Last Friday when we were working on a wall a couple of workers were working and i thought i heard my name.
on my way back i asked one of them what he said?
he said nothing but the other worker who is female looked at me and said we were talking about my tits and she tried to poke one.
thank god im quick and knocked her hand away before she poked one.
i did not realize that they were noticeable through my t shirt yet.
i just brushed it off and that was the end if it.
had my therapist appointment in October and the first thing i said was ! this is taking forever!
i told him i just needed to get that off my chest so im good now. :)
But it is taking forever.
i will say one thing i do feel better and a lot calmer then i was.
I feel more feminine as the days go by and that is really good.
But i need to get out and join a group and soon. it was nice to talk to paula but she is gone back to moose jaw so that leaves me alone again.
Im starting to get the urge to come out to my friends but i have to be patient and i have to reach my goal first.
And again its taking forever >:(
Anyway thats good for now.
just wanted to share my thoughts a little.
Hi Julie,
I was recently told by my GP that I needed to start wearing a bra. I didn't think I was noticeable either, since then I've noticed more than a few glances at my chest.
I didn't wait though I told my friends and family what I was doing before I even started hrt, they were all fantastic and I'm happy that I'm friends with so many open minded people.
Your friends might surprise you but only tell them when you are ready.
Hugs,
Sarah
Coming out to my friends is not going to happen for a bit. I have tested the waters and they are cold.
Some situations in life are different. We don't have HR to talk to or nothing.
In my line of work (ironworker ) this is all tosterone to the max.
my therapist asked me on my last visit about coming out and he got the picture.
I told him it would be like me walking into a den of loins and saying saying !hay guys I'm not a loin! I'm a sheep.
o my god !
I envy the ones who can do that so much but again i have a time table i am going to stick to for now.
thank you for the reply. ;)
as for the boobs i think i can get away with it for the winter because its cold as he'll in the mornings now so I'm dressed a little thicker.
Hugs
julie