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Title: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Male-CD on January 14, 2006, 01:20:05 PM
Hi all,
I know it's been a while since I've posted, but I'm back for another question. I hope this doesn't break any rules....I have no intentions of having a sex change, but was wondering if there was some kind of "belt" or something that you can wear to push the buldge into your body and hold back erections. Can it be bought at a store? Can you make it at home? Just curious...Thanks for the help.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 14, 2006, 01:37:39 PM
Hey there Derek

There is a very good article in the Wiki which can be found here:

Tucking and Taping (https://www.susans.org/wiki/Tucking_and_taping)

Hope it helps,

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 19, 2006, 08:00:44 PM
Me personaly I think the sandwhich and the hotdog is a disgusting bit of anatomy. If you want smooth and sensual and fem looking body parts then you have to lose the lot but each to their own. I still have both of mine but they dont please me one bit, although the testicles did shrink to the size of a pea and dissapeared up into my body but that makes it hard to get any tape around the penis as it also shrinks (sometimes it doesnt - it depends on you makeup). I found that the penis stuck out a bit even when my testies were hidden.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 19, 2006, 08:07:28 PM
True to a point Sara, but you have to remember that there are those here who have no intention of
Quote from: Saralose the lot
That's why there are alternatives for those who are waiting and those who are just going for the look.

Steph :)
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 19, 2006, 09:21:07 PM
Good point, Stephanie. I have tucked mine under in the past and can remember when the things were so big I couldnt push them up inside far enough cause they just came back out again even with the help of tape and boy was that painful. I may have been doing it wrong but I dont even like waxing so tape on the genitals is like ouch!

You dont have to have the operation or even wear tape, good tight undies is the secret, oooh I hate that name (undies).

I hope I havent grossed you out too much.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Shelley on January 20, 2006, 02:50:51 PM
Not at all Sara,

I think you'll find you've helped answers a few unasked questions in peoples minds.

Shelley
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 20, 2006, 03:19:43 PM
Thank you Shelley, Here is another point to ponder. If you do tuck it under then there is a greater chance that you will get an errection from all that rubbing (of course until it gets very sore then it just hurts). It is better on hormones as you do not feel much of anything in that department but these are things we might ponder. Remember under a skirt if you just keep it under wraps by using a pair of tight underwear then thats all you should need but if you are going for a mentally stimulating look of the female genitalier then I guess wrapping it up in tape using what is called a hotdog and bun (I have heard others) might be better.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sarah Louise on January 20, 2006, 03:29:57 PM
This is me putting tape over my mouth (fingers) so I don't say something stupid.

Sarah L.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 20, 2006, 03:46:55 PM
Have I just embarrassed myself Sarah Louise, God I am so hopeless?

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sarah Louise on January 20, 2006, 04:40:57 PM
No you didn't embarress yourself Sara, I was just joking.  I was just avoiding saying how I felt about that extremety.

Sarah L.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 20, 2006, 06:05:30 PM
Sara you nut bar,

Have another look at the Wiki article for tucking and taping.  There is a section on tape less alternatives.  Believe me they work.  If you wore the gaff as shown there would be no way that an errant stiffness :) would show.

To elaborate a little.  Once you have tucked the testes up and out of the way grab the empty scrotum from behind and pull it between the legs.  Then take the penis and pull it between the legs and up between the butt cheeks and using the other hand, spread the butt cheeks to grip the penis, then pull up the gaff, fixing everything in place.  Done...

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 20, 2006, 06:12:32 PM
Stephanie, I wrote you an email, I hope you dont mind.

All I can say is ouch! ouch! ouch!

You lost me when you said gaff. pulling, spreading, butt cheaks and gaff - ouch!

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 20, 2006, 07:16:15 PM
Sara.... read the Wiki :)

Of course I don't mind, that's why it's listed in my profile.  I sent you a reply hon.

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 20, 2006, 09:38:07 PM
I Got it Stephanie and thank you.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Shelley on January 21, 2006, 05:26:06 AM
Have to agree with Steph Sara if you do it right it's not even uncomfortable at "those times".

Shelley
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Bdnewgirl on January 21, 2006, 07:55:38 AM
I used to go the other way, um I guess I'll call it taping the flag pole up towards the sky. Then I tried Stephanie's way works so much better had no problem with it at all.
By the way Stephanie that buck is in the mail I swear  ;D

Brandi
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 21, 2006, 01:09:13 PM
Why thank you Brandi.

Yea, at this rate I'll be rich beyond my wildest dreams.  Hmmmmm or maybe it should be that in my wildest dreams I would be rich :)

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 21, 2006, 08:59:26 PM
Stephanie, I know the area is Crossdresser but I am glad that I dont have to do that anymore although it was good to read the wiki. Has anyone found a way to pee while it is bent back like that?

PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS POST AS HAVING A SHOT AT THOSE WHO HAVE TO DO THIS as I did it once too and PLEASE DONT THINK I AM IMPLYING THAT THIS IS ONLY DONE BY CROSS DRESSERS as it is not, many pre op women have to do this, it is only because I have been on hormones for five years and in my case only (cause I dont know about any others but I imagine there would be) have been able to shrink that horrible little devil down to almost nothing and the two evils are small enough to put in a bag and sell them as peanuts and they are so far up there holes the doctor has trouble getting them out to do an examination.

The thing I am most curious about is:

Has anyone found a way to pee (without hurting) while it is bent back like that?



Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 21, 2006, 09:24:55 PM
Steph, I have just sent you a personal email.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 21, 2006, 10:11:29 PM
Got it hon :) and thank you :)

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Glora Femboy on January 22, 2006, 07:28:50 PM
Anyone know if Plastic wrap would work?
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on January 22, 2006, 07:35:26 PM
It may work but you would sweat like there was no tomorrow and that would be really uncomfortable.

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Leigh on January 22, 2006, 07:39:30 PM
You could always use duct tape and then staple the ends in place :whip:
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Shelley on January 23, 2006, 01:40:19 PM
Ow, Ow, Ouch you two are sick.

It brings water to my eyes just to thinkabout it. LOL

Shelley
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on January 23, 2006, 04:06:01 PM
Shelly, on the tape itself silly.

Here is a thought for CD's, Always buy seemless nickers, especially if you like wearing the cheeky type or tight fitting ones. I think it would effect the boys as much as girls.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Shelley on January 25, 2006, 02:50:04 PM
Yep, learnt that one the hardway.

Shelley
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Persephene on February 01, 2006, 04:12:56 PM
It would be wonderful if a designeer could come up with a simple and comffortable solution to bulge discretion. I find taping uncomfortable and inconvenient.

What would be ideal would be a corset device one that squashed and flattened.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on February 01, 2006, 04:39:56 PM
Hello Persephene,

You really should explore the Wiki you will find what you're looking for here:

  Gaffs (https://www.susans.org/wiki/Tucking_and_Taping#Gaffs)

An article on how to make yor own Gaff.

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Shelley on February 04, 2006, 03:13:05 AM
QuoteWhat would be ideal would be a corset device one that squashed and flattened.

Sort of along the lines of it lifts as it seperates type thinking. :D

Shelley

Do you have playtex over there because I'm thinking if not this post won't make sense.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: stephanie_craxford on February 04, 2006, 06:12:51 AM
Quote from:  ShelleyDo you have playtex over there because I'm thinking if not this post won't make sense.

We sure do :)

Steph
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Terra on February 14, 2006, 10:08:41 PM
Hmm, I really not to sure about the razor bit. Is it possible to use something like nair? Or is it like using it on your chest and accidently getting some on your nipples. (Luckily my nipples arn't sensitive...yet. Can't imagine the pain if they were. ><)

Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sara on February 15, 2006, 12:25:51 AM
I dont know if anyone else has tried this but Panty Liners seem to hold it in place by doing what Steph said with pulling the scrotum back with one hand and pulling the thing with your other hand then pull up your pants. It works with me cause I dont have any thing to pop out but I think it should work for others too.

It can get a little uncomfortable on long drives but rubbing helps until you get to where you are going.

Sara.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: th89 on February 21, 2006, 09:35:18 PM
Did you say you have both? and that one was shrunk up so much....

Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Jennifer72 on April 19, 2006, 01:45:31 AM
You could always use duct tape and then staple the ends in place whip

If the staples don't hold, you could always try screws.  Evil


At least no one mentioned the nail gun! lol. I really don't have too much of a problem with the bulges myself. I'm a pretty big girl, so my natural bluge covers the smaller bulge! I do have a problem with my scrotum and cheeky panties sometimes though. So I will read the article on gaffs maybe something useful there.
Title: Re: Getting rid of the buldge without getting rid of the equipment
Post by: Sandi on April 19, 2006, 03:21:50 AM
After reading all of the techniques in Wiki as well as in this thread it occurs to me that none are close to the method that works well for me, although Sara came close mentioning the panty liners. My method works so well that I can wear a bikini, although only in the backyard for a tan. I'm much beyond the years for wearing one at the beach. Nor do I use the hotdog and bun as it is far too uncomfortable let alone painful removing the tape, and unnecessary. My method is the result of years of trial and error (some painful errors).

Two panty liners will be put in place in a narrowed X fashion so that there is no gap between the X at the ends. The narrow part of the X goes where the narrowest part of the bikini bottom is narrowest. This way all of the sensitive areas are protected from the nasty duct tape.

Needed:
Two panty liners.
Four short duct tapes @ 2.5 inches.
Three long duct tapes @ 8 inches.

Prep: Remove the protective strips from the liners and place a short piece of duct tape on each end. The duct tape goes on the nop-sticky side of the liner so that you end up with the sticky side of both tape and liner on the same side.

Step 1: While holding everything tucked and in place, starting from the front put one taped end of a taped pany liner just above the genitles. Keeping it tight bring it over the genitles and tape at the back. Do the same with the second taped liner. Note that both should be offset in the narrowed X explained above.

Step 2: Put a long piece of duct tape over each of the taped liners.

Step 3: Place the remaining long duct tape in the center. It is this last piece of tape that will flatten any remaining center bulge which always seems to be present.

Note: If you plan to wear a bikini it may take some trial and error to get the edges positioned just right, so that they don't peek out causing an embarassing situation.

Now you can not only wear any outfit with confidence including a swimsuit, but you don't have to go through agony when removing the tuck because none of the duct tape is over sensitive areas. It's bad enough removing it from lesser sensitive skin. The reason for keeping the sticky side of the liners towards the skin is that they do a very good job of keeping things from slipping out of place, and they are not sticky enough to cause even the slightest discomfort in removal.

This works so well that my neighbor came over one day while I was sunbathing in the backyard. She was stunned and asked when I had surgery done.