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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on January 23, 2016, 01:03:29 PM

Poll
Question: do you think your mind will achieve total cis
Option 1: yes votes: 4
Option 2: mostly votes: 3
Option 3: no votes: 7
Title: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: stephaniec on January 23, 2016, 01:03:29 PM
Just curious because today I went to pick up my E and the world around me was telling me I was a woman. I wa in Walgreens picking up the E and on the way out I looked in the mirror and only saw a woman standing there. I've had plenty of doubts on whether I'd have to carry a male cross for the rest of my time on the planet, but today I feel incredibly hopeful I can break free of the male totally . How do you feel about the ability to purge the male completely if you so choose.
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: Deborah on January 23, 2016, 01:13:27 PM
Actually, I always felt that my mind already was.  Now the rest of me is beginning to match.


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Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: cheryl reeves on January 23, 2016, 01:34:40 PM
What is cis actually,to me cis is like the word normal what is normal anyway? I'm not a cis male or a cis female I'm me and I try to be the best me as I can be.
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: stephaniec on January 23, 2016, 01:37:29 PM
then you have achieved your goal
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: suzifrommd on January 25, 2016, 02:51:44 PM
I hope not. I'm proud of being trans.
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: stephaniec on January 25, 2016, 03:13:33 PM
I like being trans myself . I was just contemplating that the actual feeling of being totally woman is to me somewhat independent of being trans. I really am having a great time embracing being trans like I embrace being a Hippie or at least at the present an undercover Hippie but the feeling of womanhood is what I've been experiencing lately in how I relate to my environment and especially how men and women relate to me. When A man looks at me and I know its a look that he sees me as a woman I get shivers and when a woman smiles at me I get a feeling of sisterhood.
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: Lady_Oracle on January 25, 2016, 03:53:43 PM
Yah pretty much am at this point if you were to call it that. All the terribleness I suffered from T poisoning is long since over. I've recovered and things feel normalized in my brain for once, hormonally at least.
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: stephaniec on January 25, 2016, 03:57:43 PM
my brain just doesn't feel twisted, each day on E I can really say I'm reaching highs that were so unattainable .
Title: Re: Do you think you'll ever get to a place where your mind is totally cis
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 25, 2016, 04:23:38 PM
Good food for thought, but I think even cis-genders would have a mental meltdown trying to dig into that topic deeply.

For me, Transgender is a physical definition not a mental one. I am me... as long as I think like me I have a cis-mind. It's only when I put gender into the forefront of my every thought that I would have a trans-mind. I couldn't imagine how difficult life would be to question, if I think feminine enough to be a woman.