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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Sarah82 on October 03, 2015, 01:59:25 AM

Title: The face in the mirror
Post by: Sarah82 on October 03, 2015, 01:59:25 AM
I just wanted to share this experience that happened yesterday at the gym.

I was going through my routine, looked up into the mirror near by and for a few seconds the face that looked back wasn't male. In the right light at the right angle I could see myself!

It made me so happy I just had to share :D
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Ms Grace on October 03, 2015, 02:13:50 AM
Woo! And the thing to realise is that person is always there.  :)
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: stephaniec on October 03, 2015, 02:41:15 AM
congrats
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: warlockmaker on October 03, 2015, 04:24:02 AM
Congratulations and the real you will be there more and more.
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: barbie on October 03, 2015, 12:41:00 PM
Depending on the angle and the light, sometimes I see a man, at other times a woman.

barbie~~
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Dena on October 03, 2015, 01:04:16 PM
I still remember the day. I was looking at the bathroom mirror and suddenly my mothers face was looking back at me. I could never figure out which side of the family I resembled but that day answered my question.
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: barbie on October 03, 2015, 01:14:05 PM
Quote from: Dena on October 03, 2015, 01:04:16 PM
I still remember the day. I was looking at the bathroom mirror and suddenly my mothers face was looking back at me. I could never figure out which side of the family I resembled but that day answered my question.

Yes. Genetics.

People say my little daughter is a xerox copy of me. Even favorite food and personality are the same. The major difference is she is XX and I am XY. And, a problem is that she is very aggressive, like a macho boy.

barbie~~
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Sarah82 on October 03, 2015, 11:55:08 PM
Thank you all for your congratulations :)

@Dena:
People would always tell me that I looked just like my father, sometimes we were confused for brothers, and when meeting my paternal great aunt for the first time she said "You're definitely one of ours you have the family nose".
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: abd789 on October 04, 2015, 03:31:12 PM
its a great feeling!

Ive been seeing less of him and more of me lately... but the glimpses are frustrating

how do you guys deal with it?
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Dena on October 04, 2015, 05:31:31 PM
Quote from: Sarah82 on October 03, 2015, 11:55:08 PM
@Dena:
People would always tell me that I looked just like my father, sometimes we were confused for brothers, and when meeting my paternal great aunt for the first time she said "You're definitely one of ours you have the family nose".
I ended up with my mothers nose and that wasn't a good thing. It took plastic surgery to get the hump out of it.
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Sophieraven on October 05, 2015, 02:41:52 PM
Mirrors are evil and must be punished. lol, Mine keeps showing some fat bloke.
Sophie
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: KristinaM on October 05, 2015, 05:17:30 PM
I've had two or three moments where I could see Kristina staring back at me for a brief moment, but today (and it gets worse everyday it seems) I look in the mirror and see my mother staring back as well!  My heart skips a beat and I panic for a second.  People said I looked like her when I was a child too, so I guess that's the direction I'm headed!
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Miss Clara on October 05, 2015, 07:56:12 PM
Towards the end of my old life, I got to avoiding looking in the mirror altogether.  Couldn't bare to see that ugly man looking back; you know, the one who was keeping me prisoner.  After two years of HRT and then FFS 6 months ago, I don't mind looking at my reflection anymore.  Now I think I spend too much time looking at myself in the mirror.....tee hee!  :-*
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: SarahSass on October 07, 2015, 01:59:41 AM
I remember the first time I looked in the mirror, and saw myself as a girl and the feeling of hope that I had. Knowing it was possible to look the way I feel on the inside made me so giddy :D
Title: Re: The face in the mirror
Post by: Mariah on October 07, 2015, 05:02:36 AM
That's wonderful congrats. Reminds me of the experiences I have getting a glimpse of myself in mirrors in different places. Hugs
Mariah