Poll
Question:
where would you fall between binary and non binary
Option 1: 1 absolute M or F
votes: 28
Option 2: 2
votes: 5
Option 3: 3
votes: 3
Option 4: 4
votes: 0
Option 5: 5 Half way point
votes: 1
Option 6: 6
votes: 0
Option 7: 7
votes: 1
Option 8: 8
votes: 0
Option 9: 9
votes: 3
Option 10: 10 not either total M or total F
votes: 1
Option 11: off the map either way
votes: 3
Option 12: undefinable
votes: 3
I like to strive for total F , but I know the practicality would be like 95 % at least how I would like to perceive the gap.
If I take the question as what my personal identity is, then I think that 1 is appropriate.
personal identity is good
10. But you knew I was a 10 anyway! 8)
Hugs, Devlyn
10+
I'd like to add this is just like a scientific data survey with no other meaning than if your a Cubs fan or a White Sox fan of a little of both
Im like 80% female. The other 20% just means I'm a warrior at life, willing to get dirty, willing to break a nail, I dont necesarily care about frilly stuff. But Im undeniably female.
If my brain became a reality... This is me.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi42.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fe348%2FDanariel%2FDanarielHeartseeker_zps751f3697.jpg&hash=eefba7c4430b8e863aa8ffa08d5158d33a0726d0)
I put undefinable. I simply can't enumerate my gender. I'd love to be able to say something like 63.9% woman, 14.6% man, 21.5% other, but my gender doesn't seem to define itself like That. Sometimes I feel positively female (and great), sometimes I feel positively male (and lousy about it), a lot of the time I feel like I can't categorize my gender at all.
Fortunately my therapist has suggested that it's far more productive deciding how I want to live (like a binary female, thank you), than to try to label or quantify my gender.
:police: This is just a friendly reminder that lets remember to be understanding of where each of us sees ourselves and that any judging, ridiculing, sarcasm towards others or the like towards others won't be tolerated. Just a note that this is just a pre-warning.
I'm in that in-between place - haven't started HRT or therapy, still have to present as male in most of my life. Since someone mentioned their ideal above, I would be a curvy blonde female elf.
Before HRT I felt like 100% conflicted crap most of the time. Now I feel about 90% good. That's as binary as I can define it right now.
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my ideal self is Greta Garbo , but I can pretty much guarantee that has the same probability of being offered the shotgun seat on a trip to Mars.
Quote from: Deborah on December 15, 2015, 08:10:30 PM
Before HRT I felt like 100% conflicted crap most of the time. Now I feel about 90% good. That's as binary as I can define it right now.
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that's really what matters anyway
100% female in the worst way
Female :)
I'd say maybe about a 3...
I'm binary in that I never actually want to be male, but in terms of presentation I lean more toward the neutral side. I'm admittedly on the tomboy side of the F spectrum, so I like doing a more subdued presentation, usually just slapping on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt, spending most of the summer in athletic shorts, my default hair is just tying it lazily back into a ponytail, I tend to gravitate toward more muted colors and black work pants, never really "girling it up" at all, and my hobbies are generally in the sports / gaming realm. And I often do think about adopting a more queer presentation, but I'm too scared to try it.
Feminine I am in everything I do, whatever that means to me. :)
2.
Bc I'm a strong independent woman.
Though I'm way willing for someone to rescue me from a castle, but if my charming Prince takes too long I'll bust myself out.
One name: Xena.
Audree
Either you're binary, or you aren't! 8)
All I know is that this question doesn't even make sense to me. My gender fluctuates hourly/daily/weekly... which doesn't help at all. I guess I should have picked "undefinable" instead of "off the map"? Whatever.
100% female for me. The feelings are way too strong for me to even think twice about it.
The results are interesting though it shows the diversity of people here :D
I'm as F as can be, I feel like
Quote from: SofiN on December 16, 2015, 03:41:13 PM
100% female for me. The feelings are way too strong for me to even think twice about it.
The results are interesting though it shows the diversity of people here :D
yes , our little community produces great Bell Curves.
In Binary... I guess it would be something like;
01010111 01001111 01001101 01000001 01001110
::)
Devlyn to the rescue! :laugh: http://binarytranslator.com/
oh dear...................
Sorry... had to be done! LOL!!
so could you translate me and send me to Hawaii via the cable along the ocean floor. I think it would be pretty cheap.
I feel 100% Female. and loving it
Lyndsey
I'm definitely all woman, no doubt about that. Kinda the reason I decided to transition after all! :p
For what it is worth.. I have an interesting take on this.
I would say when I was 4 to 10 ish I was 100% female..but did not know why. Then you give in to being male.. and go through the damn puberty ugh and move on with living with GID every day of your life.
Then you transition.. I did it at 54.
So I live an entire life acting like a male.. its easy when you have the body of a male right!
Then you transition. For me, I am all female period. I took to this like a duck in water. I looked like a bouncer then two years later I was living female and I did not need help learning to act or walk female..
But, we are all humans.. so we all have some female and male feelings I would think..
I am really a girly girl.. and my CIS girlfriends laugh because I am more girly than them.. weird. But it comes naturally ..
Keri