Greetings all,
I am curious if anyone has any experience or recommendations in a situation where a person is trying to avoid having one or more parents discover anything about them post-transition.
The situation is unpleasant to say the least, and had i not have removed myself from the situation when i did, it was likely to become much more severe. It has been quite a number of years now that i cut all ties to all humans i knew then, and previously, just to avoid getting hurt any more.
I have slipped under the radar well enough that on only a few occasions, have i even been found by the primary parent.
Nonetheless, i am concerned that post-transition, anything, my new name, my birth certificate, anything as such could allow them to learn something about me. I wish that they could never even know my name. Is this possible to prevent to any extent?
I assume they possess some method to access my currently unchanged birth certificate, and i can only assume they have my current SSN still copied down. Other than that, i cannot imagine any other records/data they have to work with.
Any advice on something like that?
Much thanks! <3