As I transition, it seems I want to care for my partner more than myself. meaning his wellbeing is more important than mine. how do I overcome these emotions? I just need some advice on how to radiate who I am...
It's a bit hard to say without knowing more about you as a person, but very broadly, I'd say do things specifically for yourself....do some exercise, treat yourself to things you like, eat well so you feel good inside and take time away from life to connect with yourself....maybe a bit of meditation, or some specific time in the diary to do the things you like to do (hobbies or whatever makes you smile).
And if you like looking after your partner and that makes you happy, then there's nothing wrong with keeping doing that as, if you think about it, it's making you feel good so it is an investment in your well-being.
No advice, just thoughts related to my own lack of caring for myself
A) Have/Had absolutely no clue how to... No, no Reason to
B) Always expected something bad to happen if I tried to. As past history dictates
C) Hopelessness & Futility. Why bother if nothing changes for better. Usually for the worse
D) It is far easier to care for others then for yourself. You will always be in pain. But if you help someone else.....
E) Internalized Transphobia. Caring for yourself may/will lead to escalation of addressing the GD and.....