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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Strugglingpartner on December 14, 2015, 10:41:08 AM

Title: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Strugglingpartner on December 14, 2015, 10:41:08 AM
I'm a struggling partner who is in a relationship with a ftm and I'm struggling with some issues
Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Tommi on December 14, 2015, 10:44:32 AM
Quote from: Strugglingpartner on December 14, 2015, 10:41:08 AM
I'm a struggling partner who is in a relationship with a ftm and I'm struggling with some issues

Well you've come to a great place for information and finding people to help you understand those issues!  It can really throw you for a loop finding out a partner is trans!
Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Amoré on December 14, 2015, 11:10:51 AM
What issues are you struggling with hun?
Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Laura_7 on December 14, 2015, 11:19:34 AM
Hello and welcome  :)


Well just talk about it  :)

Its anonymous... and people are willing to help...
so just talk about it...
stuff from the bedroom is also not a problem... just use some language which is pg...


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Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Laura_7 on December 14, 2015, 11:21:42 AM

At the links here are a few resources that might help you:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,197598.msg1757491.html#msg1757491


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Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: stephaniec on December 14, 2015, 01:07:47 PM
welcome
Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Strugglingpartner on December 14, 2015, 04:37:33 PM
It's not like I just found out I knew I'm the reason he came out I helped him .. I'm having trouble dealing with his triggers and helping him thru them and what I can do to help him and not set them off
Title: Re: Struggling partner needs help
Post by: Laura_7 on December 14, 2015, 04:43:42 PM
Quote from: Strugglingpartner on December 14, 2015, 04:37:33 PM
It's not like I just found out I knew I'm the reason he came out I helped him .. I'm having trouble dealing with his triggers and helping him thru them and what I can do to help him and not set them off

Could you specify a bit what the triggers are ?

maybe you have a few examples ?


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