Hey everyone! I just stumbled upon this place, and I've really been looking for somewhere I can talk to people who are understanding. Not that my family or friends aren't, but I don't have many people I can talk to who have personal experience with the matter.
My name's Zachary. I'm 25 years old, FTM and I live in California. I've felt different my whole life, and for a long time I really didn't understand what exactly it was. Once I did figure it out, I felt relieved and scared at the same time. I still am, to be honest. I haven't come out to most of my family and friends yet, and although I don't think they'll react badly, I'm just not ready to tell them yet. The ones I have told have been extremely supportive and I'm really glad to have them in my life.
Anyway, I'm glad I found this place and I'm looking forward to meeting some awesome new people! :D
Hi and welcome to the site :)
Thanks, nice to meet ya!
Welcome to Susan's Place. We are pretty rare in the population and the current numbers are about 1 in 600 births but with many people in the closet good numbers are impossible to come by. Over a day, about 700 members visit the site and the number of guest are several times that. You have gone from not knowing anybody to knowing a small town. If there is anything we can help you with, let us know because it's very likely somebody has the answer you need.
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Hi Dena! That does make me feel a bit better, I was feeling pretty alone. I'll check those links out, thanks!
Hi Zachary :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Hey V M, thanks! Nice to meet you.
Hey Zachery. Welcome to Susan's.
I'm sure you'll find plenty of people here who you have a lot in common with. It's great that those you've told so far have been supportive. I think there's no pressure to come out to absolutely everyone right away and hopefully you feel you can do this in your own time.
Best wishes,
Sarah