I just found this website & am glad I am not there only one in my situation. I am glad that I have the support I do from friends, family members & GF. Vikki I am sometimes not sure about LOL She treats me sometimes like her BFF then as a king sized Barbie. We are the same size (ht/Wt) soon bra size. As my transition has gone on starting almost 2 years ago. She has sometimes been mean, not physically but I guess she wants me to fly on my own power. One time there was she had me put on my 'tomboy' clothes. My nipples had just popped. She told me that we were going clothes shopping. The way I dressed I looked either or. On the way to the bank she told me to get $640. I said why not use my debit? she looked at me like I had just kicked a kitten! So I went to the ATM & it said $300 daily limit. So I went into the bank. Luckily Lisa, a friend works there. She knew I was in transition. After I got the money, she said "Say hi to Bridget" (my alter ego) We get to the Mall & I head to the dept store. Vikki tells me that some girls from a catholic prep school are on a field trip & I am to pick one out & we are going to buy her clothes! I find a girl who is alone, about my height/weight. Vikki introduces herself & the girls name is Sasha. Vikki explains that this is not a youtube prank & explains the situation. Sasha says that she is there for Wi-Fi but if we want to buy her clothes, we can meet her at 1 at her parents house. We get there & I am made to buy each item separately. Sasha has the option of saying no but if I ask nicely, then she may say Yes. After I have purchased all but $10 worth, Vikki hands me Sasha's schoolgirl uniform & underwear & tells me to get dressed in her bathroom. After doing that, Vikki takes my clothes & says she wants to get her camera from the car. After a few minutes we go out to the driveway & Vikki is gone. I have several options- 1 wait for Sasha's parents & ask for a ride home (Hi I know Im wearing your daughters clothes & I'm a guy but can you give me a ride home? They would have called the Cops for sure! 2- walk the 3 miles home. I did option 2. I went to the end of the driveway, took a deep breath & started walking. I am glad that the skirt wasn't as short as the ones public school girls wear. The breeze up my skirt was anew experience. As I walked, I then realized that I may be walking past a public HS at or about the time it lets out. I get near the school & am thinking (don't open, Don't open) Luckily I was far when it did. I had to stop at an empty bus shelter & get rid of the wedgie.
Very discretely. I get to the bottom of the hill we live on & take another deep breath (Oh why did Vikki want to live on a hill.) I giggled as I realized that I was panty flashing the city. I get home & Vikki exclaims "Oh Bridget is that you from school?" I sarcasticly laugh. She looks at me & says "next time don't forget a purse!" We now have a laugh but I was nervous as hell those 3 miles!
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Welcome to Susan's.
Your gf sounds very supportive, congratulations.
Hi Bridget :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
I want to thank you for your support. Am not sure why Vikki is the way she is sometimes. Maybe it's because she's kind of high strung/ She'll spend an hour on her hair then literally slap on some makeup. I joked one time that her makeup was done by Earl Sheib (auto detailor) Maybe it's because of her step sister Sheri. She is VERY smart, prosthetic research specialist. She was in the Army * went thru Med School. We are both Vets. Not sure how the VA handles TG/TS. I am going thru Vikki's work, a medical research facility. I used to work at a call center until my changes kicked in. I talked to the doctor who's handling me & she said that I could do an 'in house lateral transfer' Within 2 weeks I was moved to the medical division of the corporation who owns both companies. Should have seen my boss' look when the transfer paperwork went thru.
Hello and welcome to Susan's.
:)
Hi Bridget,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine