I don't want breasts. I think they are just silly looking blobs of fat. I feel like it's more feminine to not have breasts/have small breasts than to have large ones.
Surly this cannot be right? If I am really a girl.
There is nothing to say you should like big boobs. So long as you're comfortable they can be any size at all :)
Girl, nothing is wrong with this . So many young ladies dont want them at all when it starts to grow and hide them as much as they can.
Breasts comes in all size and all shape, that doesnt make you more/less feminine.
Breasts come in a multitude of shapes and sizes and pretty much no one has any say in the matter unless they intervene surgically. I'm sure there are many women with large breasts who wish they had smaller and vice versa. I'm sure there are some women who would rather have no breasts at all and in fact there are some women who pretty much don't but are still feminine.
Boob hate was one of the few things i had in common with cis females - it seems like every girl's ideal size is different (and usually different from what they've got). there were girls who liked theirs and some who just didn't mind them, and some that hated them too - but that didn't make them trans men.
Quote from: Peep on November 19, 2015, 06:39:11 PM
Boob hate was one of the few things i had in common with cis females - it seems like every girl's ideal size is different (and usually different from what they've got). there were girls who liked theirs and some who just didn't mind them, and some that hated them too - but that didn't make them trans men.
Thanks it's always nice to have a view "over the wall" as it were. Perhaps maybe it is just me. :laugh:
Quote from: highlight on November 19, 2015, 07:03:16 PM
Thanks it's always nice to have a view "over the wall" as it were. Perhaps maybe it is just me. :laugh:
If it helps any more, there's apparently been a spike in the numbers of cis women having reductions. I actually realised that i'm trans because i was pursuing breast reduction surgery and realised that my ideal after-picture was a guy and not a flat-chested girl. if you still see yourself as a girl regardless of breasts then you still are one.
After years of hormones I am just a little over a A cup and I am comfortable with it because there is nothing like shedding a bra after a long day and letting the girls roam free. Even with small breast, sometimes they hurt when you go without a bra so I can only imagine what girls with larger breast sometimes feel when riding in a car and the car goes over a bump. Another point is that many swimming suit tops are designed for a small breasted woman and large breasted women are somewhat limited in their selection of swimwear.
My favorite time is taking a shower and washing my breasts. I've wanted them for so long
Talking about breast .. Anyone can explain me how I am supposed to be positionned for sleeping without disconfort?? The only position I found is sleeping on my back .
Every part of the body sounds stupid when put that way. The brain is just a fatty blob of cells floating in goo. What's so special about that?
As for breasts, don't worry about how big they are. It really doesn't matter. Just do your own thing.
I find sleeping on my side is quite nice, they get pushed together a little. If I am really honest, in this position when sleeping alone i sometimes like to kind of hug them. I love them to bits and feel so very feminine with them personally ! Reminds me to be grateful being able to go to sleep as a girl.
Sleeping on them ( front ) is a little unusual, just like yoga positions with your chest to the floor feels a bit unusual, but not uncomfortable.
Given the extremely hard massages they do here to ensure things stay soft, these puppies seem to be able to take almost any abuse, sleeping on them isn't going to hurt.
T.
Quote from: archlord on November 19, 2015, 10:51:12 PM
Talking about breast .. Anyone can explain me how I am supposed to be positionned for sleeping without disconfort?? The only position I found is sleeping on my back .
love your comment.
Quote from: Eevee on November 19, 2015, 10:57:52 PM
Every part of the body sounds stupid when put that way. The brain is just a fatty blob of cells floating in goo. What's so special about that?
As for breasts, don't worry about how big they are. It really doesn't matter. Just do your own thing.
I am not sure that I ever thought about it. I never thought to begin that I would ever have them. They just are. My family is small, so I expected to be also.
I don't know, there is no rhyme or reason. I am almost a C cup at a year hrt. I knew that breasts belonged on the front of this body, other than that, I had no hopes or expectations. I will say that a B cup at 5'10" is not so big. :) That's is fine with me. Am I wierd that I don't care?
It all feels so normal. Like the opposite of what puberty was for me.
I do know that they have ached for 7 months, and they still ache. I know that they are, hmmmmm.... sensitive to stimulation.
Is it so awful to feel the girl we have always felt we should be?
For me, it just feels so incredibly normal. I don't feel up, I don't feel down about it.
I just feel like;
It's about time.
Michelle
Quote from: Dena on November 19, 2015, 07:33:36 PM
After years of hormones I am just a little over a A cup and I am comfortable with it because there is nothing like shedding a bra after a long day and letting the girls roam free. Even with small breast, sometimes they hurt when you go without a bra so I can only imagine what girls with larger breast sometimes feel when riding in a car and the car goes over a bump. Another point is that many swimming suit tops are designed for a small breasted woman and large breasted women are somewhat limited in their selection of swimwear.
Well there are other viewpoints:
-some people say going without a bra might help strengthen the tissue. After all people in the past had to do without bras, too.
There are studies showing that...
-a bra might restrict blood flow
So a breast massage, maybe twice daily, and going without a bra for example within the apartment might help.
hugs
I think breasts are mildly annoying. That said I have C cups and I like having them.
Here are my issues with them:
I can't sleep on my stomach comfortably
I need a bra otherwise it gets uncomfortable walking, running or doing anything that involves motion
When your kids or whoever piles up on top of you... ouch!!!
When it gets cold, they get pointy and that could be a little embarrassing
But I understand they are a normal, natural part of womanhood so I'm keeping them. I just hope I end up with a decent size and not overly big as my mom's side of the family and much of my dad's is extremely well endowed.
This thread is just making me wish my boobs would hurry up and grow.
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As others have said - there is nothing wrong with wanting small breasts. Unfortunately when you start HRT you have no control over what happens - mother nature is in charge of what you eventually get.
Mine seem to be somewhere in the B cup range after about two years of HRT and judging by the itching I've got this morning are still slowly growing. My grandmothers were both short stocky busty women but my mom was stick thin and tall with small breasts so I had no idea what would happen with me.
Breasts are a part of being a woman so to me they fit my mental image of what I should look like.
I have a larger upper torso so I need them to be larger than they are to balance out my look. As an experiment to see what having larger ones was like I started wearing small pads that bumped me up to a C cup size. I immediately noticed that both men and women began treating me differently - women became much more chatty and men were deferential and kind toward me. Many guys started acting goofy like guys tend to do when they are around a woman with bigger breasts.
This little experiment of mine confirmed what I already suspected. A BA is definitely somewhere in my future.
lots of girls have small breasts and/or don't want big ones.
Heck there are even ones who want to downsize ;)
Breasts are silly looking blobs of fat. They are sexy, silly looking blobs of fat.
Quote from: VeryGnawty on November 20, 2015, 05:42:30 PM
Breasts are silly looking blobs of fat. They are sexy, silly looking blobs of fat.
imho, "moobs" (man-boobs) are blobs of fat. "(Silly" would depend on the viewer). Breasts otoh, are more than just fatty tissue, they have actual, almost-ready-to-use mammary glands, and this makes for a wonderfully marvelous difference in the feel and heft of breasts vs moobs.
There's a saying, "More than a handful is a waste"...but one can't motorboat little boobs. ;)
Yeah, lots of women hate breasts. Especially their own, since they get in the way. Nothing wrong with you!
I would give mine up to be skinny and/or attractive if I could. But since I can't, I do love the girls even when they're getting in the way.
Your breast size is determined by genetics. People say us T-girls are normally one cup size smaller than the women in your family.. having said that...
All the women in my family are big breasted, I am talking DD and DDD etc, My mother is the smallest with D's. HRT has given me D's cups as well, I actually wear a bigger bra than my mother, she wears a 34D and I wear a 36D.
I love my breasts and would not trade them for anything. The larger Cup size requires me to wear a good bra and i have learned to appreciate a good bra. A good sports bra is a requirement when I exercise. My girls get a break at night, as I dont sleep with a bra on, although some on my sexier nighties do offer breast support. My mother and room mate told me its not good for them. Sleeping, well I sleep on my side, that was something i had to get use to, because I was a tummy sleeper before.
Remember again breasts come in all sizes and shapes and women are never happy with them.
I am hoping for more than I have right now, then again its still early in hormones for me so there is time, I would like them to get to the point where they look balanced with my size. As for comfortable sleeping, try getting a body pillow, I use two one as a pillow one as a cuddle buddy great for taking the pressure off your hips and chest and it provides enough padding that if I roll onto my stomach in my sleep it dose not hurt my rather sensitive bits.
Serena
QuoteI don't want breasts.
I'm the opposite. I am still male and fill a 38A bra. I want larger breasts and even talked to my doctor about it the other day. Even if I do nothing else I'd like a larger pair.
My doctor is going to provide me with info, referrals, etc.. Hopefully, I'll get HRT and, among other things, grow a larger chest.