I thought you might want to talk to a partner who dated primarily cis men before.  Now that I've thought about it, I could see that being awkward. I just wanted to share that I love him and our sex life with surgery or without. Now that he's made the decision to move forward, I'm looking forward to it because I want him to feel complete.


I didn't mean to encroach on your forum. I subscribe to the partner group, but I'm not that familiar with the phone app. Your post popped up on my news feed.
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I appreciate it, but I am specifically looking at how others experience their inability to have sex as cismen, especially with a ciswoman. It's difficult to explain but the only comparable scenario would be if you spoke to a cisguy who lost his penis pretty much.