So, having finally decided to transition M to F, does anyone have the urge to show off her new sexuality?
For me, I delighted in showing more cleavage than necessary, as in wearing a very loose sweat shirt and no bra. Then of course I 'd bend over the grocery store counter to write a check. Or, getting into a car, I've been known to flash a little more leg than necessary. Anybody else or just me?
Quote from: Rhonda333 on November 29, 2015, 01:53:08 PM
So, having finally decided to transition M to F, does anyone have the urge to show off her new sexuality?
For me, I delighted in showing more cleavage than necessary, as in wearing a very loose sweat shirt and no bra. Then of course I 'd bend over the grocery store counter to write a check. Or, getting into a car, I've been known to flash a little more leg than necessary. Anybody else or just me?
I'm a pre op lesbian transwoman.
If I was post op, I would be that girl who goes to the gym wearing only a sports bra, shorts, and sneakers.
I did at first, and I liked showing cleavage or at least a noticeable bustline in part because it made people more likely to gender me correctly. Now I'm mostly too lazy. ;) I tend to be in jeans and T-shirt just because it's easier. But I know what you mean - it's validating to see people ogling you.
Quote from: Rhonda333 on November 29, 2015, 01:53:08 PM
So, having finally decided to transition M to F, does anyone have the urge to show off her new sexuality?
For me, I delighted in showing more cleavage than necessary, as in wearing a very loose sweat shirt and no bra. Then of course I 'd bend over the grocery store counter to write a check. Or, getting into a car, I've been known to flash a little more leg than necessary. Anybody else or just me?
Given my transition goes well, post op, my actions showing off will make what you said sound innocent.
Hmmm not personally. I totally love to blend in. I am a lesbian and totally not interested about men checking me out. They do anyway, but i give them the death stare. Haha.
If it makes you happy, though, enjoy! Yolo
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I don't have enough to show off, well maybe my legs. If I wanted to show off my cleavage, I would have to go topless and that would get me arrested >:-)
Quote from: clarabrown on November 29, 2015, 08:13:01 PM
Hmmm not personally. I totally love to blend in. I am a lesbian and totally not interested about men checking me out. They do anyway, but i give them the death stare. Haha.
If it makes you happy, though, enjoy! Yolo
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I'm currently a pre op lesbian transwoman. If and hopefully when I'm post op, the showing off is to a large extent finally being able to feel comfortable in my own skin. Post op, not only I can feel comfortable naked in front of someone, I would also enjoy it. Post op, I could take nudes, go to a nudist colony for a weekend. Pre op, I refuse to wear a shirt without sleeves. Pre op is all about hiding for me and inhibiting, and post op is living.
Heck yes! It is totally validating. (even before op, or before HRT, or even before testosterone blockers!!!!!!!!111)
yup... but I don't start hrt til feb, however I already dress a bit hookerish :-o
that'js ust how I roll :D
xox, Candi
I think thats only natural to want to show off your sexuality because it's so new and exciting for you still. I am getting ready to begin pepping my feminine appearance here over the next few weeks and I'm already excited about the idea of being able to sexualize myself a little. I know this will calm down with time but something so new deserves to be explored.
Yes. I (we) have suppressed my desire as a woman during the most of my life time. Then, suddenly I become able to express it within a limited time period. It is like explosion.
I tend to wear boldly, and my friends say that I will look better if I wear more conservatively. But I can not do that. Always miniskirt. 4-5 inch heels. Dark eye makeup. Bright colors. Fishnet stockings. And posting photos in Facebook nearly everyday.
This is who I am now. Probably I may wear more conservatively as time passes. But now I still have a strong desire to show me off.
barbie~~
Yep. I'm a rather sexual person anyway, and an exhibitionist... So I show off quite a bit. I've cammed and posted nakey pics online, I wear tight pants to show off my butt, lean my arm in a bit for extra cleavage when taking selfies, and show my friends my tits probably more often than I should. :laugh: But I'm proud of my growth, and overall appearance and it's nice having the confidence to show myself off. :)
Hello Everyone, not sure I would call it showing off, it's more like owning it. My transition ended with SRS 6 months ago. Now I'm in the optional cosmetic phase. Prior to SRS displaying my femininity was difficult. Hair growth, breast and fat distribution was slow and up down. Did not feel comfortable in my own skin, felt really phony. Much preferred to hide and hang in the comfort of safe support group settings.
Life really changed for me post SRS/transition. I now really own it! Wear short straight fitted skirts/dresses, cami tops without bras and high-cut bathing suits. Can let my femininity flow and be the woman I knew was trapped inside.
Took me 9 months to complete transition. Very happy person and it shows from shopping at grocery stores to flirting at bars with a man that ended up in my room. It's just unbelievable what a post-transition life can look like and or bring. Did not enjoy 'the journey' as much as the destination. It's better over here!
For some post transition brings the journey to an end. It's just womanhood beyond that for many I am sure.
Could go on forever describing post trans. life but... I recorded a video that pretty much speaks for itself.
Girls/women show off the hard work in whatever way feels natural. Show you own it, the guys/gals and you will love it. G-d knows you have earned it!
Link to 6 month Post-Op SRS report: youtu.be/UeeQlld6DFo
Thank you,
Anne
Ive been told by my GF/mentor Vikki that once I am a full girl (Apr '16) we are going to Hawaii & other places where bikinis & other bathing suits are the norm to show off my new body. We went to a dept store to look at some bikinis. I kept looking at the one pieces. She kept pushing me to the bikinis. (2 dots & a dash type >:-)) I told her "One piece" she'd reply "Top or bottom" I don't know if I can handle a bikini. I have handled the last 2+ years OK but the vacation will be a real test. I want to please her but don't know how. :embarrassed: 6 months away!
I must have come out of my mom in a three piece suit and a briefcase. I'm more likely to want to look like an ADA on law and order (like Jill Hennessy) than someone that would be flashy.
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Now that winter is upon us, I haven't been able to show off my new body. However, in late March 16 I will have my final operation to female & my GF/mentor Vikki tells me that we are going to Hawaii to show off my new body (Very full 34A-26-36 5/4 132 lbs) We have been going to stores to get me some Summer clothing. She wants me to get a bikini. I'm keep pushing for a one piece. I guess once we step off the plane in Hawaii I wont have a choice.
Quote from: Rhonda333 on November 29, 2015, 01:53:08 PM
So, having finally decided to transition M to F, does anyone have the urge to show off her new sexuality?
For me, I delighted in showing more cleavage than necessary, as in wearing a very loose sweat shirt and no bra. Then of course I 'd bend over the grocery store counter to write a check. Or, getting into a car, I've been known to flash a little more leg than necessary. Anybody else or just me?
Hi Rhonda
Before I was post-op I use to wear stuff like that to be noticed. But after my surgery I have been dressing a lot more conservative. I don't seam to be wearing any skirts or dresses or getting dressed up as much as I use to do. I guess that I more or less just blend in with all the life long women that dress as they feel and as not to bring attention to myself other than the girl down the street. I have never been called out ever sense I have been post-op. I'm just blending in as a normal women. Don't get me wrong I love to get dressed up but not to be noticed other more than anyone else. Plus the voice training is a big thing and must pass not to gain attention.
Hug's :angel:
Lyndsey
Quote from: BridgetYvonne on December 05, 2015, 10:46:14 AM
Now that winter is upon us, I haven't been able to show off my new body. However, in late March 16 I will have my final operation to female & my GF/mentor Vikki tells me that we are going to Hawaii to show off my new body (Very full 34A-26-36 5/4 132 lbs) We have been going to stores to get me some Summer clothing. She wants me to get a bikini. I'm keep pushing for a one piece. I guess once we step off the plane in Hawaii I wont have a choice.
Hi Bridget
Wear what you are most comfortable in. You are the one that will know that. If you think that you can pull it off and not feel uncomfortable than go for it. :laugh: Me I'm 58 so that would not be a good thing LOL one pice for me
Hug's
Lyndsey
Quote from: clarabrown on November 29, 2015, 08:13:01 PM
Hmmm not personally. I totally love to blend in. I am a lesbian and totally not interested about men checking me out. They do anyway, but i give them the death stare. Haha.
If it makes you happy, though, enjoy! Yolo
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OMG you are so right! I like to just blend in but I'm a strait women and love men. I have given men a lot of the death stairs too! LOL >:-)
Hugs
Lyndsey
Quote from: Dena on November 29, 2015, 08:19:29 PM
I don't have enough to show off, well maybe my legs. If I wanted to show off my cleavage, I would have to go topless and that would get me arrested >:-)
Hi Dena
Your comment is to funny! lol :D
Big Hugs
Lyndsey
Everybody can wear bikini even without transition, as I do. It is not so much difficult as usually assumed. People tend to fear too much.
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barbie~~
Hello Everyone, apparently showing off post-transition includes wearing dresses and skirts without panties. Did not really think much about it until a trans friend pointed out her current facts of life.
That said, if anyone ever sirs me again, honest to G-d I'm pulling up my skirt and showing off surgeons handy work!
Thank you,
Anne
Quote from: OOAnne on November 30, 2015, 09:56:30 AM
Hello Everyone, not sure I would call it showing off, it's more like owning it. My transition ended with SRS 6 months ago. Now I'm in the optional cosmetic phase. Prior to SRS displaying my femininity was difficult. Hair growth, breast and fat distribution was slow and up down. Did not feel comfortable in my own skin, felt really phony. Much preferred to hide and hang in the comfort of safe support group settings.
Life really changed for me post SRS/transition. I now really own it! Wear short straight fitted skirts/dresses, cami tops without bras and high-cut bathing suits. Can let my femininity flow and be the woman I knew was trapped inside.
Took me 9 months to complete transition. Very happy person and it shows from shopping at grocery stores to flirting at bars with a man that ended up in my room. It's just unbelievable what a post-transition life can look like and or bring. Did not enjoy 'the journey' as much as the destination. It's better over here!
For some post transition brings the journey to an end. It's just womanhood beyond that for many I am sure.
Could go on forever describing post trans. life but... I recorded a video that pretty much speaks for itself.
Girls/women show off the hard work in whatever way feels natural. Show you own it, the guys/gals and you will love it. G-d knows you have earned it!
Link to 6 month Post-Op SRS report: youtu.be/UeeQlld6DFo
Thank you,
Anne
Hi Anne
I am also post-op SRS on October 20th 2015 with doctor Marci Bowers what a great experience.I just want you to know that your last weeks video got me crying as I feel just like you do. It is so wonderful to be complete and to feel as you have always wanted to be and you are a beautiful women. I enjoy my sexuality so much and I have been seeing someone now for a while and he treats me like a princess. I my whole life have known that i was born in the wrong body and now that has been corrected. I'm a very happy women and looking forward to the same as you. I want to be married to a wonderful man some day that will enjoy all the wonderful things in life together. I Wish you nothing but the best and happiness that life can bring you.
Big Hug's
Lyndsey Marie Burke