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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Wild Flower on December 03, 2015, 07:45:13 PM

Title: Did I reacted okay
Post by: Wild Flower on December 03, 2015, 07:45:13 PM
At work today, I was helping a customer (same building I work at), and then this guy who works in that office stood next to me staring down at me.... I said how are you but no response. Kept on staring. creeper style. I didnt look him in the eye... Because too creepy.

He was joking but I dont know him even as a friend. And I think he was mildly attracted to me... Or something. But he didnt say anything just laugh.

Or normal guy behavior? (but he was much bigger than me and I think he wanted to feel the intimidation or something)

What would you done? And he look at me again walking down the hallway.
Title: Re: Did I reacted okay
Post by: stephaniec on December 03, 2015, 08:46:30 PM
not enough information on the circumstances , but I tend to ignore unless provoked . If he's a coworker you have all the leverage.
Title: Re: Did I reacted okay
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 03, 2015, 09:10:25 PM
U never know people's intentions unless they actually tell u. He may hav known u was transgender n was doing that to be mean or maybe he did find u attractive. I get stares all day at work. Some guys who find me attractive n some who can tell I'm a transgender. Just cause 1 person can tell dosnt mean you don't pass. 1 guy could think ur the hottest girl on earth n not manly at all while another may think u look like a man.