I was full on today and was at many places and my coffee & water habit keeps me peeing often. I had more looks today than ever and at first it was odd, but I started to enjoy it. I didnt wear foundation though as Im still dealing with the remnants of my Olay rash... so I had some light shadow showing.
But anyway, my restroom usage really bugged me out today, I was so torn as to which I should use, everywhere was busy and I felt so odd in the mens and couldnt bring myself to hit the ladies. One place I was coming out of the mens as a guy was heading for it and he had to stop, look at me then look at the sign to be sure he was heading in the right one... I smiled and said "you got it right".... that was a big win for me, I ran to my wife and was like "listen to this....."
I remember days like that. It sounds like it is time for you to gain confidence in using the ladies.
Exciting and scary at the same time... :-\
I guess Im worried some mom and daughter will be in there and the cops will be called on the perv in the toilet...
A totally understanding feeling. You do deserve to be integrated into the ladies room. It can be difficult at first, but I think you will find that you feel like you belong in very short order.
I remember when that was happening to me a little over 3 months on HRT. A employee at a client I was working for (I was already out to them and was dressing androgynously) said to me: "Hon, it's time that you should be using the women's room, because you don't pass as male any longer." And by the picture in your profile, I think that same holds true for you.
After that I started using the women's bathroom and never had an issue.
Thank you :D
definitely will consider this next time Im out. I only get out like this a couple times a month and always with my wife, but Im feeling more confident and hoping the outs come more frequently
I started consistently using the ladies about 3-4 months in when I was bounced out of it. Now it's not even a second thought.
You know what? If you're in a friendly area, go for it.
it takes getting use to
The only trouble I have is with places where you need keys for their restrooms. It seems like every time I ask, they hand me the keys to the men's room. It's frustrating. Any other time, nobody seems to look surprised when I use the women's restroom.
Quote from: Eevee on January 10, 2016, 09:56:39 PM
The only trouble I have is with places where you need keys for their restrooms. It seems like every time I ask, they hand me the keys to the men's room. It's frustrating. Any other time, nobody seems to look surprised when I use the women's restroom.
If it was a business I was patronizing I would walk out and tell them I will spend my money elsewhere.
Sorry to hear that Rita. If you are out with your wife, just walk in the women's restroom with her like nothing's up and people will not notice/care. Trust me on this :)
hugs