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General Discussions => Education => Philosophy => Topic started by: Nero on September 16, 2007, 06:47:38 PM

Poll
Question: Your burial wishes (if all options were available in your area)?
Option 1: Bury me in the ground.
Option 2: Cremate me.
Option 3: Preserve me. (mummify or cryogenically freeze me)
Option 4: Bury me at sea.
Option 5: Expose me to the elements, insects, and animals.
Option 6: Donate me to science.
Title: Burial wishes?
Post by: Nero on September 16, 2007, 06:47:38 PM
Good evening guys and dolls.

Your burial wishes?

Is your preferred method of disposal dependent on culture or religion?

Does the environmental impact of the disposal method you choose concern you or affect your choice?

What are your reasons for choosing a particular method of disposal?
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Ell on September 16, 2007, 08:15:28 PM
if i were chocolate, it'd be creamiation
if i were water, evaporation
i could be a bitch: death by itch

wandering the earth as a restless spirit, for the homebodies
popularity to the point of distraction, for the nobodies
if i were a cat, death by becoming a rat

you can do as you please with the bones
bury them or marry them
they're very high in calcium
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: cindianna_jones on September 16, 2007, 08:35:10 PM
Cremate me and feed an oak tree with what's left over.  I like that.

Cindi
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: tinkerbell on September 16, 2007, 09:10:22 PM
Cremate me, put my ashes in a huge mausoleum like the ones they have in the cemeteries in Peru, and then worship me.  :icon_evil_laugh:

Why?  this body is expensive, it has cost thousands of dollars so far so I would really hate to see it eaten by maggots. :icon_evil_laugh:

tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: funnygrl on September 16, 2007, 09:23:10 PM
Cremation definately (I hate this body now). If I get this right  ??? (with thousands of dollars I don't have), then...well, let me try to get there first and I'll come back...
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: NickSister on September 16, 2007, 09:58:07 PM
I want to be ejected out into space in a black coffin (kind of like Spock in Startrek, but without those damned pipes playing).

Apart from that I would prefer to be cremated and placed in a bronze statue of a cat, that would be left sleeping in the sun within a beautiful garden.
Or I want my ashes made into a diamond.

This is not cultural or traditional (unless you count treky culture  ;D). My mum reckons if I die before her she would do me the dishonor of burying me in a coffin. That reminds me I need to update my will...
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: no_id on September 16, 2007, 11:43:11 PM
Well, first there's the part where I'm a donor so I'd wave some organs bye-bye... Then I'd prefer the remains to be donated to science (who knows? they might be useful and help another person), and lastly whatever is left of me can be cremated, the ashes tossed in a bag and shuttled into space, right at the 'Welcome Home' banners.  8)
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Nero on September 17, 2007, 12:53:37 AM
Quote from: no_id on September 16, 2007, 11:43:11 PM
Well, first there's the part where I'm a donor so I'd wave some organs bye-bye... Then I'd prefer the remains to be donated to science (who knows? they might be useful and help another person), and lastly whatever is left of me can be cremated, the ashes tossed in a bag and shuttled into space, right at the 'Welcome Home' banners.  8)

Would you be willing to have your remains donated to the Body Farm?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_farm (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_farm)

http://web.utk.edu/~anthrop/index.htm (http://web.utk.edu/~anthrop/index.htm)
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Dennis on September 17, 2007, 12:56:21 AM
Take all the parts you can use and then burn me and fling my ashes in the ocean.
(which is pretty well what we did with my dad and I always think of him when I go down the front yard (which is ocean front) )

Dennis
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: katia on September 17, 2007, 01:06:40 AM
bury me in the ground
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: buttercup on September 17, 2007, 01:25:25 AM
Quote from: Dennis on September 17, 2007, 12:56:21 AM
Take all the parts you can use and then burn me and fling my ashes in the ocean.
(which is pretty well what we did with my dad and I always think of him when I go down the front yard (which is ocean front) )

Dennis

Ditto Dennis, I'd like the same thing for myself, science can take whatever and then cremate what's left....and fling my ashes out into the ocean!!  Any ocean will do, as I plan to travel, my final destination could be anywhere ... That was a nice idea for your dad.


This is a great topic Nero, as I have a morbid fascination with death.  Most people I know would never talk about dying and what they'd like done with their remains.   It's funny though, sometimes I think about being in the furnace and the massive pain!  It's illogical I know, I have to remind myself I will be dead!  lol

buttercup  :)

Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Blanche on September 17, 2007, 02:13:39 AM
After my death I'd like to be frozen.  I want to be brought back some day in the distant future. 
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Christo on September 17, 2007, 03:14:10 AM
dunno.  when ur dead ur dead so it dont matter what they do withur body.  i wanna be cremated & put in the sea.  they did that to my buddy Ronald when he died. :( i want da same for me.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Diane on September 17, 2007, 02:44:54 PM
When i die i want to be exposed to the elements. The more animals that can feed from my body the better. Nothing left to waste.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Sarah Louise on September 17, 2007, 03:22:10 PM
Cremate me and spread the ashes over any mountains.

Side note:  My dad was cremated and my mother and sister went to spread his ashes over a lake in Wisconson, they went out in a boat and started to pour the ashes out and a wind came up and blew the ashes back into their faces and the boat.

Sarah L.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: no_id on September 17, 2007, 05:00:31 PM
Quote from: Nero on September 17, 2007, 12:53:37 AM
Quote from: no_id on September 16, 2007, 11:43:11 PM
Well, first there's the part where I'm a donor so I'd wave some organs bye-bye... Then I'd prefer the remains to be donated to science (who knows? they might be useful and help another person), and lastly whatever is left of me can be cremated, the ashes tossed in a bag and shuttled into space, right at the 'Welcome Home' banners.  8)

Would you be willing to have your remains donated to the Body Farm?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_farm (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_farm)

http://web.utk.edu/~anthrop/index.htm (http://web.utk.edu/~anthrop/index.htm)

N-man, are you saying the only use my body has is to find better ways to determine the actual time of death? :P
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: LynnER on September 17, 2007, 06:01:09 PM
Well, if I end up a vegitable, or know Im going to die... Id donate my life organs to those in need and cremate the rest...
If its sudden, take what can be used <science, donor if its not too late> and remate the rest...  Id want my ashes to be spread half in the desert, and half in the rocky mountians.....  <For some reason I think it would be a waste to do the Franklin mountians and the desert...  part of me will allways count this place home... but I cant suffer the thought that it would have all of me for all time.>
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Jaiden on September 17, 2007, 11:58:50 PM
Hmm, never really mattered much to me. I suppose let science take what was good then anything goes after that  :laugh:
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 23, 2007, 12:50:03 PM
    Cremate me.  I already have it arranged.  I get created then dumped into a nice marble receptacle and then buried.

    I was going to donate, but I discovered that doctors and some weirdos are claiming people to be dead now just to get the parts.  That's not the kind of world I want to be a part of.

Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Ell on September 23, 2007, 02:05:02 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 12:50:03 PM
    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Jessie_Heart on September 23, 2007, 02:42:36 PM
cremate me and I don't care what is done with the ashes as long as my family doesn't know what happened to them so they have no real place to stand to remember my death. I have done alot in my life to try to make a positive impact on others lives if i am remembered I want my life to be what is remembered not my death. if I cannot be remembered as a positive part of someones life and remembered for things about me that made them happy I sure don't want to be remembered by my death that made them sad! but first please take any parts that would help others before burning me if I am dead thenI don't need them!
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 23, 2007, 03:15:55 PM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 02:05:02 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 12:50:03 PM
    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped
I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Ell on September 23, 2007, 09:06:58 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 03:15:55 PM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 02:05:02 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 12:50:03 PM
    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped
I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.

funny?! that was my childhood, youth, and adulthood i was talking about! but to stay on topic, who cares how you finish off the remains of such a life...
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Jeannette on September 23, 2007, 10:07:37 PM
Cremate me and light a candlle in my honour every night.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 23, 2007, 10:46:34 PM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 09:06:58 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 03:15:55 PM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 02:05:02 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 12:50:03 PM
    I get created then dumped

i get created, neglected, beaten, ridiculed, and then dumped
I meant to say 'cremated'.  but that's a funny response.  Instead of waiting to die, I'm getting neglected and ridiculed while I'm alive so my ceremony will be shorter.

funny?! that was my childhood, youth, and adulthood i was talking about! but to stay on topic, who cares how you finish off the remains of such a life...
I'm sorry.  I really thought you were talking about after you die.  I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Ell on September 23, 2007, 11:33:56 PM
Quote from: Rebis on September 23, 2007, 10:46:34 PM
I'm sorry.  I really thought you were talking about after you die.  I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Jessie_Heart on September 24, 2007, 01:20:13 AM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 11:33:56 PM
you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell

I also had a somewhat hard childhood and I know that it has for sure made me a better person and a better parent I would never want to cause anyone the pain I indured so I make sure to treat people better than I was treated and I do my best to be the kind of parent that I always wished I had. so even though it was hard to go through it is good that I did because I know how it feels to be hurt and alone and if I can keep someone from feeling that way I am going to.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 24, 2007, 07:41:35 AM
Quote from: Jessie_Heart on September 24, 2007, 01:20:13 AM
Quote from: Ell on September 23, 2007, 11:33:56 PM
you didn't hurt my feelings, Rebecca. i sense there may be really valuable lessons running all through my experiences, if i could just somehow get at the meaning.

-ell

I also had a somewhat hard childhood and I know that it has for sure made me a better person and a better parent I would never want to cause anyone the pain I indured so I make sure to treat people better than I was treated and I do my best to be the kind of parent that I always wished I had. so even though it was hard to go through it is good that I did because I know how it feels to be hurt and alone and if I can keep someone from feeling that way I am going to.

   Also, you know you have survived.  So you know you will continue to survive.
   
   Thanks for calling be Rebecca, Ell.  I bet that confuses some people, but it reminds me of where my heart is at.
Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: Suzy on September 24, 2007, 08:29:42 AM
If there is anything usable on me, I'd like for someone else to benefit.  From there on out, it's just a matter of how quickly things decompose.  I know, however, that some need to see a body to bring closure and to grieve.  So if there are strong feelings in that respect, I would be OK with it.

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Title: Re: Burial wishes?
Post by: King Malachite on March 21, 2012, 12:35:03 AM
Freeze me.  If by some chance I could be resurrected in the future then I would like to have all as much of me in once piece as possible.  Just don't cremate me.