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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Wild Flower on December 18, 2015, 04:51:03 PM

Title: Dresses
Post by: Wild Flower on December 18, 2015, 04:51:03 PM
I never thought about this until now, but it dawn upon me how sexual a dress could be. I guess the idea of not wearing pants seem to make it easily a sexual and vulnerable condition if the hemline was too high.

How do women do this??? Im not a crossdresser so I never gave it a thought besides thinking dresses are pretty. But usually thats about it.

I just dont know. The only way I could feel comfortable is with shorts under or leggings.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2015, 04:55:21 PM
I love the feeling of freedom a dress offers me.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: abd789 on December 18, 2015, 04:57:33 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on December 18, 2015, 04:55:21 PM
I love the feeling of freedom a dress offers me.

Yes, a nice pair of undies and nothing else....  and its real easy to get out of those if your feeling that way, which I am... often
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: RobynD on December 18, 2015, 05:00:30 PM
I'm wearing dresses and skirts a bit more often then in the past. To me it is sort of a free feeling, with panties on not really that sexual per se. Without panties it feels somewhat more in that direction.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Wild Flower on December 18, 2015, 05:21:42 PM
Perhaps Im a prude. Ill have to find out. I think I have a fashion sense of a 20 yr something school teacher. I love long sleeve shirts.

This looks comfortable...

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Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: OCAnne on December 18, 2015, 06:53:34 PM
Dresses are very sexy especially when you wear them without panties.
Just have to watch how you exit cars so you don't flash driver.  :P
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: in.Chains on December 18, 2015, 07:00:54 PM
I usually wear some spandex boy shorts on top of my panties to keep my tuck held, and prevent any major flashes. I almost exclusively wear thongs after all. ;)
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Wild Flower on December 18, 2015, 07:04:06 PM
Quote from: OOAnne on December 18, 2015, 06:53:34 PM
Dresses are very sexy especially when you wear them without panties.
Just have to watch out how you get out of the car so you don't flash driver.  :P

Sexy is one thing but I guess I think dresses will make me feel uneasy like... im exposing myself.

This dress would make me feel uncomfortable Id imagine.

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Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: BeverlyAnn on December 18, 2015, 07:05:28 PM
I LOVE formal events and evening gowns as my avatar shows.  Other than that, I prefer longer skirts that possibly unbutton some to show more leg. :embarrassed:
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Searching Human on December 18, 2015, 07:25:01 PM
I think wearing something underneath could help. They have skin colored underwear or you can just wear any type of leggings.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: iKate on December 19, 2015, 02:07:18 AM
I wear skirts and dresses but always have underwear. I don't wear excessively short skirts maybe just above the knee but no higher. I like longer skirts and my favorite is an Indian style which gives a boost to hips.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: noleen111 on December 19, 2015, 02:22:24 AM
I also love the freedom a dress gives you. I love wearing a skirt or a dress. When a slight breeze blow up your dress (not Marlyn Monroe blow up) , that feels amazing, especially when you are wearing pantyhose.

I love wearing short skirts that show off my legs or a long skirt/dress with a silt, yes in the summer months you need to shave your legs more but its worth it. I always wear panties under my outfits.. aka actually thongs/g-strings. Once you are use to it, its the very comfortable.

I also love to wear formal evening dresses and I do get to attend formal events with my boyfriend. When I wear a formal evening dress i feel like a princess.

One thing I have never tried on is a wedding dress. I know a lot of cross-dressers try them on, i never did. I think the first time I try one, is when I will be looking for my wedding dress.

Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Ashey on December 19, 2015, 03:25:26 AM
I like a nice form-fitting knee-length pencil skirt sometimes, with leggings or pantyhose but that's about it. The few times I've gone out in a skirt with just panties underneath I felt awkard... and uncomfortable because I have fat thighs that will chafe under such circumstances. Plus I get super paranoid about keeping my legs closed... At least with opaque leggings and whatnot I won't have to worry about actually exposing anything, rather just being 'un-ladylike' if I flash my crotch, which always seems to happen every time I step out of a car. ::)
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Harley Quinn on December 19, 2015, 03:39:56 AM
People are more successful at making things awkward than dresses. ::)

I love them. Anywhere from mid-thigh to calf length is just perfect. Wiggle dresses and pencil skirts help a lot keeping my strides shorter. Makes driving stick a bit more challenging though. You just have to remember to turn your knees inward to reach the clutch. :P

As long as there's enough material, I just sit on the tails to keep the more flared skirts and dresses from flying up in my face on the bike. A good trick is to stand up on the bike and the skirts will come lower so that you can re-adjust easily at speed. Heels are the only real killer is you misjudge the clearance on a corner and they drag.  ;)

In every case, I insist on underwear. Commando doesn't feel right. Leggings or tights in the winter, and panty hose or just panties in the summer. I am sure that I've inadvertently flashed a person or two over the years, so better safe than sorry.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Martine A. on December 19, 2015, 03:51:50 AM
Here is some love for dresses because they are simple, one-piece clothing that doesn't require tucking superpowers. But that is about it.

I dress mostly sporty or for business. Thus it is either a business dress or a wool light one that is proper for a t-shirt beneath it. Those can also go with tight jeans. In either case, I appreciate freedom of movement. Half of thighs length or so.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: V M on December 19, 2015, 03:59:36 AM
Most of my dresses are at least knee length but I do have a couple that are mid-thigh and one maxi-dress that goes all the down to my ankles

Not too many flashy items though, I tend to go for a classy look with a plunging neckline to highlight a bit of cleavage  :icon_chick: 
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: BlonT on December 21, 2015, 05:05:57 AM
Wild Flower,if you feel uncomfortable not wearing something under your dress then don,t do it :)
For the vulnerable part remember you can walk faster with your dress up them he/she with her pants down ! And you are not forced to wear a dress or skirt this days as a woman.

RitaChans and OOAnne, You are NAUGHTY Miss commando :)
Aseh, getting out of a car is a problem, specially with the short ones.Best is to rotate your closed legs out,give you the chance to pull down the skirt before you stand up.How not to do it is showing on you tube where some "famous" woman get out such a way that you can even see there belly button >:-)
Dresses are there from classy to slut,and the all great little black dress.
Have a dressed up Christmas all

Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Kimberley Beauregard on December 21, 2015, 06:20:28 AM
I love skater and pencil skirts which stop above the knee, and I absolutely love skater dresses but I'll sometimes put on something more form fitting if I'm happy with my body. I never go bare legged, I always wear stockings or leggings.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: RobynD on December 21, 2015, 12:01:21 PM
Love pencil skirts - I need to go bare legged in the summer but never when it turns chilly, then it is always tights or stockings etc.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: barbie on December 23, 2015, 06:55:07 PM
Mostly I wear dresses to decrease some unidentified skin disease in my buttocks, without underwear. Actually most young women here wear pants in winter. I wish to wear tight pants, but it aggravates the skin problem.

It is very comfy to wear and convenient in peeing at any place.

Most of my dresses are too short, as I am very tall compared with most women here.

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BTW, my wife and little daughter seldom wear skirt or dress.

barbie~~
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: cheryl reeves on December 24, 2015, 01:49:15 AM
I love floor to knee length dresses and skirts, I've never liked pants, the only jeans I can stand is denim,if I had a choice I would wear nothing but skirts and dresses.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Lyndsey on December 24, 2015, 02:18:53 AM
I love my dresses I work as a prosecutor and have to get dressed up most of the time for work, I have a lot of business suits and all styles and lengths but I never wear anything higher then Mid thigh and I have a lot of full length skirts.
Hugs
Lyndsey

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Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: rachel89 on December 24, 2015, 06:20:06 AM
I love skirts and dresses. Especially sweater dresses. I typically like to keep things around or below knee length and wear tights or leggings with a pair of boots. I will wear dresses that show a little more in the summer, but only if I am going to be outdoors and not spending a lot of time in cryogenic preservation (more commonly called restaurants). I don't exactly get a lot breeze down there because I often wear industrial-strength shapewear to keep things tucked and flat in the front and my tuches curvy in the back. I feel a little for femme-y when I choose skirts and dresses over pants. Its also far easier to find skirts and dresses that fit  nicely than it is to find pants that fit nicely. I like shopping, but I don't think it should be a struggle either.
Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: OCAnne on December 24, 2015, 10:02:10 AM
"Pants are Boring!"
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Title: Re: Dresses
Post by: Anna33 on December 24, 2015, 10:07:02 AM
It depends on the kind of dress.


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