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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 12:54:06 AM

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Question: what is your ideal dress size
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Title: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 12:54:06 AM
At the moment to be honest I'm an XL and I desperately need to stop eating so I can get my dream dress. I'd like to get to a size 9 , but I might be hallucinating .

"What is the average size for a woman?

Today, the average American woman is 5'4″, has a waist size of 34-35 inches and weighs between 140-150 lbs, with a dress size of 12-14. Fifty years ago, the average woman was 5'3-4″ with a waist size of approximately 24-25″, she weighed about 120 lbs and wore a size 8".
Title: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Deborah on January 09, 2016, 01:05:10 AM
My ideal size is always one size lower than what I am.  That makes it kind of hard to ever reach that ideal.  Lucky for me I like to eat too much to ever become anorexic.

Seriously, the healthy way to do it is to ignore sizes and to focus on your body composition, mostly body fat level, and get that within healthy limits.  Then you will be at the right size for your particular body structure.  Some things just can't be changed, like bone structure for instance, and that goes for CIS as well as trans.

People today are larger and a lot of that is due to obesity but I'm not convinced 50 years ago and today is a completely legitimate comparison.  People are bigger and taller today and that has a lot to do with improved nutrition, improved medicine, and probably other factors we haven't identified yet.


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Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Dankster on January 09, 2016, 03:17:48 AM
My goal for the year is to fit comfortly into a size 6. I have no excuse not to. 
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Post by: abd789 on January 09, 2016, 04:43:22 AM
Right now Im aiming for a 16....  but I started at 28, currently 22
yeah, Im a big girl ;)
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Post by: iKate on January 09, 2016, 05:50:40 AM
I'm size 8 right now but will be 6 soon. Not sure I want to be much smaller.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Collette on January 09, 2016, 06:27:30 PM
I want to stay where I am, a 6. Ideally I just want to fill it out in all the right places.

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Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 06:32:22 PM
A 6 would be great for me if I cold keep what I have in the right places
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Deborah on January 09, 2016, 06:59:15 PM
My problem right now in sizes is my shoulders and I'm not sure how they're going to turn out over time with muscle loss.  So now a 14 fits.  I'd like that smaller.  With slacks I can fit a 12 comfortably and would like to get to 10.  I don't think I can ever get much lower than that because I don't have a whole lot of size to lose.  But who knows what another year of HRT will do.


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Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Lyndsey on January 09, 2016, 07:08:06 PM
Hi Girl's

My Ideal dress size would be and 8, I'm working my way to that slowly but surely.

Lyndsey
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: ChloëAri on January 09, 2016, 07:17:10 PM
I'm currently a US/CAN size 0-2 depending on the brand. At 5'10" I do not wish to drop in size, however I would not complain if I had to move up to a 4 for more hips.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Kayla88 on January 09, 2016, 07:50:32 PM
In US sizes I am a dress size 2-4, I am actually trying to put on some weight at the moment, guess my ideal would be a 6 maybe.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Patti on January 09, 2016, 07:52:59 PM
I don't know! I'm tall and getting skinnier but don't want to completely lose my already small flat butt! I have been suppressing for so long, just bought my first little black dress so I'll see how it fits and go from there!


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Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 08:15:58 PM
black dresses are cool
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 10, 2016, 07:30:18 AM
I'm a 12 or Large generally. Sometimes a medium, because women's sizing standards seem nonexistent. My ideal size is the one that accentuates my curves the best. My only problem with sizes, is that anything 14+ and XL start to get very loose in the waist and not give me any extra room in the chest.

My favorite part of being a woman is the challenge of remembering all my sizes. 3 different pants sizes, 5 different dress sizes, 3 different shirt sizes, 2 different bra sizes, panty size, those ever changing shoe sizes by style, and jackets. It's a great tool to keep your mind sharp!
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Post by: Devlyn on January 10, 2016, 07:44:33 AM
I'm in the 4-6 range.
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Post by: Jessirules on January 10, 2016, 08:03:08 AM
Where I want to be and where I can really get are probably two different things.  When I started this process I was 228lbs, I am now 188lbs and still trying to loose. I have only been on hormones for 4 months, can't wait till I start to loose muscle mass. I have been getting 12 to 14 sizes or xl. I have a big chest 44 inches which makes it tuff. I would love to go thru a shrink machine, lol.

Jessi

Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: melissa_h on January 11, 2016, 08:31:30 AM
I'm happily to an 18 for most things now.  A 20 occasionally for tops, and a 16 occasionally for bottoms. Weight loss will continue to shift this, but to me, somewhere around a 14/16 would be ideal I think. I'm not sure 14 is possible based on bone structure.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: VickyMI on January 12, 2016, 07:16:19 AM
I wear a 10 or 12 dress and 8 skirt.  If I were to go on hormones the reduction of my shoulder and back muscles would probably bring the dress size down to an 8. I'm 5 8 152.

The nice thing is I can share skirts with my wife.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: OCAnne on January 12, 2016, 12:42:19 PM
I'm way tall 6' 3" and have the Tra**** shoulder look.  Wish I could step down to a size 12/medium but stuck at just under a 14 for dress size, large tops, size 10-12 pants and shorts.  Trying to lose weight at 47 is tough!
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CYYxx6FU0AAhogR.jpg) (https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CYKiWspVAAA1b_Z.jpg) (https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CPXVGoKUcAESvGW.jpg)
Left to right: 'Tux Dress' White House Black Market 14, Anne Taylor 14T (tall), GAP 14T (tall).
https://twitter.com/AnneEdwardz/status/686290733515419648
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Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: stephaniec on January 12, 2016, 01:01:53 PM
I'd die to get into a size 6 , but I know that's not going to happen
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Michelle86 on January 13, 2016, 11:38:48 AM
I was a 10 or 12 but have noticed recently that I'm an 8 with my shoulders being the big limitation.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: Jacqueline on January 13, 2016, 11:51:37 AM
Pre HRT for another couple of weeks.

I think I am about a 14 in most US dresses. 12L in slacks.

I would like to get down to around a 9/10. May be hard at this age but I can dream  :).

Joanna
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: HoneyStrums on January 13, 2016, 11:59:06 AM
Im a 12-14 (thats uk sizes)  my i deal size, well i just want to match i all honestly, Im a 12-14 top and a 10-12 bottom. and id be happy with both being one or the other.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: stephaniec on January 13, 2016, 12:33:33 PM
part of my problem is my stomach. I need to get rid of it. I can wear dresses that flare out , but the narrow one's and pencil skirts are a bit of a problem because the stupid stomach. I just have to get my weight down so I can get into a nice slim dress. It is a lot harder after HRT to lose weight.
Title: Re: what would be your ideal dress size
Post by: RobynD on January 13, 2016, 12:45:38 PM
I currently wear 10 -12s mainly. I'd like to be an 8 and i think i can achieve it with work