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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: RevanDFS on February 15, 2016, 06:08:49 PM

Title: Dating
Post by: RevanDFS on February 15, 2016, 06:08:49 PM
I'm divorced and I'm ready to date. I'm on okcupid and PoF. Is there any other good site for me. I did google sreach a lot of them seem to sexual? I Need help.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Devlyn on February 15, 2016, 06:20:30 PM
I'm on both of those sites. I do better on OKCupid. We have a  Dating & Personals  (https://www.susans.org/links/Links_Directory/Dating_&_Personals/) section in the Links Directory. Hope you find someone!

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: suzifrommd on February 15, 2016, 07:12:33 PM
POF has been a waste of time. OKCupid gives me some hits now and then. There is also TransgenderDate.com.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: RevanDFS on February 24, 2016, 08:06:49 AM
thank you
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ERPassionflower on February 24, 2016, 02:23:30 PM
Quote from: RevanDFS on February 15, 2016, 06:08:49 PM
I'm divorced and I'm ready to date. I'm on okcupid and PoF. Is there any other good site for me. I did google sreach a lot of them seem to sexual? I Need help.

Hi,

I personally got tons of sexually based messages when I was on Pof or Okcupid... It was starting to make me feel like I wasn't going to find the right man for me. I personally decided to close my accounts and commit to some activities like cooking courses/ coed basket ball or local lgbtq events instead. I'm still waiting for results, but I feel there's a bigger likelyhood of finding someone compatible if you meet them doing activities you enjoy.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: OCAnne on February 24, 2016, 02:47:24 PM
OKCupid, Grindr (Trans), transgenderdate .com and Craigslist (t4m) work well for me.
Real dates with decent guys.
Happy hunting  :P

EOM
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Angélique LaCava on February 24, 2016, 04:13:48 PM
If u go on things that r strictly for transgenders ur goin to get ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s. There's guys everywhere who just want sex no matter where u meet them.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Laura_7 on February 24, 2016, 04:29:41 PM
Quote from: Angélique LaCava on February 24, 2016, 04:13:48 PM
If u go on things that r strictly for transgenders ur goin to get ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s. There's guys everywhere who just want sex no matter where u meet them.

Well imo there are ->-bleeped-<-s who are annoying...
and there are admirers who are respectful and want a partnership...

maybe saying you are looking for a long term partnership helps... (if that is the case)

Quote from: RevanDFS on February 15, 2016, 06:08:49 PM
I'm divorced and I'm ready to date. I'm on okcupid and PoF. Is there any other good site for me. I did google sreach a lot of them seem to sexual? I Need help.

Well have you looked at a few profiles of people of your gender you might like ? Imo a profile is important... you might incorporate a few passages you like... of course not copied word for word, but given in your expressions...
and you might include a few things that describe you... not only expressions many others use...
like what makes you laugh... what you like to spend your time on, in a descriptive way ...

also it might be necessary to go through a lot of candidates... sticking to those you have a really good feeling with ...
its possible to skype, or voice chat with a few candidates... so its not only written communication...
just observe basic safety rules, its possible to make an account on skype only for date chatting...


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