Hey y'all. I have never been a fan of the downstairs bits I was born with. To be fully honest my reaction ranges from shock at them being there through to outright hate. As a teen I prayed they would just fall off one night and my lady bits would emerge from just below the surface. But that was before I had any real conception of what lady bits were. Once I knew what a vagina was it seemed like it would be no less out of place down there than a penis etc. What has always seemed right, what I had seen between Ken and Barbie's legs as a tyke, was nothing. Trouble is, I do have a bit of a libido but I am asexual (demi or grey a and aromantic to be specific) as well and uninterested in dating for the most part.
So, enough back story, to my questions.
1. Has anyone AMAB just had a penectomy and orchi minus vaginoplasty?
2. Does your libido miss the release?
3. How has the experience been over all?
4. If you do engage in sex is it physically pleasurable or just emotionally?
5. What was the healing period like (intensity of pain duration of convalescence)?
6. Are there any AFAB or intersex folk who have gone a similar route? (relevant questions above)
Oh, and for the record I have identified as a tomboy my whole life. So yes, I am a trans woman but no, I do not wholey identify with the binary. Anyway, any help or answers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks y'all!
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=186475.0
That was the thread I couldn't find! Thanks Randi!