I came out to my youngest brother Brent's new girlfriend Carrie last and I was amazed how she reacted.Brent has had so many girlfriends including one ex wife that did not accept my crossdressing at all.I was nervous a little bit and Carrie took well.She looked at me speechless at first shaking her head in a good way and I told her I am a crossdresser.The words out of her mouth were I looked gorgeous and I told her I go by Tori when I am dressed as my en femme side.Called me Tori right away and we hugged.Brent was relieved she took it well.Carrie has been raised to accept people for who they are,not how they look.I am glad she is respectful of my lifestyle now and like her even more.My mom was even there and likes Carrie even more too.
People devise all sorts of ways to determine if they should marry somebody but I think in your brothers case if a girl likes Tori, she is a keeper.
This brother cares about me a lot and says Tori is a sister to him also